Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[Jett55]

I know it's selfish but I can't help but want to throw rocks at our fertile friends sometimes

 

[mindylou]

Had a mc this week with our first BFP.
Nurse tells me to wait 2 months before trying again in the most irritatingly nonchalant way. As if she thinks it's funny to hear my reaction... "2 months!?"
Shove it lady. Seriously. You need to work on your empathy.
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[tamithomas]

Had a mc this week with our first BFP.
Nurse tells me to wait 2 months before trying again in the most irritatingly nonchalant way. As if she thinks it's funny to hear my reaction... "2 months!?"
Shove it lady. Seriously. You need to work on your empathy.
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I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[Wishing_]

Had a mc this week with our first BFP.
Nurse tells me to wait 2 months before trying again in the most irritatingly nonchalant way. As if she thinks it's funny to hear my reaction... "2 months!?"
Shove it lady. Seriously. You need to work on your empathy.
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I'm so sorry to hear/read it. I'm in tears now. I would of punched her in the face for laughing!

 

[Wishing_]

Halloween made me want a baby so bad that i don't care if I get multiples! I actually want multiples now. I think I am be 13 or 14 dpo. I've been having ewcm on and off. It's time to saddle up, get the preseed ready and BD!

 

[mindylou]

Halloween made me want a baby so bad that i don't care if I get multiples! I actually want multiples now. I think I am be 13 or 14 dpo. I've been having ewcm on and off. It's time to saddle up, get the preseed ready and BD!

Fx for you!

 

[Lazydaisys]

Mindylou sorry to hear that. My doctor was similar. He told me to wait three month if I wanted to! Why would I want to? I asked him why and he couldn't give me a reason. People don't seems to realise all that hope and excitement just smacks you in the face. Hope you get pregnant again soon xx

 

[emmielemmie]

I have been TTC for the past few months and I my heart always breaks when I get that BFN. My husband and I take vitamins, we have intercourse the whole week of my fertile window. I cannot get pregnant. I feel like a failure. We don't smoke or drink. We are healthy. My cycles are regular. I don't know what is wrong with us. With me? I need advice. What is wrong???!!! I don't want to try if I will never conceive. I don't want to give up because I want to have a child with my husband.

 

[crayons]

I just spend the entire weekend with my sister and two of her really close friends shopping for a wedding dress for one of them. All three of these ladies had "accidental" babies. All weekend, all baby talk. Baby clothes shopping after we found the dress. Early Christmas shopping for babies. Talking about Santa. Cute little winter boots. Talking about Halloween costumes the babies just wore and their trick or treating antics. Complaints of no sleep. Talking about how they absolutely are loving the "quiet" weekend and getting to drink again.

And me just sitting quietly. Laughing when I'm supposed to. Ooo-ing and aww-ing over the adorable mini cardigans and baby sweaters.

This right after husband and I spent Halloween with a friend and her two kids (more happy little accidents) taking them trick or treating. Damn it, they're both freakin' adorable and I love them but seriously.

F*ck.

 

[Jett55]

After another girl with her "happy accident" & of course not married on fb... I retaliated posting being married & not having kids is rare these days I must be a unicorn ... it's soo fkked up how it's always the happily married couples with their lives in order are the ones who have problems conceiving. The universe is messed up :/

 

[crayons]

haha, Jett. That's perfect!

Exactly right though. Up until now, I've managed to keep it together pretty well but I started realizing just how many darn people I know who ended up pregnant purely by mistake.

Just rawr.

 

[madtowngirl]

I find myself wishing that I would have just skipped the bc 10 years ago when I was just dating my DH, so I could have had my "happy accident," too. How stupid am I to wish that - neither of us were even employed full-time! UGH you're right, Jett55, this universe is messed up.

 

[Jett55]

Apparently there is now a game on fb where ppl are posting "I'm pregnant" wtfff??? Gah! Had no idea til a friend texted me to rant about it. Yup! It sickens me

 

[Wishing_]

What... On... Earth!

Some people are lucky they're pregnant or I would tell them to shut the hell up about being pregnant when people like me are trying to get pregnant and because I actually want a kid. Not because I had a one night stand, trying to keep a man or it being an accident. GRRR!!

 

[ARobotS240]

The universe is messed up :/

This. It's not us. All of us here, we're doing it right. We're following the recipe and it's just not coming out. How does it make sense that my ex husband's junkie sister can accidentally get pregnant when she didn't have periods for at least a year from being so underweight due to drug use. Somehow the cup of half-caffeinated coffee I have to get me through the morning might be stopping me from getting pregnant but this druggie and her 43 year old boyfriend can accidentally conceive? Dear universe, you messed this up pretty badly.

 

[Jett55]

It's messed up how people doing everything right get dumped on with infertility. but people clearly not needing children have bunches And then they act like the infertile people are the one's who are to step in & take care of these unwanted children because people are too dang stupid to use protection! Um... no it's not my job to adopt your "mistake"... if I had my own child I'd take the responsibility for it. I have no problems with adoption or anything it's just sad how deadbeat parents can pawn off their kids but people would do anything just to have their own babies. Another wonderful example of how the universe is effed up!

 

[tamithomas]

So my mom's visit got postponed for reasons that are just plain frustrating but originally the upside was being able to get our bd on. Wrong! DH has developed a tooth ache as of this morning. Such horse crock. We bd'd just last night for heck of old fashion pleasurable sex and I'm cd11 but the one time of the month we need to go at it for the millionth time something prevents us. It's like we're cursed to never have children or something. DH and I talk about kids between so much you'd think we were obsessed or something but we're not, we're just really 2 people who have radar breaking maternal/paternal instincts and are sick of seeing our party go friends getting bfp left right and center by accident

 

[Lirpa11]

Just took a PT.., still not pregnant still early days as only cycle two for us to be trying as DH got cold feet halfway through the first cycle and most of the second cycle, but we're back on track now wish I had started TTC back in January. Seems like this is going to be a long few months...if not years.

 

[Wishing_]

Since I found out my friend is pregnant I would randomly hit her up. The first time was for prenatal pill call Nexas or Nexus. It help with nauseas , vomiting, and make your poo soft. Then yesterday I sent her a message saying to go to Happy Days because they got the cutes Mickey Mouse socks and I know she loves Mickey.

Now she's saying I could be apart of her pregnancy. I haven't replied. I'm not sure if we should start talking again. I miss her like crazy but her bf tried starting shit with my hubby and that's a big no, no.
They didn't even thought about having a baby until they actually heard and saw, (she was there when I took my first hpt) us ttc!

Decisions. Decisions.

The hubby & I went to go look at baby things. He started crying seeing the little booties. I felt so bad that I can't give him what he wants the most. It broke my heart. We agreed where we are getting the crib, how we are going to decorate the kids room when they are toddlers. We still need to find folic acid for him but we can't seem to find any! We are trying everything to conceive. I read if her take folic acid, vitamin C and something else would help us. I'm taking prenatal pills so I can get the necessary vitamins. I'm praying this is our month! I would consider it a early Christmas gift if I do get pregnant!

 

[tamithomas]

My Mom just emailed me a picture of the newborn of a childhood friend of mine who is 3 years younger than me..FML!