Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[Wishing_]

Wishing I have everything all planned out. How I want the babies room, names, just about everything. The only thing missing is the baby to fill the void :/

Same here! I already know what kind a furniture we're getting and the color. I didn't really think about the themes though. I got the boy theme which is going to be a jungle. I love monkeys. I'm simply missing the girl... The names are already picked out as well.

All we need is the baby and everything will be complete!

 

[Jett55]

My theme is elephants either way it's whether they'll be blue or pink. I hate this people who have everything planned & want it so bad have the hardest time conceiving it's stupid

 

[Wishing_]

Yup. Its a struggle but its nice to know we ain't struggling alone. Its fun planning things a head of time.

Call my crazy but I already started thinking about their first birthday party and taking a picture of them on their first day of school. UGH! Lol

 

[tamithomas]

Just heard about Duggar's bfp..I just want to SCREAM!

 

[Jett55]

Isn't that the 19 kids & counting people?

 

[cntrygrl]

Which one is pregnant? I heard that the parents are trying for a 20th, but haven't heard anything confirmed.

 

[tamithomas]

Nvm, my friend got it wrong. Yea it's the 19 and counting..but they're still actively trying though lol no judgement from me as it's their life but originally when my friend thought she had heard the news my brain filled with ubber jealousy. Apologies guys!

 

[droland2]

I'm testung tomorrow and nervous because I said I didnt want to take another test because my results kept turning out negative but my husband brought me a test without me knowing, Uhh Lord Jesus plz hear my cry and prayers, IN NAME OF THE FATHER SON HOLY SPIRIT IM SO READY TO SEE A POSITIVE SIGN ON THAT PREGNANCY TEST....Amen

 

[Jett55]

Still is irritating to think of all these people with 10+ kids & i cant even have one :/

 

[Wishing_]

I know. The hubby wanted 12 but since we're having trouble to make 1 he wants 3.

I read they are ttc and adopting if anything.

Baby dust to you droland2!

 

[LillyTame]

Aww Lilly I've bought 130 all together & not buying anymore I give up on opks :/

Yea, I've said a couple times I wasnt buying any more, that's why I only bought 25 the last time

 

[ExecutiveMom]

VENT?

OK, let's!

I have spent the last 12 years trying NOT to get pregnant! Dating, dating, staying focused, and positive. Building a great life for myself and this imaginary family. Then I get married, and make it all legit! I have a great job, a beautiful house, a savings plan, the money to spend on unexplained monthly infertility treatments, and NOTHING happens! Really? Been Married for over two years, and working on if since the day we got married, and NOTHING! Everything is negative! The first time I saw a positive OPK, I about peed my pants. Now every time I walk down that isle to buy more I want to throw it across the room.

So, that is nothing new to anyone here, we are all in about the same boat. To add insult to unexplained injury, my husband has a 7 year old who visits every other weekend. Its super fun seeing his one night stand show up at my door every other weekend, and drop off his love child. Regardless of how much you love someone else's kid, when it's your husband's ONE NIGHT STAND, and you can't make anything happen, it's infuriating! Then when it's "Happy week," and it falls on step kid's weekend… it's really hard.

THIS SUCKS!!!!

 

[tamithomas]

https://i43.tinypic.com/156uvtj.jpg

 

[Jett55]

Happy Halloween!!! Sad part is I'm a sap who's giving out candy tonight but better then getting dragged everywhere with my sister & her kids... :/

 

[Wishing_]

i'm just going to stay home and watch movies later on. Right now it's time for school.
Happy Halloween!

 

[madtowngirl]

I'm hiding out with my dogs while my husband gives out candy. Win!

 

[Wishing_]

So the hubby asked for help with giving out candy so I went to go help. OMG how much I want a baby to dress them up. I have seen the cutest babies and toddlers. My heart melted.

 

[Jett55]

We only had a few trick or treaters since it was pouring down rain yay more candy for us. I wish I had a baby to dress up too

 

[Wishing_]

No one came to my house. Just my cousin's 2 yr old. She was adorable in her Alice in Wonderland costume.

I'm up to the point were I don't care if I have twins or triplets. Just as long as I have a baby!

 

[PrayingLady]

VENT?

OK, let's!

I have spent the last 12 years trying NOT to get pregnant! Dating, dating, staying focused, and positive. Building a great life for myself and this imaginary family. Then I get married, and make it all legit! I have a great job, a beautiful house, a savings plan, the money to spend on unexplained monthly infertility treatments, and NOTHING happens! Really? Been Married for over two years, and working on if since the day we got married, and NOTHING! Everything is negative! The first time I saw a positive OPK, I about peed my pants. Now every time I walk down that isle to buy more I want to throw it across the room.

So, that is nothing new to anyone here, we are all in about the same boat. To add insult to unexplained injury, my husband has a 7 year old who visits every other weekend. Its super fun seeing his one night stand show up at my door every other weekend, and drop off his love child. Regardless of how much you love someone else's kid, when it's your husband's ONE NIGHT STAND, and you can't make anything happen, it's infuriating! Then when it's "Happy week," and it falls on step kid's weekend… it's really hard.

THIS SUCKS!!!!

My vent is your vent!