Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[VP1228]

My DF keeps telling me to move on with my life and stop dwelling on the fact that I can't have a baby. But it is so hard when we both tried for almost two years before finding out it's not going to happen. I don't understand how he can even go on like nothing is wrong! He is not that supportive right now I wish I had someone to comfort me but I don't.

 

[mapletulip]

My DF keeps telling me to move on with my life and stop dwelling on the fact that I can't have a baby. But it is so hard when we both tried for almost two years before finding out it's not going to happen. I don't understand how he can even go on like nothing is wrong! He is not that supportive right now I wish I had someone to comfort me but I don't.

Hugs for you! Here in this forum we all understand and we can comfort each other a bit. We know what it's like to see BFN after BFN and see other women get their BFP's all over the place.
I see in your signature that you can do IVF....is that something you are looking at?

 

[shuggababies]

Im new to this forum and Im happy to join others ttc.....I started taking fermara on 08/15/2013 (3) pills a day equalling 7.5 for 6 days.....Im currently on cycle day 6 and I will be visit my fertility specialist on the 23rd of this month to check follies.....hopefully Ill be as lucky as others and get my BFP on the first try. PLEASE SEND BABY DUST THIS WAY.

 

[tamithomas]

Wow completely gutted. As if I don't feel bad enough dh had to spend an hour yelling at me for wanting a baby & I'm a selfish psycho who only cares about ttc & wanting a baby. And because I get upset over not having one yet I'm a little child throwing a fit because I didn't get my way. waay to kick me when I'm down thought your husbands supposed to be there & support you but apparently they're not!

Mine does that but then he feels bad.... he feels like its his fault

Wow! I am so sorry. I also don't think they know how it feels EVERY single month the get a BFP. They don't have wait around and worry. Then again, it might be his reaction to the BFP and that's how he showed his sadness?

He says he hates that there's nothing he can do about it. And to top it off guys at his work are making jokes sayin maybe he's shooting blanks & bragging because all they did was have unprotected sex with their wife & she got pregnant each time. people suck! And to top it off we don't even know what the problem is & he won't even try to help me find an affordable doctor

Wow that's so wrong, they all deserve a smack across the head from their wives for that one

 

[Jett55]

Agreed Tami believe me if I knew em I'd smack the crap outta them & if he still wanted to brag about how fertile he is I'd punch him in the dick. Cruel I know but he'd deserve it

 

[Limm]

Had to replenish baby/kid clothes at work today. It was all so tiny and adorable. Then I remembered I'm not pregnant or a mother.

Then I came home to a letter telling me to book a cervical screening test soon, despite not being 25 yet (will be in February).
Is this something to do with my GP wanting to possibly do more tests?

 

[Lazydaisys]

Limm if they know you are trying and you haven't had one ever or you are due one they will call you in. I got asked to do one after mentioning ttc. X

 

[Jett55]

Another bfp blasted across my newsfeed oh also tons of pics of I love my children blahdy blah also those ones where they say nothing compares to having life grow inside you or some crap yaah I keep telling myself to stay off of fb but of course I don't listen to myself & I always regret it :/

 

[VP1228]

My DF keeps telling me to move on with my life and stop dwelling on the fact that I can't have a baby. But it is so hard when we both tried for almost two years before finding out it's not going to happen. I don't understand how he can even go on like nothing is wrong! He is not that supportive right now I wish I had someone to comfort me but I don't.

Hugs for you! Here in this forum we all understand and we can comfort each other a bit. We know what it's like to see BFN after BFN and see other women get their BFP's all over the place.
I see in your signature that you can do IVF....is that something you are looking at?

My doctor told me I can't conceive naturally because of heavy amounts of old scar tissue on my ovaries. So I have to do IVF in order to have a baby.

 

[MissyLissy]

I found out the other day I need a new car. Either that, or put over 1,000 dollars into my very old, high mileage car to fix it. If we buy a new car, which is the smarter option, we'll likely have to put fertility treatments on hold for a while due to costs...

Ugh. I hate that I need to decide between a car and a baby. Most people spend nothing to have a child, but we have to bleed our savings just for the chance it could happen. The worse part is, spending money on fertility treatment is like gambling. Most of the time you get nothing in return.

 

[Sam10]

I really hate Facebook. The same chick has to remind everyone 30 times a day that her baby is due in less than two weeks. Good for you. Shut up already. If that wasn't bad enough my husband finally broke down last night. I some times think he wants a baby more than I do. It's so heartbreaking. I couldn't cry because of it though due to the fact that it just makes me feel angry now. We are coming up on a year soon since we started trying. My life is a mess and I haven't even got around to scheduling a doctors appointment yet. Mainly because of transportation and because I just KNOW they are going to tell me something is seriously wrong with me. I hate all of this.

 

[oneKnight]

I found out the other day I need a new car. Either that, or put over 1,000 dollars into my very old, high mileage car to fix it. If we buy a new car, which is the smarter option, we'll likely have to put fertility treatments on hold for a while due to costs...

Ugh. I hate that I need to decide between a car and a baby. Most people spend nothing to have a child, but we have to bleed our savings just for the chance it could happen. The worse part is, spending money on fertility treatment is like gambling. Most of the time you get nothing in return.

That, and you somehow have to wrap your head around the idea that you are BUYING a baby. Well, maybe not exactly.... but no money = no baby, so you are. Buying a chance at a baby, even worse odds!!
And so unfair!!!

 

[godgiftbaby]

hi
is there someone who had injectable iui and checked hcg tested on cd25 with negative. and can i still hope for positive

 

[VP1228]

I wish I wasn't so selfish when it comes to my feelings of not having a baby. I feel like I am neglecting my fiance because our intercourse can't make a baby uuuuuggggghhhhh!

 

[Bordeaux]

Girl at work , , drinking coca cola last week now rubbing starbucks in my face and complaining about sore feet

 

[ashntony]

This pisses me the fuck off!!!!! Why do people like this get to concieve just to abort the baby at 20 weeks because it was twin girls instead of a boy!

https://www.lifesitenews.com/twenty-weeks-pregnant-with-twins-but-last-week-she-had-an-abortion.html

 

[VP1228]

This pisses me the fuck off!!!!! Why do people like this get to concieve just to abort the baby at 20 weeks because it was twin girls instead of a boy!

https://www.lifesitenews.com/twenty-weeks-pregnant-with-twins-but-last-week-she-had-an-abortion.html

I couldn't click on the link it would have made me so upset. That is selfish of people to do that. If IVF brings be twins I am keeping both no abortion.

 

[AlyCon]

That reminds me of the couple who already had a son, but wanted another so they did IVF. Then when they found out both eggs had fertilized they aborted ONE twin because they didn't want two more babies just one more. I would be lucky to get pregnant at all, and these people get to play god and pick and choose. So much selfishness!!

Ps. My life is complete hell right now in case anyone cares to know.

 

[toricapricorn]

I hate when everyone says, "Just relax, don't stress, just let it happen on it's own. You're putting too much pressure on it to happen and so it won't happen." Telling yourself to relax, no matter how hard you try is impossible when you want to have a child...I mean really, it's like boiling water and walking out of the room-what if the house catches fire and you miss it! Okay, bad analogy, but I'm not going to forget that my oven is on and I'm waiting for that water to boil. BOIL ALREADY

 

[wbee]

I hate limbo land. 15 DPO, temps continue to rise, and no blood in sight and still bfn. After today I'm 2 days late. UGH. Cramping started last night, but nothing came of it. With af I always bleed within hours. This is so frustrating.