I been ttc also. Me n my husband been together two yrs, never tried but never protected, I just started geritol tonic on 10/03 and my monthly was 10/29. We been hopeing and praying but we know the lord we serve hear our prayers and will answer them when time is right...hopeful the time is right soon.
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I been ttc also. Me n my husband been together two yrs, never tried but never protected, I just started geritol tonic on 10/03 and my monthly was 10/29. We been hopeing and praying but we know the lord we serve hear our prayers and will answer them when time is right...hopeful the time is right soon.
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I understand what you're going through. We have been TTC since October 2011. It will happen. Baby dust to you as well 
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We have been TTC since October 2011. I have PCOS and just found out my husband has a LSC. double wammy. 
.. But we must stay positive. Sooner or later I will Have my BFP. But I must say, it is very stressful and I am starting to become discouraged. I always think like why me. So many women that don't deserve children and I am having difficulties with ONE. 
.. But we must stay positive. Sooner or later I will Have my BFP. But I must say, it is very stressful and I am starting to become discouraged. I always think like why me. So many women that don't deserve children and I am having difficulties with ONE. 
madtowngirl
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UUUUUgh I am so tired of other people trivializing my feelings! I don't want to think about me ttc, and I don't want you to sit here and chastise me for not believing it will happen this month. I am tired of having false hope, stop trying to tell me to be hopeful. It's been 9 months since my mc. I don't want to be constantly reminded.
kay so I ve got some questions can some one lease help me im ttc over a year and this month my period started 3 days early and it was 2 days light and 2 days normal 28day cycle 2 days after period we baby danced and a couple days ago I was spotting I was thinking ohh maybe its just ovulation but then it was everytime after I eat or drink I have to throw p also today we baby danced and and after it was fine I layed there but a couple of hours later I started to spot again now im just confused I rarly bleed after sex could I be pregnant or am I setting my self up for another sad day also im on cycle day 16
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Dh & I had our big wedding ceremony we got married back in march but he wanted me to have the big fancy special day & the day before at our rehearsal one of his groomsmen was bragging about how his wife is pregnant with their 2nd child. Literally was in tears the night before & not to mention my sister was bragging about her pregnancy but on a bright note I was the center of attention for once
& not to mention my sister was bragging about her pregnancy but on a bright note I was the center of attention for once 
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My brother and his girlfriend are having a baby. I learned in like June that they started trying, and now she's 3 months pregnant. Didn't take long at all. I am so happy for him, it's wonderful. And now I want a baby even more because then they can grow up close together, and be best friends. So renewed frustration that I still am not pregnant.
At least it gave me the courage to talk to my fiance and how I just could not wait anymore, for the past year we had sex maybe 10 times, not really good to make a baby you know, he's just been so tired and stressed from work, starting his own company and still keeping his job, he works a lot, like 12+ hours a day. A lot of the money is going into the company too, to get an office and hire people, and I am glad you know, it's really working out and it's starting to get really big. BUT that also means, we don't get to buy a house just yet, we are not getting married just yet and up to now we were delaying baby too.
So I told him I had enough of putting my life on hold and I didn't want to wait to TTC anymore, so we started on the sperm meets egg plan, and he's actually making an effort, and guess what? It's actually good for us too. Maybe next month I can actually do the whole plan, including the sex before you get the positive OPK. I just feel it's going to be hard to get him to bed that many times (it makes me feel shitty too, it's so hard to get him started I feel a little insulted, of course once we are at it then he's enjoying it, but I can't help feeling like he's too lazy to start)
At least it gave me the courage to talk to my fiance and how I just could not wait anymore, for the past year we had sex maybe 10 times, not really good to make a baby you know, he's just been so tired and stressed from work, starting his own company and still keeping his job, he works a lot, like 12+ hours a day. A lot of the money is going into the company too, to get an office and hire people, and I am glad you know, it's really working out and it's starting to get really big. BUT that also means, we don't get to buy a house just yet, we are not getting married just yet and up to now we were delaying baby too.
So I told him I had enough of putting my life on hold and I didn't want to wait to TTC anymore, so we started on the sperm meets egg plan, and he's actually making an effort, and guess what? It's actually good for us too. Maybe next month I can actually do the whole plan, including the sex before you get the positive OPK. I just feel it's going to be hard to get him to bed that many times (it makes me feel shitty too, it's so hard to get him started I feel a little insulted, of course once we are at it then he's enjoying it, but I can't help feeling like he's too lazy to start)
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The vagina jumpers baby was born yesterday. Hubby pointed it out to me, I made the most sarcastic "woohoo" of my life. I feel like such a bitch. I know it's not the vagina jumpers fault we're having problems. At least it helped that my hubby had the same reaction as me.
