Trying before AF?

[mrs_swj2be]

congratulations flapjack so happy for.x

 

[twister7]

WOW, Brilliant news Flapjack, so so happy for you, I'm so surprised as you genuinely sounded like you were not expecting that. Good for you, have a H&H 9 months....
Looks like that twitch in the eye was a sign all along..
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[flapjack10]

Yep the twitchy eye must be a symptom! I'll tell FF to add it to their list!

Symptoms - Hmmm, no symptoms really expect the last couple of days very mild cramps and lower back ache. Last night, I had ouchy boobs and thought here comes the witch.

Can't believe it. Still in complete shock.

I don't know what the docs will say. I hope they don't just dismiss as some crazy nut and actually help me by maybe booking me in for a test or something.

xxx

 

[Storm7]

After your two previous mc they should book you in for and early scan and refer you to an early pregnancy unit. Or at least that is what I have been told will happening if I am lucky enough to get another BFP. Also apparently you get further if you push hard and/or cry. Hopefully they will be supportive.

 

[flapjack10]

I hope they do something! Even if it's just a placebo!

I'm sending you all and prayers!

xxxx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Wow flapjack congratulations!!!! What a lovely shock for you, you really didn't sound like you were expecting it this month! Oooooooo I'm so happy!! It gives me so much hope! Really hope you have a sticky one!

After my miscarriage the early pregnancy unit said they will see me as soon as I get pregnant again and said they would scan me at 6-8 weeks for reassurance which was really nice of them to say, keep pestering your doctor, but most importantly relax and enjoy it

 

[xxemmyxx]

Also flapjack LOL at all the tests you have done already! We are all going to be bankrupt with the amount we spend on sticks!!

 

[flapjack10]

Thanks emmy Mine have been really early losses though so hope they take me seriously.

Also flapjack LOL at all the tests you have done already! We are all going to be bankrupt with the amount we spend on sticks!!

I know!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Early losses are still losses and it could be nothing you could prevent or it could be something they can help to prevent happening again so I defo think you should kick up a fuss, so happy for you I'm excited as it really makes it feel possible for me to be pregnant again

 

[flapjack10]

I'll ty my best to kick up a fuss! Blimmim' NHS!

You definitely will emmy, you will get your rainbow!

I said to my OH this morning, even if this doesn't work out, we're so lucky to have seen those lines on a pg test and to see "pregnant" on a digi. Some people try for years and never get this far.

xxx

 

[twister7]

What do you think to this OPK ladies? Positive or on my way to a positive lol.....?
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PS I know I am sad.....

 

[CherylC3]

Twister get if it's not positive it will be tomoro so yeh u will be in the 2ww with me

 

[twister7]

Will have to ask the neighbours, OH is at work.... lol
xxxxxx

 

[CherylC3]

Lol as sn as he's home pounce on him lol..cxx

 

[twister7]

How many DPO are you now Cheryl? xx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

I'll ty my best to kick up a fuss! Blimmim' NHS!

You definitely will emmy, you will get your rainbow!

I said to my OH this morning, even if this doesn't work out, we're so lucky to have seen those lines on a pg test and to see "pregnant" on a digi. Some people try for years and never get this far.

xxx

congratulations again but just wanted to say how true that is what you said to your OH i felt to lucky after 3yrs5mnths to see that word 'pregnant' on a test as thought i would never see it. xxx

kick up at the drs fro the test that you want. nothing comes without a fight these days espesially with the nhs.

 

[flapjack10]

Will have to ask the neighbours, OH is at work.... lol
xxxxxx

Yup get Bding! Nearly there now!

xxx

 

[CherylC3]

How many DPO are you now Cheryl? xx

Im 3dpo think I'm having symtoms but it's too early yet

I hate the 2ww

 

[Storm7]

What symptoms are you having Cheryl? I am symptom free and still doubting the OPK. I am going to try and wait till what I currently think is 13DPO like flapjack (amazing self control really paid off!). Being out of the country and therefore away from DH from 8DPO through to 13 DPO will likely help! So actually no real opportunity to test till 14DPO. I am going to be a symptom spotting nightmare next week - apologies in advance!

 

[flapjack10]

Urrrgh doctor's rang, no help really. Just told me to ring the midwives in a week and tell them my past and they may scan me earlier.
She even said "3 miscarriages is the guideline" - so they'll just leave me to miscarry so I can meet their guideline.

I know eveything will probably be ok, but still it's annoying to think I can't speak to an expert and they can't test my blood or just do something!

I just hate the way miscarriages are viewed as "normal" and you just have to get on with it...