Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[Wishing_]

My husband and I are now officially ttc. I haven't ovulated since I came off of my antidepressants. I guess it messed up my cycle. My best friend is 12 weeks pregnant on accident. Today I got a text from her saying that I should just not even try to get pregnant because basically the morning sickness isn't worth it. She doesn't know how messed up my cycle is and she doesn't know how worried I am that I might not be able to get pregnant. But it still hurt because as much as I'm sure morning sickness sucks, I would kill to be in her position because it means I would be pregnant.

I read if you take prenatals before ot while TTC it would help out throughout the pregnancy and the morning sickness won't be as bad.

I heard the same! Started them about two weeks ago

I been taking them for a month.

 

[Wishing_]

And another hardcore partier is pregnant again uggg! I barely drink at all & all these ppl out partying get prego... so what do I have to get drunk every weekend in order to get a baby it seems to do the trick for everyone else!

Hehe, I told the hubby one day we gotta get drunk out our ass and BD! I've noticed the same thing. Sad part is I don't drink!! If it helps me get pregnant let's take some shots! Lol.

 

[hopeful12be]

Log in to facebook to see 5 bfp anouncements smack me in the face as I scroll down my page. really!!!!! Then I rent the movie grown ups 2 from redbox for my husband and I to watch and at the end he talks to his pregnant wifes belly I started bawling my eyes out! Every where I turn there's someone pregnant or something or someone is talking about becoming pregnant i'm ready to pull my hair out. This sucks! sorry had to rant some where.

 

[ashntony]

12 day AF and I am over it already

 

[Wishing_]

I think I've lost my mind. I had a dream were I took a pregnany test using a opk strip...

 

[star42]

My DH and I have been trying to conceive for 2 years now. We just tried our first cycle of IVF, today is 14dp5dt and PT showed negative. RE has asked us to test again tomorrow but is there any point? There wasnt even a faint second line. We transferred 2 high quality blastocysts so I dont know what could possibly be wrong. Any ideas anyone?

 

[Jett55]

Log in to facebook to see 5 bfp anouncements smack me in the face as I scroll down my page. really!!!!! Then I rent the movie grown ups 2 from redbox for my husband and I to watch and at the end he talks to his pregnant wifes belly I started bawling my eyes out! Every where I turn there's someone pregnant or something or someone is talking about becoming pregnant i'm ready to pull my hair out. This sucks! sorry had to rant some where.

I just watched that Saturday & I really wanted to cry & I feel ya it's everywhere I can't watch TV without something pregnancy related on whether it's on the show or a commercial. I can't go out in public without seeing pregnant women or newborns.

 

[crayons]

AAAAAAAGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHH!

That's really all I'm feeling today about this whole process.

Waiting and more waiting and more waiting and then even more waiting.

 

[tamithomas]

I love sex, not gonna lie but..anyone else feel like when you bd on your non fertile windows it just feels like a waste? Maybe I've started to take ttc too seriously but each time we bd I keep on wondering if after my hubby is finished that maybe there is the right sperm in me atm that if i were O'ing may have been the one. TTC really is like a light switch, once you turn it on it's hard to turn it off no matter how much you try.

 

[LillyTame]

I love sex, not gonna lie but..anyone else feel like when you bd on your non fertile windows it just feels like a waste?

OMG, YES! I swear I was gonna ask this one in my journal!

 

[Jett55]

Yep sure do... I've gotten to the point I dislike having sex after o like what's the point & dh always wants to & then I have to remind myself that reproduction isn't the only reason to have sex. And I don't want to make dh think that's the only reason we do.

 

[tamithomas]

OMG, YES! I swear I was gonna ask this one in my journal!

haha, great minds think alike

Yep sure do... I've gotten to the point I dislike having sex after o like what's the point & dh always wants to & then I have to remind myself that reproduction isn't the only reason to have sex. And I don't want to make dh think that's the only reason we do.

Exactly. I still do love sex depending on if I feel depressed or not but when I do bd on the off days it's hard to just enjoy sex by itself. Our brains have been so wrapped around bd'ing being for actual reproduction that I gotta remind myself sex can also be for pleasure only.

