Trying before AF?

[markswife10]

Thank you so much Markswife, I hope that fixed the issue with Lilypie. I was told by the hospital that I should get the AF anytime from 4-6wks... so I guess anytime now...Do you get paranoid about it. Every time I go out I am thinking "What if I get it today?" I worry that I will have to rush home and change my clothes or something. I haven't been checking my Hcg levels or anything...so I have no idea if I am positive still or not.

That would be frustrating! Hopefully you will get her soon so you can know where in your cycle you are OR better yet, hoping your preg so you don't have to worry about it It is frustrating not knowing when to expect her. Since I've been tracking I know pretty much when to expect her (about 10-11 days from now). I"m hoping soo much that she doesn't show though...

 

[markswife10]

When I mc the doctor made me come back to the hospital every week where they tested my hcg levels until it was eventually 0 and therefore a negative hpt and then they discharged me sayin I could expect a period within 4-6 weeks and if I don't to do a test. So many women I see on here don't get this treatment, they just get told they are having a mc and it's never followed up. My doctor said they monitor that the mc is problem free and that everything comes away how it should and that no tissue is retained still giving off hcg etc, it also gave me a bit if closure with that pregnancy cus the worst feeling is still getting positive hpt and feeling pregnant when you know your not really anymore so once I got a 0 level I knew I could start trying again.
Sorry for the rant but I can't believe some doctors just leave you to work it all out by yourself
If you are trying before your AF comes, you can ovulate as sson as 10-14 days after first day of mc so 4 weeks after mc you could become pregnant again, only way to tell is POAS lol if you don't get your AF by 6 weeks after mc I would POAS again lol! But also bear in mind that sometimes first cycle after mc can be very long or you don't ovulate, good luck newbies xxxx

My HCG levels were monitored by the Dr. too. They checked them on my follow-up appointment and then once a week until they reached under 5 where they wanted them to make sure that nothing remained in my uterus that could cause an infection (they only had to draw my blood twice because my blood dropped within 3 weeks). On my 2nd draw it was a 4. Now knowing when my O was I know when to expect Af (the Dr. told me between 4-6 weeks, going from my O date it will be around 5 and a half weeks).

 

[xxemmyxx]

Still no AF or BFP! This is so frustrating!!!

 

[Libbysmum]

Thank you so much Markswife, I hope that fixed the issue with Lilypie. I was told by the hospital that I should get the AF anytime from 4-6wks... so I guess anytime now...Do you get paranoid about it. Every time I go out I am thinking "What if I get it today?" I worry that I will have to rush home and change my clothes or something. I haven't been checking my Hcg levels or anything...so I have no idea if I am positive still or not.

That would be frustrating! Hopefully you will get her soon so you can know where in your cycle you are OR better yet, hoping your preg so you don't have to worry about it It is frustrating not knowing when to expect her. Since I've been tracking I know pretty much when to expect her (about 10-11 days from now). I"m hoping soo much that she doesn't show though...

Thank you so much...yeh It was my birthday the other day and I was too scared to take wine with my meal on the off chance I am preggers. I hope that you are preggers and everything goes well for you this time round!

 

[markswife10]

Thank you so much Markswife, I hope that fixed the issue with Lilypie. I was told by the hospital that I should get the AF anytime from 4-6wks... so I guess anytime now...Do you get paranoid about it. Every time I go out I am thinking "What if I get it today?" I worry that I will have to rush home and change my clothes or something. I haven't been checking my Hcg levels or anything...so I have no idea if I am positive still or not.

That would be frustrating! Hopefully you will get her soon so you can know where in your cycle you are OR better yet, hoping your preg so you don't have to worry about it It is frustrating not knowing when to expect her. Since I've been tracking I know pretty much when to expect her (about 10-11 days from now). I"m hoping soo much that she doesn't show though...

Thank you so much...yeh It was my birthday the other day and I was too scared to take wine with my meal on the off chance I am preggers. I hope that you are preggers and everything goes well for you this time round!

Fingers crossed we both are! Are you going to test if AF doesn't show soon?

 

[markswife10]

Still no AF or BFP! This is so frustrating!!!

Boooo!!!! Hopefully one or the other will show soon (preferably the BFP)!!!!

 

[BritneyNChris]

So ladies I think AF is coming but not sure been having really bad headaches and really sore nipples. I have my appointment tomorrow for my woman check up, I will keep you ladies posted. Hope all had a great weekend!

