Trying before AF?

[xxemmyxx]

Hiya flapjack I'm here! Hi everyone else! I have been watching but I'm just a bit frustrated I can't really join in that much right now! My doctor who referred me cus I had retained products after mc has had a family bereavement and is out the country so I have been forgotten about!! I have called every doctor and hospital consultant I can get my hands on and no one is interested they r just telling me to wait for my gynocology appointment! I feel like I can't do anything I am just sitting here waiting and I don't know if I am even ovulating, I just had such a heavy period, heaviest I ever had so maybe that got it all out so knows!?
I am using the clear blue fertility monitor and I'm on cd13 and got high fertility for last 2 days so that is really good but just going to wait and see if it shows a peak and ovulate xx

 

[flapjack10]

Fingers crossed for you hun. Such a frustrating time. I hope you get the answers soon!

Xxx

 

[beckysprayer]

Hiya flapjack I'm here! Hi everyone else! I have been watching but I'm just a bit frustrated I can't really join in that much right now! My doctor who referred me cus I had retained products after mc has had a family bereavement and is out the country so I have been forgotten about!! I have called every doctor and hospital consultant I can get my hands on and no one is interested they r just telling me to wait for my gynocology appointment! I feel like I can't do anything I am just sitting here waiting and I don't know if I am even ovulating, I just had such a heavy period, heaviest I ever had so maybe that got it all out so knows!?
I am using the clear blue fertility monitor and I'm on cd13 and got high fertility for last 2 days so that is really good but just going to wait and see if it shows a peak and ovulate xx

So sorry you are being looked over with the doctor right now. I can't believe no other doctor would even see you, that's crazy! I've never heard of that!

Good to hear you got a high fertility reading, I bet O is just around the corner.

Oh no mrs s. At least you have your mind else where other than the tww! hope baby and mum are both doing well and hope you get your BFP this month also.

No Becky don't say that. I think I would panic if I did manage to become pregnant with twins! Luckily I got a BFN today so finally 1dpo for me. Just 13 to go before testing....

I guess there is no real answer libbysmum. I always tested after AF. With my son I was on the pill and I didn't even realise I could be pregnant until I didn't get my AF. With my loss I waited a few days after my AF. With this I should hold out until midnight on the 9th november as oh b'day on the 8th and mine is the 9th. However I doubt I can wait that long but doubt I'll test until the end of october at least

TWW! I hope you get a lovely little rainbow baby for your birthday!

 

[Babee_Bugs]

Hi ladies! Do you mind if I join you? I had my D&C 2 weeks ago after a MMC and today I got my first FMU BFN. I'm using the CBFM, but am still getting low readings. Just gutted. How long was it before you guys ovulated? I know my cycles are shot to hell and I know I probably won't ovulate.

Hey hunnie i had a d&C on a 12week loss, within 6 weeks of the D&C date i had a New BFP and was pregnant. Sadly though that ended in a natural miscarriage at 7weeks and 6days I never got a BFN though and so i believe i had retained tissue as i was bleeding heavy throughout that pregnancy.

That MC was completely Natural no tablets etc... i found out i was pregnant with this baby now within 5 weeks (i got BFNs after 3 weeks after miscarriage was confirmed, got BFNS for 2 weeks, before the New BFP) so far everything is good.

It can happen, but its very very frustrating when you just want to either get a new BFP or get AF!

 

[xxemmyxx]

I know it's crazy isn't it! My doctor referred me urgently to the gynocology unit at the hospital, apparently faxed it over as an emergency and then my doctor went abroad and since then no one else cares! They just say I have to wait for an appointment, that was on the 4th October, so hardly treating me like its an emergency! I have another appointment with a different doctor tomoro night to try and get their attention a bit! I had 2 lots of antibiotics to take and finished both of those so now I'm really hoping they sorted it out! They r useless, I had blood taken on the second day of my cycle when my period started, I got a letter saying I needed to go and discuss the results with my GP but obviously she has gone away so I rang them to speak to a doctor and he said my progesterone was only 3 but it was the 2nd day of my period, progesterone is meant to be low then isn't it!?? I thought it increased around ovulation, anyone else think the same? So he clearly doesn't know what he is talking about!! Grrrrr

