Trying before AF?

[Storm7]

Twister - I am doing ok. Worrying a little too much but that's to be expected I guess. The 2ww does drag on... It is frustrating that the same signs signal AF and BFP!

Emmy - welcome back! Glad you had a good holiday but sorry you are having AF issues. I think a trip to the doctors is definitely called for.

Welcome to the new ladies and lots of to you all.

 

[Laubull]

Catchbabydust, clear stretchy cm is a very good ovulation sign! I'm now 3 weeks post mc and think I ovulated Friday according to my temps but my cm isn't like it normally is, no ewcm at all! Fingers crossed we've caught the egg, in saying that I feel incredibly relaxed about it at the moment, hopefully that'll make the 2ww ok....yeah right!!

Emmy, sorry about the bleeding, hope the docs help.

Twister, hope the 2ww goes ok

Cupcake baby/storm - yeaaa to your beans! They WILL be sticky

X

 

[xxemmyxx]

Having a really bad day my family have just plucked up the courage to tell me my cousin is expecting a baby and it's due the same week mine was

 

[CupcakeBaby]

Oh Emmy. Xxxxxxxx

How heartbreaking for you. I've been dreading the same thing happening to me as I know it would rip me apart.

Please, please, as hard as it is remember that just because she's pregnant doesn't mean you can't be. And it's nothing but horrible luck.

One day soon you'll be holding a beautiful perfect baby and you'll look into its eyes and realise that without going through this they wouldn't have gotten here.

It may seem dark at the minute but the world is a lovely place and things will work out in time. Xxxxxx

 

[Laubull]

Oh Emmy I'm really sorry I can completely relate to how you feel. Cupcake is right though, soon you'll be holding your gorgeous bundle of joy

I'm really feeling the loss of my first bean at the mo, I was due halloween and keep bumping into people due around then....one even said last night "we weren't even trying"! You can imagine what went through my head!!

X

 

[twister7]

So sorry Emmy I hope the future holds so much happiness for you xxx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Thank you all so much! I know it will happen for me one day but I'm feelin like jeez give me a break!! She is due the same week as I was!! So now I get to watch her pregnancy progress and typically she wasn't trying, she isn't even 100% who the dad is! Like come on seriously??

Just needed to rant for a bit! On the plus side the bleeding has disappeared today, it was there every day for my holiday but the day I get back it's gone, typical!

Hope ur all ok, thanks for being there xx

 

[CatchBabyDust]

Thank you all so much! I know it will happen for me one day but I'm feelin like jeez give me a break!! She is due the same week as I was!! So now I get to watch her pregnancy progress and typically she wasn't trying, she isn't even 100% who the dad is! Like come on seriously??

Just needed to rant for a bit! On the plus side the bleeding has disappeared today, it was there every day for my holiday but the day I get back it's gone, typical!

Hope ur all ok, thanks for being there xx

I know how you feeeel!! I have a cousin who got pregnant around the time i did as well... I knew that before i mc..however, yesterday i found out that another relative is pregnant and also about the same time Don't get me wrong i'm happy for both of them but it would be soooo hard watching them progress and i'm still not sure when i'll be pregnant again..its just heart breaking ITs also sooo much pressure..i feel the urges to catch up I remember before i found out i was pregnant, one of them was experiencing the same symptoms (we both didnt know we were pregnant) ..and it's all coming back to me i get so depressed thinking that i'm no longer pregnant..it's like 2/3 pregnancies will continue..thats all i can think .. i hope we wont wait alot till we get our BFPs ..GL and know u're not alone

 

[xxemmyxx]

Thank you, sorry about the circumstances but nice to know I'm not the only one! I know people are suffering a lot more than me in the world but sometimes I just feel like oh havnt I had enough now?? give me a BFP!!
I am so happy for my cousin but until I get pregnant again I will constantly look at her and the baby and be jealous or sad I can't help it! And I know I am staying with them at Xmas so I feel pressure to be pregnant by then or I won't cope!

Come on give me a baby now!!!

 

[flapjack10]

Right girls, I'm complete pleb and somehow managed to unsubscribe to this thread!

I've missed so much!

CONGRATS STORM! I'm so so so so happy for you! I'm doing a sticky dance for you!

Congrats to Cupcake too! Two BFPs! How amazing!

to atsw, becky and CatchBD. I'm sorry for your losses and sending loads of PMA and sticky vibes to you! GL getting your rainbow!

Twister the TWW is rubbish! GL hun I hope this is your BFP.

