Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[BebVern]

Second baby to be born and announced on Facebook in the space of 72 hours...is it irrational to get so annoyed?!
One girl wasn't even trying and has been posting incessantly about her pregnancy every 3 hours since the first scan. GRRRRR.

Oh well. I'm getting a tattoo this afternoon which should cheer me up, haha

 

[Jett55]

I completely understand I have a girl on fb that literally all her statuses are about her pregnancy. Like mommy loves you so much I can't wait to meet you. This mommas hungry. Blahblah blah it takes everything I have to not say shut the f up! We get it you're pregnant. Super annoying!

 

[AlyCon]

Today I saw a girl who had just started TTC after we had already been trying for a year. And of course they got a BFP after only a few months. I didn't talk to her but I think she's at least 6 months along. And in that time my life has fallen apart so bad I'm not even TTC anymore why do bad things happen to good people?! I know I'm not perfect but WHYYYY!!!!!

And to top it off I spent my morning at the OB with my friend who's pregnant with her second. But it wasn't just any OB, this guy is the specialist that my doctor wrote me a referral to before I had to quit TTC. I can only imagine that if I had went through with the appt maybe I would have gotten a BFP and maybe things wouldn't have got so bad between me and my husband. I know in my heart I made the right decision but it was so hard to sit there in the office of the doctor who could have changed my whole life! The doctor who could have finally made me a mother! The doctor I unfortunately will never be a patient of.

This is just so hard! I hope you ladies don't mind me venting here even though I stopped TTC but I honestly have no one else to talk to and this hurts too bad to keep bottled inside.

 

[hopeful12be]

Today I saw a girl who had just started TTC after we had already been trying for a year. And of course they got a BFP after only a few months. I didn't talk to her but I think she's at least 6 months along. And in that time my life has fallen apart so bad I'm not even TTC anymore why do bad things happen to good people?! I know I'm not perfect but WHYYYY!!!!!

And to top it off I spent my morning at the OB with my friend who's pregnant with her second. But it wasn't just any OB, this guy is the specialist that my doctor wrote me a referral to before I had to quit TTC. I can only imagine that if I had went through with the appt maybe I would have gotten a BFP and maybe things wouldn't have got so bad between me and my husband. I know in my heart I made the right decision but it was so hard to sit there in the office of the doctor who could have changed my whole life! The doctor who could have finally made me a mother! The doctor I unfortunately will never be a patient of.

This is just so hard! I hope you ladies don't mind me venting here even though I stopped TTC but I honestly have no one else to talk to and this hurts too bad to keep bottled inside.

 

[Wishing_]

So I'm talking to my friend again. Kinda. Everyone but her mom is happy about her being pregnant. Talking to her about her pregnancy, planning everything and just helping her is making me cry. I wish that I am pregnant so we could be doing it together...

But now I'm going to take this shit more seriously. I'm going to but a few ovulation test stripes, a few pregnancy strips and preseed again to make sure I get pregnant! I don't care if I end up with twins or triplets. I just want to have a baby already. My gyn isn't got to start running test for about 6 months. She wan'ts me to try to get pregnant but finding out when I ovulate and doing it within those 24-36 hours.

I pray to the baby gods that I get pregnant before the summer! AMEN!

 

[JJ1983]

Need a place to vent: my best friend had her baby today and the photos are everywhere. I know I should be happy for her but I can't help it, I'm just envious and feel terrible for it. We've been ttc for 2 years and all 3 of my best friends and my sister in law got pregnant their first month of trying

 

[tamithomas]

Today I saw a girl who had just started TTC after we had already been trying for a year. And of course they got a BFP after only a few months. I didn't talk to her but I think she's at least 6 months along. And in that time my life has fallen apart so bad I'm not even TTC anymore why do bad things happen to good people?! I know I'm not perfect but WHYYYY!!!!!

And to top it off I spent my morning at the OB with my friend who's pregnant with her second. But it wasn't just any OB, this guy is the specialist that my doctor wrote me a referral to before I had to quit TTC. I can only imagine that if I had went through with the appt maybe I would have gotten a BFP and maybe things wouldn't have got so bad between me and my husband. I know in my heart I made the right decision but it was so hard to sit there in the office of the doctor who could have changed my whole life! The doctor who could have finally made me a mother! The doctor I unfortunately will never be a patient of.

This is just so hard! I hope you ladies don't mind me venting here even though I stopped TTC but I honestly have no one else to talk to and this hurts too bad to keep bottled inside.

