Trying before AF?

Mummywants2be - I am sorry, that must be awful, not that you'd want anything to happen to her but it's a constant reminder :-(

Cupcakebaby - that's a lovely line, YEAAAA! Can I just ask, as I can't remember, was this your first month of trying?

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Mummywants2be - I am sorry, that must be awful, not that you'd want anything to happen to her but it's a constant reminder :-(

Cupcakebaby - that's a lovely line, YEAAAA! Can I just ask, as I can't remember, was this your first month of trying?

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Thanks :)

Yes, I MC'd 34 days ago and O'd 11-13 days ago.

Bit worried that I've not had an AF, but hopefully my body has only done it because it was ready to.
 
Sorry cupcakebaby, if I'd read your signature I would have realised that! I am really pleased for you, you're my idol, I want to do the same! Trust your body, you're right it wouldn't have done it if it wasn't ready. Plus the only reason doctors say to wait a month is for dating and you know when you ovulated so will be fine :)

Did you cycle revert back to your normal pattern?

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I normally ovulate on CD 13/14 so no, I ovulated pretty late (CD 21/22 - counting CD1 as the day I passed the baby) but my ovulation felt the same as ever.

My EWCM was a little different (thicker), but that could be down to that I'd taken hayfever tablets for a couple of days (which i now feel guilty about!)

FX for you! Xxxxxxxx
 
Thanks cupcakebaby :)

I am hoping I O around normal time or a week later as I am away with work for 4 days and I don't want it to be then otherwise we'll miss our chance!

x
 
Fx for you.

Although if I Od the day I think I did then we only BDd 5 days before and 2 days after....

So I don't have a clue which one of those two times it was.
 
Awww Mrs S, sorry to hear you feeling so down :hugs:

It gets to you some days more than other doesn't it? I would have been about 26 weeks now and I still get really upset thinking about the "if only's", the littlest things can trigger a memory that was supposed to be happening now and isnt. I can remember thinking that once Autumn was here I would feel proper pregnant and be able to feel strong movements and know the sex, would imagine saterday's night curled up on the sofa watching Merlin and Strictly while feeling so happy and content with a xmas baby just around the corner..:(. Sounds really silly now but still makes me cry.....
I hope you find some positives Mrs S, sending you big hugs :hugs:
Where are you in your Cycle ATM, Im 3DPO *I think* lol
xxxxxxxxxxxx

thankyou .i am on cd 8 and got back to bd'ing this morning but just not got that PMA at the moment but i do suffer from depresion so think it might be that dragging me down at the moment but i think that is to be expected.

fx'd for you in your 2ww :)
 
Hi, just looking at this forum as am in the same boat. Is nice to see success story with cupcake :) I had missed miscarriage at 12 weeks scan on 22/08. Baby had only developed to 9 weeks. Also had a missed miscarriage with exact same dates in 2008. Had my daughter after that who is now 2 so found it much more easier to cope with this time, just knowing I have her. I've had EWCM from yesterday, only a week on from D&C, surely this is too early to start ovulating. I only bled for one day and usually ovulate early on. Have 24-27 day cycles and know I conceived DD day 8, 9 or 10. I used CBFM to conceive her and will agin after I get AF. Still getting positive test result on preg test so is it possible to be building up to ovulation? Tested this afternoon using preg test and ovulation test and both positive, as I realise OPk also detects preg hormone. Is all so confusing!
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Can I join you guys? I had a miscarriage one week ago at 9 weeks and am just about done bleeding. :cry: I am looking to the future though and will be NTNP for this first month and then TTC immediately after I get first AF (although hoping AF never shows and I get a BFP instead).

Cupcake you give me hope! Congrats on your BFP! :hugs:
 
Hi ladies. :)

Thanks for the congrats. It is really scary though and of course I'm hoping with all my heart that in 9 months I'll have a baby to snuggle it is scary and surreal being pregnant already.

