Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[tamithomas]

Oh boy...day before AF and already having cramps, that only happens when it's going to be a strong one. Lord have mercy on my soul. Saturday at Wal Mart and other stores should be a thrill Reason I'm not canceling the store visit is my mom only comes to visit every 3-4 months and she wants to get me a late bday present and I need stuff there and she's my only ride besides for when we have about 40$ worth of gas money lying around. Excedrin and chocolate, please do your magic this weekend? I would be forever greatful if you fully kick in

 

[Limm]

27 days late, I'm sick of living under the same roof as my parents and that we haven't found our own marital home yet, both of us still can't find work in this stupid town, my mother has no respect for our privacy and my dad just complains about everything being wrong all the time. The stress isn't helping, I'm back to overeating again and still smoking, I can't afford to go swimming, when I walk anywhere lately it's incredibly painful (I've had problems with my feet/legs since birth) and I'm still waiting to hear back from the doctors about the blood tests they did on Tuesday.

I'm amazed that I haven't cried or hit anyone yet.

Sorry that I keep venting btw it's just that it kinda helps take the edge off.

 

[Lmkelly15]

Ok, so I am completely new to this whole forum thing. Usually I just read to see if people are in the same boat as me, but I need to vent. I have been off BC for 14 months. I started using ovulation tests once I hit my one year mark of being off BC. I feel like everyone I talk to is pregnant but me. I have several people at work pregnant, and now just found out that two of my girlfriends are pregnant. Don't get me wrong, I am super excited for them but when they make comments such as "oh I figured you would've been pregnant months ago" I just get so frustrated. I had a chemical pregnancy in January and I am trying to turn it into something positive but am struggling. Fingers crossed that the next one who says I'm pregnant is me. Just started the two week wait. Thanks for letting me vent,

 

[FireLyte]

Why is it, that when I wasn't TTC (over a year ago), there was absolutely NO ONE that I knew that was pregnant, but when I start TTC, they're coming out of the woodwork? I thought, maybe, that I was just being ignorant and missed announcements, but if that were true, people I know would have started having their babies back before September. In the past month, 2 people I know had their little ones, in the past 3 months, I've learned of 4 people that are preggers. It's almost like an epidemic! and why can't I catch it?

 

[AlliCat]

Why is it, that when I wasn't TTC (over a year ago), there was absolutely NO ONE that I knew that was pregnant, but when I start TTC, they're coming out of the woodwork? I thought, maybe, that I was just being ignorant and missed announcements, but if that were true, people I know would have started having their babies back before September. In the past month, 2 people I know had their little ones, in the past 3 months, I've learned of 4 people that are preggers. It's almost like an epidemic! and why can't I catch it?

I am in the exact same. Hubby and I have been TTC for the past 8 months. All the sudden I hear 3 of my friends are pregnant and my unmarried 22 year old sister in law. I wish it were something that you could just "catch" like a cold or something. Dr. put me on Clomid, take my second dose today... Good luck!

 

[JJB]

Go AF today It's two days early. WTF. So much for all the PG "symptoms". All in my head again I guess. Or just one heck of a period! Never had my boobs hurt so bad for a whole 2 weeks leading up to AF. Oh well...

 

[CakeCottage]

Well I'm just really upset now... The girl who lives round the corner who doesn't even want kids yet has just announced that she's pregnant - with twins!!!!!

 

[AlyCon]

Another BFP announcement from people who SHOULD NOT be having kids right now!!!

I swear I would have never gotten married if I had known this was how the universe works! Seriously! I would have broken off my engagement, dropped out of high shool, applied for welfare, and fucked everything with pulse! I'm sure I'd have ten kids by now!

 

[JJB]

Another BFP announcement from people who SHOULD NOT be having kids right now!!!

I swear I would have never gotten married if I had known this was how the universe works! Seriously! I would have broken off my engagement, dropped out of high shool, applied for welfare, and fucked everything with pulse! I'm sure I'd have ten kids by now!

^^^I know what you mean!! lol. It doesn't seem fair

 

[AlliCat]

Another BFP announcement from people who SHOULD NOT be having kids right now!!!

I swear I would have never gotten married if I had known this was how the universe works! Seriously! I would have broken off my engagement, dropped out of high shool, applied for welfare, and fucked everything with pulse! I'm sure I'd have ten kids by now!