 

[Wishing_]

I been BD just fir fun and I haven't gotten pregnant. I think my ovulation days are messed up... One day on a Saturday I'm going to drink for the first time and get wasted out my ass. I swear if I get pregnant like that the universe if fucked up!

 

[ashrc66]

Ok , today is a day chalked full of emotions. Hubby and I are in the midst of TTC #1 and felt like we were on a great road. There have been a few times I feel like I am the one "wanting" a baby and that I might be pushing him into this. So, when we BD and he pulls out I felt odd/sad. I was wondering if it was just habit or what, so I asked him. Of course, what I said to what he heard was in full swing today. I told him I felt like he was acting like he didn't want kids by pulling out and he seemed offended. We have had the discussion and both of decided we were ready. I have been going to multiple doctors and doing every test imaginable and he has never complained or anything. I don't know why I even thought he didn't, I'm thinking it's just me being stressed out and he's a very quite man with not much to say really. And I am a constant talker about huge stuff like this. We had a discussion today and he seemed annoyed with the fact that I asked him, almost like it hurt his feelings. He spat out "Just because I don't talk about it doesn't mean I'm not ready for a baby, I'm not impatient and want a baby today or get upset when others are getting pregnant nor does that push me into wanting one more." This kinda hit a nerve with me and instant tears. I felt like he was thinking I am a crazy person with this TTC thing. He of course says no that's not what he meant just that he's not the type of person who needs to talk to someone else or get on a forum for this.
So this really must be one of those.... male brains vs female brains situations.
Can I just say I HATE hormones and how they control your emotions..

Thanks for letting me vent!

 

[ashrc66]

Log in to facebook to see 5 bfp anouncements smack me in the face as I scroll down my page. really!!!!! Then I rent the movie grown ups 2 from redbox for my husband and I to watch and at the end he talks to his pregnant wifes belly I started bawling my eyes out! Every where I turn there's someone pregnant or something or someone is talking about becoming pregnant i'm ready to pull my hair out. This sucks! sorry had to rant some where.

Same here!! IT sucks, but of course I can't tell my hubby because he tells me I am being impatient. It's not that I am impatient it just sucks seeing all these other girls pregnant and I have just gotten news that my hormone levels are just as good as a post-menopausal woman! AGH...
especially when they are one who party a lot and it was an accident.

 

[Wishing_]

I was hoping this would be it. I'm 13 dpo & I was scared to test because I don't want it to say negative. Thank god I didn't because the came early. I'm so fucking upset. I'm not going to school today. I feel like baking the two box of brownies I got and just have a sad depressing day and eat them while watching movies.

Idk how much more I can take this. Idk how some of you can keep trying for more than a year. Its devastating. I want to stop but the hubby doesn't because he really wants a babe and he knows I want one as well.

What else is there for me to do? I'm thinking about doing chomid or whoever its spelled. Can someone tell me more about it? I been seeing it in a few posts. I'm on my breaking point so right now I'm welling to do anything!

 

[ashrc66]

I was hoping this would be it. I'm 13 dpo & I was scared to test because I don't want it to say negative. Thank god I didn't because the came early. I'm so fucking upset. I'm not going to school today. I feel like baking the two box of brownies I got and just have a sad depressing day and eat them while watching movies.

Idk how much more I can take this. Idk how some of you can keep trying for more than a year. Its devastating. I want to stop but the hubby doesn't because he really wants a babe and he knows I want one as well.

What else is there for me to do? I'm thinking about doing chomid or whoever its spelled. Can someone tell me more about it? I been seeing it in a few posts. I'm on my breaking point so right now I'm welling to do anything!

Hi wishing, I am sorry you are having a rough go today! Do your doctors think you have issues ovulating? Clomid is used to help your body ovulate when it doesn't do it on its own. What other questions do you have?

 

[Wishing_]

No because we haven't done any tests. She said I should wait 3-6 months before we start running tests. I don't know anything about. Is it a pill or a shot?

 

[Jett55]

Something over the counter you could try is fertility blend they make it for both men & women my dh & I have noticed a difference.even though it takes about 3 months for significant difference. I've noticed way more ewcm around o. Or fertility aid works about the same. Just a thought to try until you can go to the doc

 

[Wishing_]

Do we need a description to get some?