I also feel that the miscarriage really takes away the innocence of it all. :( last time DH and I were giddy with joy. This time we're cautious and worried and it makes me feel guilty for this little bean that I'm not putting my hand on my belly or thinking to it yet.

I think it's also that I feel like I love the last baby still and that maybe its wrong having a new one in where it used to be.

Of course I know that if this baby is our rainbow and we see it on a scan and feel it kick etc that we'll love it to the moon and back but at the moment I just feel bad for feeling more attached to the first baby.

Of course I'm not doing anything I shouldn't, have given up caffeine and alcohol again.

I hope you all get your BFPs super fast but I think after a loss it's never going to feel quite as magical again.

But I'll always be here of any of you want to talk. Xxx
 
Hi ladies. Just thought I would see how you're doing?

Twister - how is the 2ww treating you?
 
Hiya Storm, hows things with you?

Im a bit annoyed because someone has made the 2WW longer and didn't tell me lol, it seems to be going Sooooooooooo slow, Im only 6DPO, been getting symptoms but only symptoms that are reflected by both AF and pregnancy, FX ey. I dont get very excited thinking things tbh as it took my a long time to get pregnant in the first place..... xxx
 
Good luck twister! I hope you get your BFP in a few days :thumbup:

Storm and Cupcake, I can't wait to hear the great news following appointments that your rainbow babies are healthy! I know it's hard not to worry after a loss, but I'm excited and hopeful for both of you!

I've started drinking red raspberry leaf tea and pomegranate juice as I heard they both help thicken your uterine lining and if I'm lucky enough to get a BFP right away, I want to help my body be 100% ready for the baby to grow.
 
Hey guys, can i join?? :))

I had a mmc at 10 weeks but baby was only 6 weeks :( ..i bled from the 14th till the 26th of august ..For those who have a strong eye for cm and ovulation: i had a few dry days...and since the 30th been experiencing some CM..TMI 30/8 it was thick white and chunky..31st it was thinner but alot very stretchy yellowish white...Today 1spetember, its been clear/white very stretchy still but less than yesterday...Is that ovulation? Im not really ttc but i'm not being careful at all and it would be awesome to be pregnant before af (thats the plan yet im not stressing on it)..and congrats to all the bfps and baby dust to all the rest of us :)
 
Hiiiiiiii ladies!!! I'm back!! Hope ur all well :hugs:

Storm!! Congratulations!!! So happy for u!

Hello new ladies :dust:

AFM: oh my god I'm still bleeding!! Bled the whole holiday!! Wtf??? 3 weeks of spotting/bleeding now, for those of you who don't know this s my second cycle since mc and I had 1 normal cycle so this random 3 week bleed is really upsetting/frustrating!! I can't BD and I doubt I'm ovulating, so I assume I'm out this cycle too
I'm going to call doctors on Monday as this bleeding doesn't look like is stopping, I had a lovely holiday but this is really pissing me off now
 
Hey guys, can i join?? :))

I had a mmc at 10 weeks but baby was only 6 weeks :( ..i bled from the 14th till the 26th of august ..For those who have a strong eye for cm and ovulation: i had a few dry days...and since the 30th been experiencing some CM..TMI 30/8 it was thick white and chunky..31st it was thinner but alot very stretchy yellowish white...Today 1spetember, its been clear/white very stretchy still but less than yesterday...Is that ovulation? Im not really ttc but i'm not being careful at all and it would be awesome to be pregnant before af (thats the plan yet im not stressing on it)..and congrats to all the bfps and baby dust to all the rest of us :)

I O'd 3 weeks after my MC at 9 weeks (baby measured 7 but we'd seen a HB at 8 so it was little)

I got CM but not much compared to a normal cycle and it was thicker and sometimes yellow.

Turns out it isn't matter that it was a bit unusual, DH sperm must've liked it well enough.

Good luck to you sweetie. Xxxx
 

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