Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[mapletulip]

Every month my body gives me pg symptoms I have never had before, only to slam a few BFN's in my face. 8DPO today.....BB's hurt, blood when brushing teeth, crazy acid reflux this week.....it would be easier to have NO symptoms whatsoever. sigh.

I know. I can't even believe my bloody imagination and how it's screwing with me. I've never even had bad PMS in my life, and in these 6 months TTC I have had everything you could even imagine, and not a nibble of a BFP. I really hate you, you stupid body!

Soo agree! One cycle, I went to the supermarket and almost fainted. I was shaking and quickly got a sandwich and ate it. Other times, I have major gas and burping, I have the most insane vivid dreams, cravings, my BB's grow bigger every tww, I have seen veins more clear....I have had it all. Except IB but I read that is not even that common. So frustrating.

 

[Jett55]

So my friend the one who's ex told me she was prego & tried to tell me that it wasn't his baby. Well now he won't shut up about getting to be dad I seriously want to punch him. He doesn't even want anything to do with girl so he says or won't be with her yet won't stfu about her & the baby & baby appointments ..... I feel like God's punishing me Ehh

 

[MiniMuffins]

Soo agree! One cycle, I went to the supermarket and almost fainted. I was shaking and quickly got a sandwich and ate it. Other times, I have major gas and burping, I have the most insane vivid dreams, cravings, my BB's grow bigger every tww, I have seen veins more clear....I have had it all. Except IB but I read that is not even that common. So frustrating.

I have (apparently) psyched myself into the same things. Nearly fainting, gas, cravings, early morning nausea near AF, bb pain...ALL of which I never had before TTC. It's enough to drive you mad. Although you're right, I've never had IB either. I guess that would be a harder one for your body to fake.

 

[nic18]

af cramps already? your not due for another 2 day's go away.

 

[Bordeaux]

af cramps already? your not due for another 2 day's go away.

Snap my af is making an early appearance .

Told dh to get a semen analysis done today oh apparently he forgot BS ! So angry right now

 

[Mumtodogs]

af cramps already? your not due for another 2 day's go away.

Could be a BFP? I'm cramping like crazy....

 

[tamithomas]

So the guy I previously told about that jumped vaginas for 10 years and got his gf bfp on first cycle decided a professional session of photography was in order and decided to blast it all over facebook. I didn't see it on mine but noticed when DH complained about it. Needless to say both of our hearts sunk 6 feel bellow. So not fair. For 10 years he had no respect for women and now he gets to be a dad with the first blink of an eye? Pfffffffft...

 

[mapletulip]

So the guy I previously told about that jumped vaginas for 10 years and got his gf bfp on first cycle decided a professional session of photography was in order and decided to blast it all over facebook. I didn't see it on mine but noticed when DH complained about it. Needless to say both of our hearts sunk 6 feel bellow. So not fair. For 10 years he had no respect for women and now he gets to be a dad with the first blink of an eye? Pfffffffft...

Maybe they'll have a baby who won't sleep through the night for a solid year.

 

[Bordeaux]

Stop telling me it happens when you stop trying

 

[wbee]

Stop telling me it happens when you stop trying

Yes. This is the single most annoying thing anyone can say. Ever. I'm so sick and tired of hearing it and want to scream any time I hear it. Ugh.

 

[sammyttc]

Stop telling me it happens when you stop trying

Yes. This is the single most annoying thing anyone can say. Ever. I'm so sick and tired of hearing it and want to scream any time I hear it. Ugh.

Sooooo frustrating. Right up there for me with "You're young, lots of time" or "Oh I had a friend..."


The one I heard the other day where I actually had to hold back my tears? "Ha! I wish I had that problem, all three of mine were accidents"

 

[Jett55]

ugg another month and another af does it ever change soo tired of this... I'd give anything just to have a bfp instead of a red flow at the end. It's like doing all this work is completely useless & pointless.

 

[Bordeaux]

Its horrible you work so hard and this is really something out of our hands . I really cant stand it just tried of waiting !

 

[nic18]

coming up to the two year mark, is this ever going to happen?

 

[MiniMuffins]

Stop telling me it happens when you stop trying

Yes. This is the single most annoying thing anyone can say. Ever. I'm so sick and tired of hearing it and want to scream any time I hear it. Ugh.

Sooooo frustrating. Right up there for me with "You're young, lots of time" or "Oh I had a friend..."


The one I heard the other day where I actually had to hold back my tears? "Ha! I wish I had that problem, all three of mine were accidents"

Wow, what an insensitive thing to say to you! Really sorry about that It seems the world is full of idiots sometimes.

The one I get lately which is very weird is "Don't fret, there's always IVF as an option if you're not pg soon." Ok, yeah. If you have an extra $10K lying around (which I could probably scrape up over time, but goodbye to my current standard of living). It's great the technology is there, don't get me wrong, but it's not exactly an option I see as an "don't fret."

 

[sammyttc]

I totally feel you on that one too MiniMuffins. I just wish some people could have a little empathy sometimes and actually *think* about it !

 

[Jett55]

If I knew what I knew now I would've been soo much smarter with my money. I'd be able to afford doctors & stuff if I wasn't sucha idiot as a teenager

 

[Lazydaisys]

Rant 1- finally getting a bfp to have it taken away one week laterx
Rant 2- no I don't think it just wasn't meant to be! x

 

[tamithomas]

Rant 1- finally getting a bfp to have it taken away one week laterx
Rant 2- no I don't think it just wasn't meant to be! x

I'm so sorry for your loss. I feel your pain, I've been there. After 3 years of ttc we ended up with a bfp. We were over the moon...only for a week later to find out we were m/c. Shattered my world. Don't know how many "it wasn't meant to be" comments I got. I was getting ready to start punching the next person who said it. The worst was "at least you got to drink energy drinks again".

I'm so sorry for your loss

 

[laurac1988]

"Why don't you just adopt?" Oh yes. Because every gay couple should " just" adopt. Not that adoption takes time and money and is probably MORE frustrating than TTC. No... JUST adopting is an easy option isn't it?