I feel the exact same freakin' way...!!! Thanks far sayin' it!

 

[PCOSTTC]

Well I'm just really upset now... The girl who lives round the corner who doesn't even want kids yet has just announced that she's pregnant - with twins!!!!!

theres a 15 year old girl my younger sister goes to school with who is pregnant with twins.. Life just never seems to work out fair. A friend of mine just had a baby ( she complained to me her whole pregnancy saying that she didnt want to be a mom that she didnt want to have to stop partying) And now she keeps saying shes so happy with her life and how she is on Like UGH.. You didnt want it in the first place!!

 

[Sam10]

Being this late with no signs and negative results is so annoying! Today makes 11 days late. I haven't tested with anything besides the Clinical Guard tests. I just haven't been able to bring myself to go spend more money on a First Response just to be disappointed, again. I do not chart or temp. It puts too much stress on me. Who knows if I actually even ovulate. I dunno! I just wish this could be easy and happen on it's own!

 

[Limm]

Being this late with no signs and negative results is so annoying! Today makes 11 days late. I haven't tested with anything besides the Clinical Guard tests. I just haven't been able to bring myself to go spend more money on a First Response just to be disappointed, again. I do not chart or temp. It puts too much stress on me. Who knows if I actually even ovulate. I dunno! I just wish this could be easy and happen on it's own!

I've been there hun (and I'm still going through it now!) Keep testing and I would reccomend asking your doctor for a blood test also.

 

[Limm]

I just called the doctor because I got sick of waiting and turns out my results are in, but he wants me to come in to discuss them.

It's something bad, isn't it?

 

[tamithomas]

I just called the doctor because I got sick of waiting and turns out my results are in, but he wants me to come in to discuss them.

It's something bad, isn't it?

Bets of luck Let us know what the results are. We're here for you no matter what.

 

[Hopeful1479]

Another BFP announcement from people who SHOULD NOT be having kids right now!!!

I swear I would have never gotten married if I had known this was how the universe works! Seriously! I would have broken off my engagement, dropped out of high shool, applied for welfare, and fucked everything with pulse! I'm sure I'd have ten kids by now!

You took the words right out of my mouth!! My friends are all on child number 2, 3, 4 etc.... I swear everytime I get on the elevator there is a new pregnant person... I now take the stairs!! My single friend who does not date, and is pretty boring and sits home, got hammered one night at a bar and took a guy home and guess what got PREGNANT!! Then she tells me "it will happen to you if it can happen to me" UGH, I know people mean well and try to tell to me relax or what not but STFU (shut the %$$# UP)... AF is 2 days late which would now make me on CD37, as if my last 3 cycles were not messed up lets add another month!! Ok I am done... Happy Friday!!

 

[Hopeful1479]

I just called the doctor because I got sick of waiting and turns out my results are in, but he wants me to come in to discuss them.

It's something bad, isn't it?

Good luck!! I know it can be hard sometimes but try to be positive!! I read a book once that said: "If this month AF come and you feel disapoinment, turn it around into thoughts of what could be next month" I swore at the book becuase the author has 4 kids!!! Keep your head up!!

 

[JJB]

F#@k!!! Just found out some friends of ours are having a baby...I'm happy for them...okay that's a lie. I feel like I want to cry. I almost started to but I'm holding it in. Then we called our insurance company to see if they covered any fertility stuff but they don't Oh and the friends of our that got pregnant weren't even trying or planning on having a baby it "just happened".

 

[AlyCon]

F#@k!!! Just found out some friends of ours are having a baby...I'm happy for them...okay that's a lie. I feel like I want to cry. I almost started to but I'm holding it in. Then we called our insurance company to see if they covered any fertility stuff but they don't Oh and the friends of our that got pregnant weren't even trying or planning on having a baby it "just happened".

I just experienced another BFP announcement today too. I swear I just want to give up sometimes but I can't! We have to stick together and keep trying for our BFPs!! hugs and baby dust

 

[Limm]

F#@k!!! Just found out some friends of ours are having a baby...I'm happy for them...okay that's a lie. I feel like I want to cry. I almost started to but I'm holding it in. Then we called our insurance company to see if they covered any fertility stuff but they don't Oh and the friends of our that got pregnant weren't even trying or planning on having a baby it "just happened".

It's people like that that make me sometimes wish I didn't care so much about wanting a family.