Trying before AF?

[mummy2o]

Not out yet, but got loads of CM when I peed earlier so guessing I'm waiting for AF. Wish she would hurry up

 

[markswife10]

Tested today at 9 DPO, BFN Expecting AF Tuesday... I know it is still early but I would honestly be shocked if I got a BFP this month since I'm not feeling it at all, no symptoms. I don't feel at all like I did when I was pregnant and my cervix doesn't feel like it did when I was pregnant either. Also haven't had IB which I had last time I was pregnant. I expect AF. Booo though!

 

[vietmamsie]

Fail. Tested again. BFN. Have cramps today. I think AF is right around the corner. My cramps were a little different last time. Honestly, I don't really care either way (obviously I would rather end up pregnant!) but I am just so ready for this cycle to be over and move on to the next. I want to try to move on from this MC and get excited by TTC again. This cycle has been a drag.

 

[Libbysmum]

Got back from Doctors and it's good news ladies! Just had round 2 of bloods I asked them to check my iron and vitamin d levels as they were low last time. He said my blood pressure was a little bit on the high side. I had problems with that with my first pregnancy so am hoping it is lower next time I see him on Tuesday as I really do not want to take extra drugs unless I need to. If all goes well I am due July 1st! Same day as the Hubby's birthday which will be hilarious if his entire birthday is spent with me in labor! ah poor man!

 

[aknqtpie]

! Same day as the Hubby's birthday which will be hilarious if his entire birthday is spent with me in labor! ah poor man!

That's what he gets for knocking you up!! jk...

Congrats again!!

 

[mummy2o]

Congrulations libby. We said don't worry that it wasn't positive at the doctors as your just 4 weeks.

AFM I haven't tested again. Put a tampon in before bed as expected start of period but hasn't started yet. Wish it hurry up.

 

[mrs_swj2be]

hi hope everyone is ok. i am after some advice i am now 19dpo on a 32 day cycle so about 5 days late. and absolutly petrified if i do a test and its neg i willl be gutted but if i do a test and its pos i will be so scared that i might lose it again.
i have no preg signs so feeling rather confused.
also can i do a test at any time of day

 

[mummy2o]

With my son I had no pregnancy signs at all nearly all of my pregnancy. The only reason I tested as I was on the pill and hadn't had my period in between. Even after that the only symptom I had was peeing and then later on him kicking. It is one of the those catch 22 things. Have you been later than this before? If not, then it would be a good time to test.

 

[flapjack10]

Tested today at 9 DPO, BFN Expecting AF Tuesday... I know it is still early but I would honestly be shocked if I got a BFP this month since I'm not feeling it at all, no symptoms. I don't feel at all like I did when I was pregnant and my cervix doesn't feel like it did when I was pregnant either. Also haven't had IB which I had last time I was pregnant. I expect AF. Booo though!

Boooooo! I hope it's a shy BFP.

Fail. Tested again. BFN. Have cramps today. I think AF is right around the corner. My cramps were a little different last time. Honestly, I don't really care either way (obviously I would rather end up pregnant!) but I am just so ready for this cycle to be over and move on to the next. I want to try to move on from this MC and get excited by TTC again. This cycle has been a drag.

Either come or don't witch! She's being a meanie.

Got back from Doctors and it's good news ladies! Just had round 2 of bloods I asked them to check my iron and vitamin d levels as they were low last time. He said my blood pressure was a little bit on the high side. I had problems with that with my first pregnancy so am hoping it is lower next time I see him on Tuesday as I really do not want to take extra drugs unless I need to. If all goes well I am due July 1st! Same day as the Hubby's birthday which will be hilarious if his entire birthday is spent with me in labor! ah poor man!

Good for you hun! So excited for you!

Congrulations libby. We said don't worry that it wasn't positive at the doctors as your just 4 weeks.
AFM I haven't tested again. Put a tampon in before bed as expected start of period but hasn't started yet. Wish it hurry up.

hi hope everyone is ok. i am after some advice i am now 19dpo on a 32 day cycle so about 5 days late. and absolutly petrified if i do a test and its neg i willl be gutted but if i do a test and its pos i will be so scared that i might lose it again.
i have no preg signs so feeling rather confused.
also can i do a test at any time of day

I agree with mummy2. Have you had an AF this late before? If I remember rightly I think you mentioned you have really long cycles before? I'm so sorry you're in this position hun. I think don't test if a BFN is going to break your heart. If you can completely prepare yourself for the BFN then do it. If it's a BFP we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.

