Trying before AF?

[flapjack10]

Sorry Mrs S

 

[vietmamsie]

mummy2o - sorry for AF, on to the next cycle.

mrs.swj - It's good that you found out, now the pressure is off a bit.

AFM, high temp again, maybe FF is right and I am only 7dpo? I have no idea. Just got to keep waiting. If I am 12dpo, then AF is due today... but its no where in sight...

 

[mummy2o]

Keeping my FX for you until then vietmamise.

AFM I feel a bit crap. My cousin told me she might be pregnant. She slept with some random person whilst she was on holiday and already has a 3 month old. Who will just be 1 when this one is born. She doesn't even want the kid, but will keep it if she is. Just feels life isn't fair when I wanted the one I lost.

Anyway rant aside AF is lighter than normal, but putting it down to my mid cycle clot and the fact it takes a while to get your body back to sync after a mc.

 

[flapjack10]

Oh my God mummy2! Seriously! Are you sure you don't want to rant more than that? I would. That's crazy. How old is your cousin?

xxx

 

[Libbysmum]

I totally agree...if you don't want kids then don't sleep with random guys and for the love of everything sane and sensible use protection! I would rant my little heart out if it was me and my cousin...even though I love my cousin to pieces that is so irresponsible!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Keeping my FX for you until then vietmamise.

AFM I feel a bit crap. My cousin told me she might be pregnant. She slept with some random person whilst she was on holiday and already has a 3 month old. Who will just be 1 when this one is born. She doesn't even want the kid, but will keep it if she is. Just feels life isn't fair when I wanted the one I lost.

Anyway rant aside AF is lighter than normal, but putting it down to my mid cycle clot and the fact it takes a while to get your body back to sync after a mc.

Oh my god I'm having EXACTLY the same problem with my cousin I feel your pain!!! She is 22 weeks pregnant I would be 24 on Wednesday so we are so close I am watching her have what I should of had!! And she don't even know who the father is, it's between 2 men, she had one of those DNA tests that they do when your pregnant (it has a fancy name but I can't remember it) should find out who the dad is on Monday, one of them has done a runner anyway, she is 34 she isn't a young girl, she wants the baby but isn't with either of the men and its just so frustrating that it seems so easy for people who aren't ttc, really difficult for me to watch her pregnancy progress, she is having a boy
But to sleep with a random man when u have a 3 month old!? How did she find the time for unprotected sex...baffles me

 

[aknqtpie]

I feel the same way.. but we have to remember that even though it is easy for them, they are going to face different challenges in life then us who have been trying and lost and really want and can provide for our babies.

My DH put that into perspective for me when I was starting to go through my MC.. my 21 year old niece was 2 weeks a head of me with her 2nd child.. she is with the dad.. but it is hard when you see two kids get pregnant, and you are struggling.

 

[xxemmyxx]

I feel the same way.. but we have to remember that even though it is easy for them, they are going to face different challenges in life then us who have been trying and lost and really want and can provide for our babies.

My DH put that into perspective for me when I was starting to go through my MC.. my 21 year old niece was 2 weeks a head of me with her 2nd child.. she is with the dad.. but it is hard when you see two kids get pregnant, and you are struggling.

My OH did exactly the same and said although my cousin is blessed with a healthy baby boy she is going to face other challenges as you said with regards to the father and providing for the baby etc...it will happen for us one day ladies and it will be perfect

 

[mummy2o]

Thanks girls. My cousin is 23 but suffers from bi-polar as well giving it an extra challenge. But its her life so I can complain to much, just mine will be some what easier. I guess I just have to count my blessings so to speak. I have a wonderful OH and a wonderful easy going son.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Ok thought I would just post my thoughts, I'm feeling full of cold and under my duvet watching X factor so I'm up for a chat...
I been using the clear blue fertility monitor for first time this cycle, it showed high fertility from cd12 til today cd25 it went back to low, so I never got a peak,I know that can happen first cycle but I do worry cus I have never had a positive opk since the mc so I mightn't be ovulating...my cycle lengths are all over the place so hard to tell when AF is due, I did have one unusual thing this cycle is that on cd16 I had pink cm when I wiped that day and then nothing else, doctor said I should bd as it could be ovulation bleeding, I bd every other day of high fertility, sometimes more just to be safe (it's been exhausting lol) so maybe I did o around cd17 but cbfm didn't pick it up!? Anyway if I did I would be around 10dpo today, I did a cheap ic test yesterday with afternoon urine and it was stark white bfn...I'm going to try and wait till cd30 to test again which is on Tuesday, I could just be driving myself crazy with wishful thinking but I do have symptoms, cramping from 4dpo (suspected dpo anyway) and such sore boobs from 7dpo, today I feel really ill with a cold and extra bloated, if I get my period I'm going back to the doctors to try progesterone only pill for 2 months to regulate my cycles, this is what I had to do before my last BFP
Sorry for the long post and I don't suppose there's much anyone can say but I have nothing else to do lol! Thanks ladies xx

 

[aknqtpie]

emmy - Hopefully you did O and it just didn't pick it up. But keep documenting and what not, so if you go into the doctors office you can tell them what is going on and maybe they can give you something.

