Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[Tatikonda]

I am new to this forum.dont know where to post my doubts.so I posted here so please help me or please suggested me where to post my doubts.
I started ttc since 7 months.
I am ttc since I started the first time I started to intercourse with my husband.
I very much worried for not getting pregnant till now.
I am more worried as I never used any precaution,it is because I started ttc since the day I had my first intercourse
I am 26yrs old
Can anyone please help me with this.should I consult doctor.


Tatikonda

 

[sammyttc]

I have been to SO many baby showers since ttc... They are always quite bittersweet.
Yesterday though, was just too much! Someone started with the "Your turn" remarks and I really thought I was going to cry right there. Ugggggghhhh.

 

[AudreyJoXoXo]

I'm so frustrated! For once I'm actually hoping for a positive test result and I've had two negatives now I'm 6 days late today, nauseated all day, I can't even sleep on my stomach my breasts hurt so bad, and I've spotted a teeny bit 4 different days now. My PMS is never like this so I'm really confused and concerned.

 

[VP1228]

My cousin girlfriend had their son today...I am happy for them but I still wish I could get pregnant!!! I know I messed up when I was younger but I never thought it would ruin the rest of my life forever without any solutions.

 

[Mangoes]

I'm learning the meaning of patience as I wait to O. Even though I want to ask why have I not conceived yet, I'm realizing that it's Allah's will when I do and if I ever do. So...time to preoccupy myself and not...notice...all...the babies....and the bumps...

 

[tamithomas]

My hubby recently created a group on facebook to exchange recipes because he's a chef and loves cooking. People have been adding their friends which is great but it didn't take long before the "how about some recipes for us busy mothers" trying to throw in a "Woe is mom" and mom jacked the group. I wanted to tear my hair out. He's lucky it's his group because I would have torn her a new one. He left it alone because it was only a suggestion but for me it was the momjacking the group that got to me. I'm so tired of mothers thinking every subject no matter what it is has to have the kids involved.

 

[BabyChaser09]

I'm so frustrated! For once I'm actually hoping for a positive test result and I've had two negatives now I'm 6 days late today, nauseated all day, I can't even sleep on my stomach my breasts hurt so bad, and I've spotted a teeny bit 4 different days now. My PMS is never like this so I'm really confused and concerned.

your symptoms sound very promising! now that you're more than a week late, could u go to the dr and get a test???

 

[Mangoes]

Argh! I'm supposed to be in my fertile window this week, but my mucus hasn't changed which makes me wonder if I will O this month or not.

 

[wbee]

*pardon my language*

I'm so fucking sick of this every fucking month. I find myself thinking that I'd wish I'd just die. Not suicidal in the least, but days like this have me wish I'd make a wrong move walking down the street or something. Ugh. I know it's an ugly thing to say, but this is so fucking ridiculous. Fuck my body.

 

[Jett55]

*pardon my language*

I'm so fucking sick of this every fucking month. I find myself thinking that I'd wish I'd just die. Not suicidal in the least, but days like this have me wish I'd make a wrong move walking down the street or something. Ugh. I know it's an ugly thing to say, but this is so fucking ridiculous. Fuck my body.

I've had times where I feel just like you do. I think if I can't have my own child then life isn't worth it & how selfish it is to think something like that but there's day that I really feel like that especially when af comes. You are not alone.

My vent: is anyone else noticing how all these couples who are broke up or end up breaking up find out they're pregnant? Seriously It's kind of aggravating that happy married couples seem to not conceive. But people who don't want anything to do with each other get to have a baby. Wtf??? It's like Gods a fan of single moms or something. Ugg! Seriously irritating my dh & I have a pretty stable life sure we have financial issues here & there but who doesn't? Yet we haven't conceived but girls with no jobs & no father for the child can get pregnant at the drop of a hat. Makes no lick of sense.

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Hi Hi, I'm new to this part of the forum but it seems we may be TTC sooner than my ticker says...
However, I have some TTC vents! I love love love the comment on the first page of this thread about people forgetting to be normal human beings. I have a friend who announced her pregnancy at 8 weeks to me and then proceeded to forget everything else... when I texted her to ask how she was, I got only that, so I felt I needed to say "And I'm fine too by the way". WELL. You would think I asked her to climb Mt Everest for me in her "condition". I now cannot be bothered in the slightest.... people who act like they are the only ones who have ever been pregnant, God give me strength.
& if one more person says "the time will fly by" I'll probably unleash something animalistic.
I'm definitely in a slump at the moment!! Rage.

 

[tamithomas]

For once I'm gonna be realistic because usually I try to live in denial until AF is here with ignorance thinking that the AF symptoms are possibly bfp symptoms but I know better than that. BB's hurt, af cramps like crazy, hot flashes..af is on its way between now and Tuesday. UGH. Why does this have to be so hard? Oh well, upward on and onward for the gazillionth time.

 

[ashntony]

yay for another cycle of brokem hearts and broken dreams.....

 

[sammyttc]

Annnnd... AF's late but showing BFN.... if only my body wasn't so cruel. Just get here and be gone so I can move on to another cycle....

 

[Mangoes]

I'm in yet another TWW. At least this time, I have work to distract me enough, I hope. I had a crazy dream about a period being late, but that could mean anything or nothing...I'm only 2DPO, but the last time I had a period related dream, I dreamt it was early - and it was an entire week early. Sigh, my mind.

 

[madtowngirl]

I'm so very happy to see this thread. I had a miscarriage in late January/early February (it was a surprise, I didn't even know I was pregnant) and we have been trying ever since, with no luck. I joined a support group of ladies who are all getting their BFPs, and they are great, but every time I share how frustrated I'm getting, I feel like I'm being scolded for not having a positive attitude.

I'm coming up on my original due date, and I just got another BFN, just waiting on AF to show. It's kind of hard to be positive after 9 months of trying with no success. Well, success for everyone around me...except me.

 

[Helloflower]

New to this and can definitely use the vent space! 😔 I have Hypothyroidism and it definitely doesn't help with TTC. My period is so irregular and I'm finally seeing my dr tomorrow. I guess I've waited so long to go because I'm scared of hearing bad news such as "infertility" or that it's going to be a struggle to get pregnant. So wish me luck tomorrow. Hope I can get on some fertility drugs and regulate my period so I can ovulate.

 

[tamithomas]

I'm so very happy to see this thread. I had a miscarriage in late January/early February (it was a surprise, I didn't even know I was pregnant) and we have been trying ever since, with no luck. I joined a support group of ladies who are all getting their BFPs, and they are great, but every time I share how frustrated I'm getting, I feel like I'm being scolded for not having a positive attitude.

I'm coming up on my original due date, and I just got another BFN, just waiting on AF to show. It's kind of hard to be positive after 9 months of trying with no success. Well, success for everyone around me...except me.

I suggest leaving that "Support" group.They don't sound like a support group at all.

The miscarriage section on this website is amazing for support. If it weren't for that group, I don't think I would have pulled through my own m/c. On here there's also the ttc after a loss. Those ladies would understand you much better and bfp announcements are not allowed there so you would not be bombarded with them. So sorry about your loss

 

[Jett55]

my sister found out she's having a girl my heart broke cuz that's what I want soo bad & yet at this point I'll be lucky to even get pregnant. Ehh now I feel like if & when I ever do my mom won't even care since she has 3 (almost 4 now) grandkids already

 

[madtowngirl]

Well here comes the witch. Sigh. I'm really disappointed, we hit all the right days this last cycle, too. I want to be a mommy, but 9 months of trying is really starting to wear on me.