I'm so sorry that you had to stop ttc. Nothing worse than having to stop for reasons out of your control.

My vent: C'mon AF, you're due today..let's just get this over with, my bb's feel like ticking time bombs as per usual of every af cycle.

 

[BebVern]

Today I saw a girl who had just started TTC after we had already been trying for a year. And of course they got a BFP after only a few months. I didn't talk to her but I think she's at least 6 months along. And in that time my life has fallen apart so bad I'm not even TTC anymore why do bad things happen to good people?! I know I'm not perfect but WHYYYY!!!!!

And to top it off I spent my morning at the OB with my friend who's pregnant with her second. But it wasn't just any OB, this guy is the specialist that my doctor wrote me a referral to before I had to quit TTC. I can only imagine that if I had went through with the appt maybe I would have gotten a BFP and maybe things wouldn't have got so bad between me and my husband. I know in my heart I made the right decision but it was so hard to sit there in the office of the doctor who could have changed my whole life! The doctor who could have finally made me a mother! The doctor I unfortunately will never be a patient of.

This is just so hard! I hope you ladies don't mind me venting here even though I stopped TTC but I honestly have no one else to talk to and this hurts too bad to keep bottled inside.

I am so sorry to hear that you've been through all this.

Keep hope, things will get better

 

[tamithomas]

Dear AF, you are a day late. Please relieve me from my torture chambers known as my boobs. I hate that my boobs feeling like giant bruises around AF time. Can't even touch them and bras feel like iron maidens.

 

[Wishing_]

Love your picture tamithomas!

Rant: Dear AF, please stay away. A baby needs all the blood I have. With you coming like the witch you are won't allow the baby to be conceive. I hate you and if you do me this one favor I would love you, until its time for baby #2 or #3 if I end up with twins.

 

[AlyCon]

Thanks for the support ladies, it really means a lot

 

[tamithomas]

Thanks Wishing!

Af finally showed up which is a bitter sweet relief. My rant though is, I just reviewed my calendar and realized my mom and step father are coming to visit us right smack dab in our fertile window! We're out this month before we even begin. She visits every 3 or 4 months so it's not like I can reschedule. This would be so much simpler if human fertile cycles were every 2 weeks instead of every 1 month lol.

 

[Jett55]

Ugg another failed month once again af won another round why God can't I just be a normal woman? Why can't at least one thing in my life be simple

 

[LillyTame]

Just put in another order of OPKs...that makes 225 sticks since last December That's not including what I bought in the store...that's just online.

 

[cntrygrl]

It's been awhile since I posted on the vent thread. I'm sorry to see a lot of us still here TTC#1. My vent is simple "I hate the waiting game month after month"!

 

[Jett55]

Aww Lilly I've bought 130 all together & not buying anymore I give up on opks :/

 

[Jett55]

So sick of every time I get AF a bfp announcement blasts across my fb I get on to brag about my amazing chicken & dumplings I made for hubs & first thing I see is a pic of an hpt gaaaaah!!!!

 

[Wishing_]

The sad moment when I think the hubby & I should stop ttc. We're planning on moving so we need the monet to get the furniture and groceries. I know we won't be stabled because he is the only one working. I go to college and for me to get a job when my schedule is crazy isn't going to work.

It might be time to sit down with him and have him decide. Have a baby and stay with his parents who is more than willing to help us out or move and postpone having babies...

I want to cry!

 

[Wishing_]

I just finished posting a few seconds ago. He picked babies! I didn't even bring it up. I'm not sure if I should be happy that we're still going to TTC or be sad that we aren't moving!

I'm hoping this is it! I been having EWCM like there's no tomorrow. Since I been taking prenatals to help give my body the vitiamins I need for me and the future bun, my nipples have gottent darker! Sorry if its tmi. If I do end up with a I'm not going to care about my friends who are already pregnant! Let them deal with their pregnancy. I would have my own to worry about. Plus I'll be planning the baby shower and what I would love to do before the baby shower, a gender party!

I'm going to buy pink and blue things. Our family is going to pick one of the colors symbolizing which gender they think they baby might be. I'm thinking that my gyn can write it down and seal it. We might pick someome we can trust to fill a box with either pink or blue balloons to tell us what gender that baby is when we open it. I'm crazy right? I got everything planned aready and I'm not even pregnant! My pregnant friends don't know what to do!! Haha.

Okay that's enough venting for now!

 

[Jett55]

Wishing I have everything all planned out. How I want the babies room, names, just about everything. The only thing missing is the baby to fill the void :/