AFM - 4weeks 2days today. The day I lost my July bean. My tests aren't fainter like they were then so that gives me hope...

Love to you all
xxx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

hi i use to have really long cycles before my op last year but ever since then i have been s regular as clock work by 1 day roughly eaither way. but the last time i was this late was my little angel. i would have been 20weeks this weeks. i have got a drs appointment this morning for a check up so will ask them but think i will prob test.
at least i will know either way.

 

[flapjack10]

Good luck Mrs S. I'm sending you loads of PMA and


xxx

 

[xxemmyxx]

Mrs s from the things you are saying it sounds like bfn would upset u a bit right now, getting a BFP is a blessing but it also brings back tough memories,why don't u mention it to your GP and get them to test u to kind of take the pressure off u? I hope it's a BFP for u xx

I still know exactly how many weeks I would be by now I would be nearly 24 weeks, a viable baby, so hard I'm taking forever to get pregnant again!!

 

[flapjack10]

I know emmy I would have been viable with my first MC on my birthday (29th Aug) and it was really bittersweet. As my first due date approaches (22nd Dec) it makes me feel sad.

I know you'll get your BFP soon and that it'll be a sticky one. It'll be well worth the wait.

xxx

 

[vietmamsie]

I would be 10 weeks tomorrow. A 4th of the way there. It's really hard not to think about sometimes

Libby: So exciting! I really hope this is it for you! And your husband would love to spend his birthday in the L&D with you! I'm sure of it!

Mrs.swj: Agree with above, maybe it would help to have the doctor test you, take some of the pressure off. I really hope the best for you, I know how painful this is... I'm testing again in my first tww since my MC, and it's hard.

AFM, the cramps all went away and now I just feel really normal. I have no idea whats going on, I guess I just have to wait it out.

 

[mummy2o]

TBH I have no idea how far gone I'd been. Guess coming up to 20 weeks since my due date was near my sons birthday and my 20 weeks scan was on my birthday that is what I'm basing it on.

AFM AF has come. However I should be ovulating on my OH and my birthday his 8th and mine 9th so maybe it will be a birthday baby

 

[xxemmyxx]

TBH I have no idea how far gone I'd been. Guess coming up to 20 weeks since my due date was near my sons birthday and my 20 weeks scan was on my birthday that is what I'm basing it on.

AFM AF has come. However I should be ovulating on my OH and my birthday his 8th and mine 9th so maybe it will be a birthday baby

Fingers crossed its a birthday baby xx

 

[flapjack10]

FX crossed for a birthday baby! Lots of "special time" around then!

xxx

 

[mrs_swj2be]

hi i spoke to the dr and we dicided to get her to do the test as if bfn at least i know and if bfp either it sticks even if it makes worry or i m/c again but at least i would have know where as if i didnt test yet and i was bfp then i started bleeding before i found out it would be counted as a period not a m/c so sounds a bit harsh but at least the drs would know it would be 2 out of 3 m/c's so would be one step nearer getting soe help.
any way it was a BFN so a bit gutted but relieved at the same time at i know now and can try to relax even if i am gutted that it is another failed month.

 

[xxemmyxx]

hi i spoke to the dr and we dicided to get her to do the test as if bfn at least i know and if bfp either it sticks even if it makes worry or i m/c again but at least i would have know where as if i didnt test yet and i was bfp then i started bleeding before i found out it would be counted as a period not a m/c so sounds a bit harsh but at least the drs would know it would be 2 out of 3 m/c's so would be one step nearer getting soe help.
any way it was a BFN so a bit gutted but relieved at the same time at i know now and can try to relax even if i am gutted that it is another failed month.

So how late r u? Did they suggest why u might be late? Xx

 

[mummy2o]

Sorry to hear that mrs s It all sounded so positive too