Hi akc, it's definitely not a fun position to be in. Here we are struggling with our own emotions during this journey and then people say things that are insensitive to our struggle. It's especially worse whenever it's friends or family. I would think your sister would understand what you're feeling a little more since pregnancy #2 didn't happen right off the bat for her, but I guess she forgot about all of that once she got pregnant. As happy as I will be to be pregnant, I don't think I will ever forget the heartache and disappointment that this journey has caused. In a way, I think it's a blessing that has taught me to be very careful about what I say to people. A quote that stands out to be so much these days is this..."Everyone is fighting a battle that you know nothing about." Something like that at least lol. It really puts my struggle and life in general into perspective for me during these journey. Hope you get your miracle soon! Praying for you and everyone else on this thread.