Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[PCOSTTC]

offically been ttc#1 for a year!!!!!!!!!! is this ever going to happen?

& to all the people i keep hearing say 'i conceived in the first month, go die. i'm sick of hearing it!

I hate people saying "stop trying, it will happen when you dont try" It gets so annoying!!

 

[PCOSTTC]

I get so Jealous sometimes. I see so many of my friends ( not wanting it or being ready) getting pregnant and having babies, and im like sure, Im happy for them but at the same time.. I'm not. I always feel selfish for wishing they weren't but its hard not to.

 

[Jett55]

Af got me again of course that sneaky witch didn't appear until late tonight of course had to get my hopes up

 

[Sam10]

Those of you who are getting blood tests done. When did you decide it was time to do that? I'm over a week late now, no AF. Wondering if I should wait it out until the next period time or what.

 

[AlliCat]

Those of you who are getting blood tests done. When did you decide it was time to do that? I'm over a week late now, no AF. Wondering if I should wait it out until the next period time or what.

My doctor suggested the Day 3 and Day 21 blood work after my exam was fine and my husband had been trying for 8 months. They usually want you to try for 8 months to a year before they do any tests. All of my hormone levels were perfect except for progesterone which is way way way to low so as a result I start Clomid on Wednesday. Nervous but excited at the same time...

 

[AlyCon]

Those of you who are getting blood tests done. When did you decide it was time to do that? I'm over a week late now, no AF. Wondering if I should wait it out until the next period time or what.

Well I have pcos and without birth control I get AF maybe once a year so my doctor out me on Metformin. It's supposed to help me get AF and O but if I O first then I could get pregnant without getting AF. So for me I need the blood test because I really have no clue if I O'd or not or when to test since I can't say "AF is due this day so if its late I'll test" cuz I don't get AF :/ ughh sorry I'm kind of talking in a circle! Lol but for me Blood tests are necessary.

For a woman with a pretty regular AF you should get a blood test if AF is late but you're getting BFN on your at home urine tests.

 

[Limm]

I asked for a blood test after being nearly two weeks late for my AF, so it's up to you really. It's always worth just talking to your doctor if you're concerned.

Just got home from the GP. Turns out they took blood to do the other tests they mentioned possibly doing later on too. Apparently I should get a phone call about some of the results but I'll have to go in to get the others. Kinda caught me by surprise to be honest.

And now the waiting game...

 

[KellC]

I get so Jealous sometimes. I see so many of my friends ( not wanting it or being ready) getting pregnant and having babies, and im like sure, Im happy for them but at the same time.. I'm not. I always feel selfish for wishing they weren't but its hard not to.

My best friend just announced that they were expecting. And that they got pregnant on the first try. I don't think they expected to as they looked totally shocked and panicked. Meanwhile, this will be our sixth month TTC. I am very happy for them, but it's hard to smile and hug someone who looks so terrified at their good fortune. Especially knowing that I'm totally ready.

 

[Sam10]

Hope you get good news Limm!

 

[Limm]

No news yet.
Because I haven't got a mobile phone atm I concerned about leaving the house in case I miss the call, but my husband has already been asking me about going out today to see the in-laws.

 

[MrsMcNugget]

We have an unexpected house guest this week - my husband's uncle. First, I don't really care for this guy anyway - he's chauvinistic and an alcoholic and he's here because he had to go to court for another DUI. Second, I got a positive opk yesterday, but since we have company, DH doesn't want to dtd. So, I'm basically wasting a cycle because of this uncle, that I don't even like.

 

[PCOSTTC]

I get so Jealous sometimes. I see so many of my friends ( not wanting it or being ready) getting pregnant and having babies, and im like sure, Im happy for them but at the same time.. I'm not. I always feel selfish for wishing they weren't but its hard not to.

My best friend just announced that they were expecting. And that they got pregnant on the first try. I don't think they expected to as they looked totally shocked and panicked. Meanwhile, this will be our sixth month TTC. I am very happy for them, but it's hard to smile and hug someone who looks so terrified at their good fortune. Especially knowing that I'm totally ready.

I know the feeling, My hunnys sister got both her kids from two one night stands and wasent ready for either one of them. Meanwhile, We have been trying for close to a year and are getting nowhere!

 

[Limm]

We have an unexpected house guest this week - my husband's uncle. First, I don't really care for this guy anyway - he's chauvinistic and an alcoholic and he's here because he had to go to court for another DUI. Second, I got a positive opk yesterday, but since we have company, DH doesn't want to dtd. So, I'm basically wasting a cycle because of this uncle, that I don't even like.

Persuade him with lingerie?

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Uggggh, I can't STAND dealing with insurance companies! Why does health care have to be so complicated?! Why can't the US become like every other progressive country in regards to their citizens' health?

 

[Hopeful1479]

I have been reading blogs on many sites for a few months now and today I decided to join a site!! I am new so I hope I am on the right path for all this. I am TTC now for 3 months and I can't get regular periods, I have been of BC now for 4 months. 2 more of my friends are expecting and I hate faking happiness, I really am happy but I want my own happiness. Is this the right place? I hate reading about not stressing, just relax and what will happen will happen. My sister has 3 beautiful kids, most my friends are on their 2nd or 3rd and then there is me... I am guess this forum was created for others like me??? Thanks for letting me vent.

 

[JJB]

I have been reading blogs on many sites for a few months now and today I decided to join a site!! I am new so I hope I am on the right path for all this. I am TTC now for 3 months and I can't get regular periods, I have been of BC now for 4 months. 2 more of my friends are expecting and I hate faking happiness, I really am happy but I want my own happiness. Is this the right place? I hate reading about not stressing, just relax and what will happen will happen. My sister has 3 beautiful kids, most my friends are on their 2nd or 3rd and then there is me... I am guess this forum was created for others like me??? Thanks for letting me vent.

Welcome!! :wave: This is a great place for support! I hate it when people tell me just to relax and stuff too, it's pretty annoying. And oftentimes it's coming from people who have never really gone through the experience of trying to conceive (you know, on purpose!) or from people that got pregnant relatively quick. So in other words, how would they know?! Everyone here is very supportive and helpful, with real tips and are very understanding as to how emotionally difficult it can be to go through the whole process of ttc. Anyway, glad you joined and you can vent anytime!

 

[JJB]

So...I'm going to take a PG test tomorrow! AF is due either Friday or Saturday. Wish me luck!

 

[Sam10]

Sigh. 10 days late today. I've taken about 8 tests in the last week. I don't know when I'll be able to see a doctor. I guess maybe I'll just wait and see if I miss another.

 

[junce27]

i feel what u feel...m having difficulty in conceiving too.

 

[junce27]

hi, i am also new to this site, and wihtout a doubt i decided to register today.hope this site can help me through and comfort me in this way, i am married last june 2012, and i am still trying to concieve and hoping i can have a healthy baby.