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Annnnd another FB announcement. Super. Will it ever be my turn?
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I know the feeling; I had to get rid of my FB. It was making me so depressed. Sending you tons of
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Found out today that my husbands bestfriends wife is pregnant i want to be happy for them but it just seems like a slap in the face that yet another one of our friends are starting a family and my husband i are just hoping and praying for the chance to have our own family.
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Okay so I am new here .... But Lord knows I need a place to clear my head and vent my frustrations and concerns besides with my husband who is a great listener but can only nod his head so much..... Lol .... Recently I found out that I haven't been absorbing folic acid properly and so I have been prescribed folbic tabs once a day. Doc told me it should help because I have had 3 miscarriages in the last 4 months, however she couldn't find anything else wrong with my reproductive organs. So we have been diligently working towards conception ..... I had a regular 5 day cycle on Oct. 1 ..... For the last week and a half I have had a heavy and tight feeling down under, ovaries feel kind of crampy but not like my menstrual cramps. I've been nauseous but no actual sickness. Tired, irritable, HUNGRY BEYOND BELIEF. I wanted to wait until it was closer to the end of the month to give my cycle a chance to come ( I didn't want to get my hopes up too quickly as if I am PG it's only about 2-3 wks) and tonight I went to the bathroom and when I wiped i discovered a faint pink spot on the tissue (very VERY faint). Now I know the only other thing I can do is wait and see if my cycle comes full blown. I've had my period twice in one month before but I was a teen ! This is all so frustrating because we have had so many disappointments in the recent months, and nothing is harder than the waiting game.
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Brace yourself, I'll probably be venting about the vagina hopper a lot because it's really pissing me off and I have nowhere else to go about this. how DARE he give the "yay my dream has come true,my dad is finally a grand father" speech about becoming a father! He didn't even settle down 2 months before his gf getting pregnant twice (first one ended in ecto but she didn't even get her period back before being bfp again). He has no right to claim that sort of it took forever type of bs attitude.
On top of it, after all of the showing off and the praises, he did zero studying on how to actually care for the kid. He actually had to ask my DH at 2am "if the baby is crying, should I wake up my wife?" WTF! My hubby asked if he had any milk, he said no..my hubby said well put two and two together and the vagina jumper acted like as if my hubby was a saint. This is complete bullshit. I finally built up the courage to look at the photos and it just felt like salt in the wound.
To top it off, my DH has a feeling he's gonna go back to his old ways. According to my DH he's been known to do that a lot which is have another woman. I hope he's wrong but according to my DH it's his m.o. and he doesn't seem him changing. I hope for the kid he has changed.
On top of it, after all of the showing off and the praises, he did zero studying on how to actually care for the kid. He actually had to ask my DH at 2am "if the baby is crying, should I wake up my wife?" WTF! My hubby asked if he had any milk, he said no..my hubby said well put two and two together and the vagina jumper acted like as if my hubby was a saint. This is complete bullshit. I finally built up the courage to look at the photos and it just felt like salt in the wound.
To top it off, my DH has a feeling he's gonna go back to his old ways. According to my DH he's been known to do that a lot which is have another woman. I hope he's wrong but according to my DH it's his m.o. and he doesn't seem him changing. I hope for the kid he has changed.
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Ohh, vent away tamithomas! As a former teacher, I've always taken issue with people who don't appreciate their children/families, and now that I want to be a mom, it's way worse than ever!
I have a coworker who has, in the past two months 1) let her daughter walk around with a hole in her tooth because she had it drilled but didn't want to get it filled 2) refused to take her daughter to the E.R. when she needed stitches 3) sent her son to school with a fever 4) tried to make her son play football with said fever 5) sent said son to school on his bike on a rainy, cold day the day after he had to stay home sick.
It makes my blood boil.
I have a coworker who has, in the past two months 1) let her daughter walk around with a hole in her tooth because she had it drilled but didn't want to get it filled 2) refused to take her daughter to the E.R. when she needed stitches 3) sent her son to school with a fever 4) tried to make her son play football with said fever 5) sent said son to school on his bike on a rainy, cold day the day after he had to stay home sick.
It makes my blood boil.