 

[mummy2o]

Poor emmy. Can't believe that horrible luck your having

AFM the believe the reason I miscarried is that I have chlamydia. Not sure how as my OH and I decided to test after our last sexual encounters before getting together, but I guess it does take a while to settle if one of us tested to early. Anyway taking antibotics which are safe in pregnancies as the doctor eventually agreed I could be pregnant. I honestly do think if the doctors spent just 10 minutes on these forums they know a lot more about how women get pregnant!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Finally got a doctor to listen to me!! Got an emergency scan tomorrow morning, hopefully will know what's going on after this!
Mummy2o oh no that's not nice to find out, hope it's sorted out now with antibiotics and u can try again! Me an OH also got tested just before we started a relationship so I must admit if that happened to me I would totally blame OH so ur very trusting! Xx

 

[Libbysmum]

Stupid Doctors! They earn so much money they can afford nice overseas holidays meanwhile their poor patients are left in limbo...horrible! We had a similar situation when I was pregnant with my first child...The doctor was like...well I will be away for the next 3 months so someone else will have to take care of your pregnancy...It isn't nice at all.
I had a small pain in my side yesterday...I wonder if I am ovulating? I am hoping that is what the pain was.

 

[flapjack10]

Glad things are finally getting sorted emmy! Let us know how the scan goes!

xxx

 

[mummy2o]

Emmy generally I would be like that, but I think its different this time. He's very open and honest to me, won't lock his phone or computer so I check it as much as I like, even in the beginning of the relationship I was so paranoid he'd cheat on me due to a past relationship he put a tracking device on his phone so I knew where he was at all times. So I highly doubt he's done anything, and I know I haven't. So I guess it was just missed.

Anyway good luck on your scan today. FX that it all goes well for you.

Libbysmum good luck if it was and welcome to the tww.

Flapjack when will you be testing? I know it will be soon.

 

[flapjack10]

I'd trust my husband too mummy2o!

Thinking of starting testing on Friday. 6dpo today and back at work so got that to distract me.

How are you holding up?

xxx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Mummy2o ur right u have nothing to worry about, I would trust my OH too and thinking about it it's hard to know when/who it came from, better to just focus on what u both want now and that's a baby

Just got back from hospital, bit confused, had scan and they said I don't have retained products now and I should just wait until my next period comes and if I'm not pregnant then I can start taking hormones to regulate my cycle...hmm guess I'm waiting to ovulate/2ww too

 

[flapjack10]

Say what? Wish they'd make up their minds! Oh well at least you can get back on it now!

Sticky BFP is in your future!

xxx

 

[xxemmyxx]

I know they are crazy! I have been panicking so much but oh we'll let's see what happens! And ur 6dpo ur almost half way there! R u testing Friday? How many dpo did u get r other bfp's? Xx

 

[flapjack10]

Well here's hoping to the start of your BFP!

Yup thinking I'll start testing at 8dpo. My first BFP I had a squinted at 8dpo, second at 12dpo and third at 13dpo (I didn't want to test early for those ones, but now I want to).

 

[xxemmyxx]

Yeah no harm testing early as long as u don't mind a few squinty faint lines for a bit! U got twitchy eye yet? X

 

[markswife10]

Baby dust everyone!!!

AFM, I'm 1 DPO today, had my thermal shift today. Praying there's a lil one in there forming.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Baby dust everyone!!!

AFM, I'm 1 DPO today, had my thermal shift today. Praying there's a lil one in there forming.

Good luck xx

 

[mummy2o]

Emmy that's annoying news. Good luck in your ovulating/waiting game. I guess that must be really frustrating.

Flapjack, I'm good. 3dpo right now and still symptom spotting as bad as ever. I don't think I will ever learn to be honest.

markswife glad you can come and join us impatient ladies on our 2ww. Good luck.

 

[aknqtpie]

Hi Ladies,

I thought I would jump on here. I am currently on week 2 of bleeding from my M/C, but hopefully it will start to calm down soon. Even though my doctor told me to wait a cycle, I am thinking about at least NTNP this month. I think the next time I talk to my Doctors office I will talk with her about that. I just am feeling quite impatient.