 

[Libbysmum]

Tiny bit of spotting today...maybe the start of AF? Who knows?

 

[BritneyNChris]

Libbysmum,

I hope it may be the start of something more special for you. But if it may be AF then you can always start trying again after. God bless you.

~Britney~

 

[markswife10]

Hopefully the spotting is implantation bleeding Libbysmum, but if it is AF at least you know what your body is doing!

BritneyNChris, did AF come for you?

AFM, nothing new. 5 DPO, taking progesterone cream every day now in my LP. I had some spotting today, not sure if it was breakthrough bleeding from progesterone cream or what, but it quit relatively quickly. Weird.

 

[BritneyNChris]

MarksWife I didn't start AF yet. About to head out to my doctor's appointment should find out where all this cramping is coming from. I hope they should know something along with my sore breast and headaches.

 

[xxemmyxx]

I have no af, sore breasts, cramping and headaches but all bfn! So I shall be interested to hear what they say to you, good luck xx

 

[BritneyNChris]

Emmy my doctor couldn't really figure out what was wrong with me she stated that headaches could come from the roller coaster with my body changing after the mc but after my pap she had me go to the lab for a urine sample for more testing I haven't received a call back from her yet due to them closing at 4pm so right about the time I left out of the lab it was 350pm my time so maybe tomorrow I will get a call stating my results. It could all be in my head though so I'm not keeping my hopes up but good luck to you maybe af won't come maybe you got it this time around my prayers go out to you girl

 

[mummy2o]

Still no AF for me either. Not tested yet, but will in the next couple of days. I don't have any symtoms for either so not sure which way it will go bed I did notice a small bleed (only when wiping) after yesterday.

Good luck Britney.

Hope you get answers soon emmy.

Good luck Libby. I've had one time spotting earlier in the month so convince AF would show up but so far has stayed away

 

[xxemmyxx]

I'm not sure exactly how late I am but its been over 4 weeks since I last bled, I have a pelvic scan booked on 1st october, if I still havnt got af by then I will go see doctor, I don't think I ovulated cus I didn't get a positive opk so I think that's why my period is missing! I have done at least 10 hpt's...this totally sucks!!

 

[Libbysmum]

Thanks ladies...I have no cramping just a tiny bit of blood mostly noticed when wiping...I am guessing it it AF but seems a little on the light side. I am not use to that. As far as my irritability goes for that time of the month...it is up to the roof! I just got cranky at my DH because I asked how to spell fluo...as in Fluorescence and he spelled "Fluorescent" and I snapped at him that I didn't want to spell the word "fluorescent" to which he got upset and went to bed without me.

 

[xxemmyxx]

Lol sounds like the kinda arguments I have with my OH, silly ones! Xx

 

[markswife10]

My silly POAS addict has returned... I tested at 6DPO... BFN of course, lol! When will I learn? *face palm*

 

[mummy2o]

AF just arrived for me. I'm so happy. I now know where I stand and can try again in a few days. There was no spotting or warning just happened when I wasn't expecting it. Now to order some ovulation tests.

 

[flapjack10]

This will be a rant so I'm sorry before hand but I'm just frustrated.

I'm constipated which is not fun at the best of times, then to top it off I'm beginning to get a urine infection, which to the amount of times I've peed lately wouldn't be surprised. I still haven't got my first AF and holding off a pregnancy test (more for my own peace of mind) until Wednesday as OH is moaning about wasting money on unimportant things, especially if it comes back negative. I am still sleeping more than normal, I still have my cold and getting aches and pains all over my body, one minute lower back, next cramps, next headache. I can't stand, sit or lay anywhere as I just can't get comfy atm

mark'swife 10, i got a smiley face today, hopefully ill see a temp rise tomorrow and i'll be with you in the 2ww

Still no AF or BFP! This is so frustrating!!!

AF just arrived for me. I'm so happy. I now know where I stand and can try again in a few days. There was no spotting or warning just happened when I wasn't expecting it. Now to order some ovulation tests.

But yes, now you know where you stand! Also we're cycle buddies as my AF has just arrived!

Love to you all. Got my hosp appointment tomorrow. They'll probs just take some blood tests etc. I hope they give me the go ahead to TTC this month.

xxxxx