I am feeling cold and crampy as well today.. so I am curled up on my couch ready for a chat as well.. haha it was 10 F when I left the house today... still no snow, but I think our first sign of precipitation will be a nice dump of snow that will stick.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Wow that's cold!!! Do you enjoy the snow? Obviously we can't handle snow in London it's a total nightmare haha!

 

[aknqtpie]

Not particularly, but I am stuck dealing with it anyways... It is a mess here when we get a big snow fall and we don't have nearly the population as London, so I can imagine. Although you guys depend more on public transportation than we do (I think), so that probably helps. We always laugh when the lower 48 gets huge snow storms and everything comes to a stand still.. it takes a lot for them to close anything down here.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Not particularly, but I am stuck dealing with it anyways... It is a mess here when we get a big snow fall and we don't have nearly the population as London, so I can imagine. Although you guys depend more on public transportation than we do (I think), so that probably helps. We always laugh when the lower 48 gets huge snow storms and everything comes to a stand still.. it takes a lot for them to close anything down here.

Yeah where as everything is closed when it snows an inch here!! I don't know how u go out when it's that cold what do u wear?! Coldest it gets here is probably 0 degrees Celsius maybe minus 1 or 2

 

[jennyb86uk]

Ok thought I would just post my thoughts, I'm feeling full of cold and under my duvet watching X factor so I'm up for a chat...
I been using the clear blue fertility monitor for first time this cycle, it showed high fertility from cd12 til today cd25 it went back to low, so I never got a peak,I know that can happen first cycle but I do worry cus I have never had a positive opk since the mc so I mightn't be ovulating...my cycle lengths are all over the place so hard to tell when AF is due, I did have one unusual thing this cycle is that on cd16 I had pink cm when I wiped that day and then nothing else, doctor said I should bd as it could be ovulation bleeding, I bd every other day of high fertility, sometimes more just to be safe (it's been exhausting lol) so maybe I did o around cd17 but cbfm didn't pick it up!? Anyway if I did I would be around 10dpo today, I did a cheap ic test yesterday with afternoon urine and it was stark white bfn...I'm going to try and wait till cd30 to test again which is on Tuesday, I could just be driving myself crazy with wishful thinking but I do have symptoms, cramping from 4dpo (suspected dpo anyway) and such sore boobs from 7dpo, today I feel really ill with a cold and extra bloated, if I get my period I'm going back to the doctors to try progesterone only pill for 2 months to regulate my cycles, this is what I had to do before my last BFP
Sorry for the long post and I don't suppose there's much anyone can say but I have nothing else to do lol! Thanks ladies xx

Good Luck Emmy!

 

[aknqtpie]

I don't go out.. haha.. I walk from my car to inside a store or work, but thats about it. Love my Ugg boots in the winter and a heavy coat. Thank goodness I get the garage at home.

 

[xxemmyxx]

I don't go out.. haha.. I walk from my car to inside a store or work, but thats about it. Love my Ugg boots in the winter and a heavy coat. Thank goodness I get the garage at home.

I love my uggs too!! I'm a primary school teacher so worst bit about winter is playground duty haha!

 

[xxemmyxx]

Thank you Jenny xx

 

[jennyb86uk]

I don't go out.. haha.. I walk from my car to inside a store or work, but thats about it. Love my Ugg boots in the winter and a heavy coat. Thank goodness I get the garage at home.

My only way of getting to work atm is by my trusty (but rather rusty) scooter. Got a driving test next month, my fourth one. Fingers crossed that I manage to pass and not have to spend the entire winter frozen for the first hour of my shift!

 

[xxemmyxx]

I don't go out.. haha.. I walk from my car to inside a store or work, but thats about it. Love my Ugg boots in the winter and a heavy coat. Thank goodness I get the garage at home.

My only way of getting to work atm is by my trusty (but rather rusty) scooter. Got a driving test next month, my fourth one. Fingers crossed that I manage to pass and not have to spend the entire winter frozen for the first hour of my shift!

Awww what an image lol I hope u pass! My car got stolen beginning of October so I am walking everywhere I can't wait to get my new car!