Emmy - 3 week bleed?! No way! That's crazy get yourself to the docs hun. How rubbish to have that on holiday too... Hope you had a good time anyway! Sorry about your cousin... I know how you feel is all I can say.

AFM - My results came back as normal from my blood tests, so I am being referred to for further testing. Had my first AF after the last MC and really want to start trying again, but my hubby wants to wait another month or until we have been referred to the Womens. Party pooper!

xxx

 

[mummy2o]

Bleeding has finally stopped so ready to try again. Going for NTNP until AF then TTC afterwards.

Congrats cupcake for the BFP)

Sorry emmy and catchBD that it has happened. I can't begin imagine how annoying it is being constantly reminded

 

[twister7]

Hiya Flapjack, longtime no see lol...

That's good news about your bloods ( Is it?) I just figure its good they have not found any mishaps...

AFM tested this morning at 8DPO and no even the squintest of lines.... My temp had a huge spike though this morning from 36.53 yesterday to 37.12 this morning, anyone know if that means anything?
xxxx

 

[flapjack10]

GL mummy2o!

Thanks Twister! I think it's good news! I'm not sure TBH.

I don't know if the temp means anything, but I do know that 8dpo is still really early hun!

xxx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

hey every body sorry been quiet again fro a while been absolutly manic for me.
welocome to all the new ladies and sorry for you loss/

it has been our local fair and carnival this weekend and my friends 21st so been out with alot of the family for all the different events.
but found it really hard this year as every one else had their children with them and then there was me on my own.

also i was ment to be going to antenatel classes with my friend starting this afternoon. but she text me about an hour ago to say her baby dad is going instead so although i do agree that it is his place i cant help thinking that she knew how much i had put aside my own emotions and agreed to go with her because he said 'he couldnt be bothered' and now i kinda feel a bit dumped and let down.

sorry for ranting just having a down month i think.

 

[flapjack10]

I would be ranting about that too Mrs_S! That must have taken a lot for you to agree to something like antenatal classes and then she just dumps you? That is not on

Well, one day soon you'll be going to your own antenatal classes for your rainbow baby.

 

[mrs_swj2be]

i feel a bit guilty though for feeling like this as it is their baby not mine... so by rights he should be there. and i suppose it is a good thing that he is starting to take an interest in the bump but i am suppose to be at the birth and am now wondering if they will dump me for that as well.

at least i know when i get my rainbow it will loved so much and we will be all the more gratful after eveything that we have been through.

i have been told to try and occupy my self so that i dont continusly think about thing so i am teaching my self to crochet and i am going to make a lovely blanket for when we do get our rainbow.

also annoyed as i had a gp appointment today to discuss my hospital app and i canceled it so i could be there foro her so now got to wait till next week to see my gp

 

[beckysprayer]

Mrs. SWJ - I'm so sorry about your friend. It's good that the dad is stepping up, but how painful and annoying for you. You are such a good friend to agree to do all of that for her in the first place, especially after your loss. I hope she realizes that

Twister - I don't know much about temping, but could this spike be the start of a triphasic chart? If it is, that's a very good sign!

mummy2o- Good luck! I hope you get a BFP this first month!

Emmy - So sorry about your cousin. Good for her, but that must be so hard to have a constant reminder of what you lost.

Flapjack - Sorry your DH wants to wait another month, but that's good (right?) that your blood work all came back normal.

AFM - I tested this morning (one week after miscarriage) and got a BFN. I'm so happy all of the HCG is out of my system. I'm still bleeding some though. Sorry for TMI, but it's like bloody eggwhite cm. Shiny, stretchy,but dark red or brown instead of clear. I'm hoping this is just leftover blood mixing with cm.

 

[twister7]

Hope you all ok, been a lot of "down time" for you all lately..

Just wanted to pick your brains a little if thats ok...
I tested this morning 9DPO with FRER and got a BFN, it's the first time I have ever tried a FRER and it said on the box accurate result 6 days before AF, so my question is, is that it for me this month or has anyone had experience with this brand and had a negative around 9DPO and then gone on to get a positive.....
Straws and clutching spring to mind....lol
xxxx

 

[Storm7]

That is not it for you. I used a FRER last month when I thought I was 11 DPO and got a BFN and got my BFP later that month.

 

[Storm7]

Welcome back flapjack! Glad all is ok and hope the women's give you some answers.

MrsS - I would have been mad too.

Emmy - been there. DH cousin and a friend of ours had the same due date as our first mc. I was so jealous and then his cousins daughter was born the day I had my second mc. It does hurt but the hurting seems to fade.

Beckysprayer - time I start baby making!