Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[Jett55]

Blaring bfn on my bday but on the brightside drinks with the girls tonight

 

[tamithomas]

AF showed by my mind is boggled, no cramps! I'm usually bent over in cramps begging for someone to knock me out. Not that I don't enjoy being cramp free for once but makes me wonder if this is really af or a really early m/c.

Edit: nvm, cramps kicked in late reaction style.

 

[Bplorton]

Hi everyone! I am pretty new here and haven't been TTC for very long but I have a vent!! I am a college professor and one of my students came into my office today. As usual, and before she asked me her questions she started talking about what she is learning in her psych class about beating children. She then continued to rant about how she spanks her children at stores often and she hates that they just don't behave etc! Wow it was awful to hear! She is clearly a mother who wasn't ready to have these kids and she acts like she doesn't even like having kids! And here I am trying to be a mother. *sigh*

 

[madtowngirl]

Hi everyone! I am pretty new here and haven't been TTC for very long but I have a vent!! I am a college professor and one of my students came into my office today. As usual, and before she asked me her questions she started talking about what she is learning in her psych class about beating children. She then continued to rant about how she spanks her children at stores often and she hates that they just don't behave etc! Wow it was awful to hear! She is clearly a mother who wasn't ready to have these kids and she acts like she doesn't even like having kids! And here I am trying to be a mother. *sigh*

I hear you on this one!! I have a coworker who is letting her child walk around with a hole in her tooth because she didn't want to get a filling. Also, her daughter needed stitches and she didn't take her to the hospital because it was too inconvenient for her to leave work. It just burns my hide that there are parents out there like that when so many people who would be good parents can't conceive easily!

 

[RainbowBaby13]

I hate how pregnancy symptoms are the same as pms symptoms, wish it was much more easier to tell the difference . anyways goodluck and babydust to you ladies xx

 

[Jett55]

Oh af just show up already & get it over with I already can tell you're coming so just get the heck on with it
my fb was infested with baby posts today & I told dh I was going to delete everyone who is annoying me with posts & he got ticked off all like oh no one else is allowed to be happy blah blah blah they're your friends. So idc I'm sick of being the only one in this forsaken town not pregnant :/

 

[tamithomas]

Le sigh, DH and I did another one of those talking one hour straight about baby stuff and planning baby stuff.Why does it have to be day dreaming talk and not reality?! Especially since he has a kid from a previous marriage to refer to, I feel completely on my own. I mean I love the talks, it shows he's as passionate as I am but I wish he would be able to do the same with our own.

 

[KimmyKat]

I'm new to the forums. So glad to have community of other women to talk to since I haven't told family we're ttc to avoid feeling pressure.

Got AF this morning, which has left me feeling sad and discouraged. Wish there I could have a more zen mindset for ttc.

 

[MissyLissy]

I turn 31 today. Still childless. Bawled my eyes out this morning to my mom. She consoled me saying this would be my year. I'd take comfort, but last year was supposed to be "my year" too.

 

[madtowngirl]

I turn 31 today. Still childless. Bawled my eyes out this morning to my mom. She consoled me saying this would be my year. I'd take comfort, but last year was supposed to be "my year" too.

Just turned 31 last month, and I'm still childless, too! My mom also tries to tell me this is my year. So frustrating.

 

[fay1983]

I normally have a 27-28 day cycle. I ovulated on september 17th, 2013. On september 22nd, I saw a few drops of pinkish blood only when I wiped. Nothing on underwear. It lasted for about few hours and it disappeared. Not to forget to mention the cramps on my lower abdominal and little twingies here and there on my left and right ovaries. On september 27th my boobs became sore and they only hurt when I poke them. Today, september 29 i took a pregnancy test it was "smart life dbest pregnancy test ultra sensitive" I am at 12dpo today and I test BFN. What do you guys think? Am I out for this month? It's so frustrating and I should get my period in 2 days. Any help or encourage would be appreciated. As for the cramps they disappeared today and I dont feel pregnant anymore

 

[Bordeaux]

12dpo is still too early trust me I have heard that time and time again. I was 5days late once got so excited tested bfn and af came with vengence just to make me feel even worse! How do you know you ovulated ? What method did you use?

 

[madtowngirl]

Went to a baby shower yesterday, only to hear someone younger than me lament how they were "getting old and needed to try to have a baby soon."

Thanks for driving a knife into my heart on an already tough day (my due date would have been in the next couple of weeks).

 

[Bordeaux]

Just got a text from a friend who said have a baby soon please ! Its like piss off all whilst I can feel af bubbling up and getting ready to bite me

 

[Jett55]

Thank you soo much af for showing up late

 

[Lazydaisys]

I hate the 2 week wait sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much. X

 

[Mangoes]

I'm at the tail end of my two week wait and I've been feeling some pms/af type cramps. I'm not sure if it was normal and kind of think I'm out. I tell my husband and you know what he tells me? "We didn't try hard enough."

Are you kidding me? It pissed me off, we BD'ed almost everyday. I've done everything I can and to tell me that the fact I may not be pregnant was because we didn't try hard enough? To tell me we should have had sex on O day (when we have before and I still didn't get pregnant - that flew right over his head). I just want to take a break from TTC.

 

[Lazydaisys]

:-/

 

[Lazydaisys]

:-/

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

I am in hate with the TWW. It makes me a crazy person addicted to the internet googling symptoms I feel like I have created in my head. I've taken two pregnancy tests, of course, BFN and I feel like a complete fool

Why do I do this to myself? Now I'm crying about it.