Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[Lazydaisys]

I'm the same Tuesdaybaby

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

I'm the same Tuesdaybaby

This is the worst. I just get so worked up and I can't help myself but the come down is pretty bad. At the moment I feel like just going to bed and sleeping the day away!

 

[Bordeaux]

Snap, was genuinely thinking of pulling a sicky at work . Did not want to face the world . Af is not only disappointed but the pain of it just rubs salts in wounds

 

[mindylou]

Love those random birth announcements in the mail from people you don't talk to. I have already seen your pics on fb... no need to rub it in. (I know it's not intended to hurt my feelings, but this person KNOWS I want to have a baby) Grrr. [/vent]

 

[Sam10]

Waiting for my pregnancy tests to come in the mail. 12 days late today. I never got a positive reading on my OPKs this month. Just assuming my cycle is completely messed up. I guess I'll test anyway. After a year of trying I no longer have any hope.

 

[ToriStory]

I don't think I can take another bfn. I'm so tired of being heartbroken.

 

[Bordeaux]

4 0ut of 10 Facebook posts I just looked at were baby announcements depressed.com this is so painful.

 

[tamithomas]

The dumby who got his girlfriend pregnant on the first try after 10 years of vagina hoping posted that his girlfriend is 1cm dilated on facebook on the same day dh and i have to bd because i'm within O window. This is the same guy that would hump air if he could before he met his girlfriend. SOO not fair.

 

[madtowngirl]

I seriously can't handle pregnant women complaining right now. Do you know what I would give to be puking and having back pain because I was pregnant?

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

I seriously can't handle pregnant women complaining right now. Do you know what I would give to be puking and having back pain because I was pregnant?

Yes! This! Honestly.
I hope I am never like this, it drives me crazy, total lack of thought for other people.

 

[Wishing_]

Who knew ttc would be so hard? I feel like I can't pregnant. We been trying for a year, used preseed throughout the summer and nothing. We're praying that I'm pregnant now. I went from being irregular since day one, to having a regular menstrual cycle. A old friend of mine got pregnant and it wasn't even planned! Oh how the world can be cruel sometimes....

 

[MissyLissy]

If you've been trying 1-3ish months and its "so hard" and you are "so full of worry that something is wrong" only to get your BFP right away the following month, then stfu about the "hardships" of TTC. I wish these ladies could get behind me and other LTTC-ers in line for our baby, but alas that's not how the world works. Basically I'm just sick of all these newbie TTCers passing me up.

Sorry if his post was too harsh. I had a very down day. I just really feel like my fourth IUI failed, though I won't know FOR SURE for a day or two. I can tell I'm out, I know my body. I do t understand why my body refuses to get pregnant. I'm trying so hard, spending so much money. Timing everything right...month after month. And all I have to show for it is BFNs.

 

[Lazydaisys]

I understand missy lissy. If 1-3 is hard my life feels beyond unbearable this week. I didn't really worry that much for the first 12 months ttc. We will pick ourselves up and feel ok about things soon xxxx

 

[mindylou]

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[ToriStory]

Pretty much everyone I went to school with already has 2-3 kids and I'm just struggling to have one....ugh!!!!!! I always hoped I'd have at least one child by the time I reached my mid to late 20s.

 

[tamithomas]

I'm about ready to give up on ttc. It's so emotionally draining considering you only have 24 to 48 hours of time to bd and once again, stuff came up so we couldn't so I'm pretty sure my O window is over so that means one more cycle out the window. I'm at the breaking point with my patience.

 

[amylynne]

i didn't know where else to post this and i've done so much research on it, my head is about to explode, so i thought i would pose my issue here. my husband and i aren't actively trying to get pregnant yet but when i thought i might be, i was overjoyed. for the past week, had some major symptoms: severe nausea, heartburn, peeing a lot, cramping. just felt "different." took a preg test last night and thought i saw the faintest of lines, then a couple hours later a very definite blue line in the positive section that was even darker this morning. got very excited, took a FRER this morning with FMU and got a BFN. not sure if i was really seeing an evap line? period is now 1 day late. thanks for any help!

 

[tamithomas]

i didn't know where else to post this and i've done so much research on it, my head is about to explode, so i thought i would pose my issue here. my husband and i aren't actively trying to get pregnant yet but when i thought i might be, i was overjoyed. for the past week, had some major symptoms: severe nausea, heartburn, peeing a lot, cramping. just felt "different." took a preg test last night and thought i saw the faintest of lines, then a couple hours later a very definite blue line in the positive section that was even darker this morning. got very excited, took a FRER this morning with FMU and got a BFN. not sure if i was really seeing an evap line? period is now 1 day late. thanks for any help!

What do you mean by a few hours later? Did you take a new test and it was darker or did you look at the old test a few hours later? If the latter, definitely evap. Plus, I recommend to avoid blue dyes as much as you can. Those are terrible for evaps or false positives. GL

 

[madtowngirl]

Fantastic. It's o day, and DH and I got into a huge fight. There won't be any bedding tonight. Looks like this cycle will be a wash, too. This is starting to feel like it will never happen.

 

[tamithomas]

To every ignorant soul who said that the couple who did IVF on live tv on the Today Show shouldn't have done it publicly during morning tv and that it should have been kept private, here's my response:

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