Trying To Conceive #1 Only Vent Thread

[oneKnight]

Maybe they just like rollerblading?
I've been an avid rollerblader since middle school - it used to be our family thing on Sarurday mornings. With decent practice you learn to fall without hurting a thing. Spilling while rolleblading on concrete and not even getting a scratch from the pavement is possible.
I'd hate for people to judge me if I rollerblade while pregnant. Besides, I figure if you feel up to that sort of thing, more power to ya! Lots of people feel so icky they don't do much of anything, much less sports. Most doctors will tell you that if you did it before pregnant, you may continue while pregnant. Or maybe the doc told them to do some exercise that didn't hurt their knees?
I personally think I'll stick to just walking my dogs - as I've done for 6 years. But imagine people seeing my 100lb self walking two 70lb dogs and thinking how god-awful I'm being putting my baby's life at risk coz those huge dogs might just decide to drag me off!???? Little do they know that I've been walking them for many years and they've never tried to drag me

 

[tamithomas]

Maybe they just like rollerblading?
I've been an avid rollerblader since middle school - it used to be our family thing on Sarurday mornings. With decent practice you learn to fall without hurting a thing. Spilling while rolleblading on concrete and not even getting a scratch from the pavement is possible.
I'd hate for people to judge me if I rollerblade while pregnant. Besides, I figure if you feel up to that sort of thing, more power to ya! Lots of people feel so icky they don't do much of anything, much less sports. Most doctors will tell you that if you did it before pregnant, you may continue while pregnant. Or maybe the doc told them to do some exercise that didn't hurt their knees?
I personally think I'll stick to just walking my dogs - as I've done for 6 years. But imagine people seeing my 100lb self walking two 70lb dogs and thinking how god-awful I'm being putting my baby's life at risk coz those huge dogs might just decide to drag me off!???? Little do they know that I've been walking them for many years and they've never tried to drag me

The thing about our bike path is the city does not clean it daily so it's very easy to get a pebble into the roller blade which no matter how much practice you've had in your life, nothing can really prevent that. Wouldn't be so much of an issue if the city did clear it on a daily basis. We're lucky if they pass once a week meaning the city cleaners. Walking dogs at least you have your feet on the ground at all times. I agree though, power to them for having the energy to do it or their feet even being capable of doing it lol.

Anyways didn't mean for it to offend anyone, it was just a vent. Cheers!

 

[Limm]

I understand that my husband works a lot lately, but considering that on a daily basis I am cleaning up after him constantly, searching and repeatedly getting shot down for jobs I have more than enough experience for, trying to support his family through a difficult time, worrying about my club feet turning back to how they were after being discharged over 16 years ago, being in pain if I walk more than 10 metres, worrying about him feeling the need to have a drink every day, getting threats from debt collectors, budgeting money that seems to magically disappear, working out how we're going to move out of my parents' house finally AND trying to conceive our first child, it would be nice for him to show some support when I'm randomly puking my guts up for the second night in a row and yet again leave it for me to clean up/sort out, despite the number of times I have had to take care of him when he is being sick from drinking.

Excuse me while I go outside and scream at cars.

 

[oneKnight]

Rant about OH:
He's a blabber mouth!

He works at a place that I got fired from. I had some dirt on the boss and owner there. The owner's daughter in law, I will call "K" hated me and tried to get me fired for no reason other than female jelousy, even though she was not really an employee there she was on the payroll and handsomely paid by daddy to "do the payroll" (submit paperwork to a Paychex company twice a month). She was a spoiled rich brat, and very manipulitive.
Anyway, at the time there was some sexual harassment going on from K's husband, she had good reasons to be suspicous I guess, but it was "covered up" since he was the son-in-law. I heard through the grapevine, that daddy was trying to bribe K to leave naughty son in law. So K went and got pregnant to put an end to that. She basically got pg as soon as she wanted to.

Now OH was blabbing to his boss (K's husband) about my infertility.....and boss tells OH that K needed Clomid to get pregnant, and goes on like they had infertility too. Maybe she needed help ovulating right after coming off the pill? I dunno, but they certainly didn't have infertility. As far as I can tell the baby was just a pawn for a manipulitive bitch to control daddy with. I hate her for it, and am disgusted by the whole family!
Unfortunately, it's a very solid great job for my hubby, or I'd tell him to tell them where they could stick it.

I know if I get pregnant, and wanna keep things on the down low for a while, especially at work (as many women do) hubbs is gonna blab and pretty soon the whole town will know!!!!
Would it be cruel of me to NOT tell the baby's daddy till I made the official announcement???? Errrrr

 

[VP1228]

Rant about OH:
He's a blabber mouth!

He works at a place that I got fired from. I had some dirt on the boss and owner there. The owner's daughter in law, I will call "K" hated me and tried to get me fired for no reason other than female jelousy, even though she was not really an employee there she was on the payroll and handsomely paid by daddy to "do the payroll" (submit paperwork to a Paychex company twice a month). She was a spoiled rich brat, and very manipulitive.
Anyway, at the time there was some sexual harassment going on from K's husband, she had good reasons to be suspicous I guess, but it was "covered up" since he was the son-in-law. I heard through the grapevine, that daddy was trying to bribe K to leave naughty son in law. So K went and got pregnant to put an end to that. She basically got pg as soon as she wanted to.

Now OH was blabbing to his boss (K's husband) about my infertility.....and boss tells OH that K needed Clomid to get pregnant, and goes on like they had infertility too. Maybe she needed help ovulating right after coming off the pill? I dunno, but they certainly didn't have infertility. As far as I can tell the baby was just a pawn for a manipulitive bitch to control daddy with. I hate her for it, and am disgusted by the whole family!
Unfortunately, it's a very solid great job for my hubby, or I'd tell him to tell them where they could stick it.

I know if I get pregnant, and wanna keep things on the down low for a while, especially at work (as many women do) hubbs is gonna blab and pretty soon the whole town will know!!!!
Would it be cruel of me to NOT tell the baby's daddy till I made the official announcement???? Errrrr

Personally I don't think it is cruel because my DF is a blabber mouth also. He would tell his mom before I can even hang up the phone. So I do understand why you would not want to tell him. But I also would say it would be hard to hold it in since you want a baby so bad. So I would say it depends on how you feel in that moment. You may not want to tell him because of how he is.

 

[oneKnight]

I'm sure I would tell him as soon as I got that second line on a test!
But I guess I can kiss any hopes of keeping it on the down low goodbye ahead of time. I guess I'll just have to get used to it!
Course, it may never be an issue...

 

[Ayjay]

Mine is a blabbermouth too oneKnight and I've had a wonder or two about whether to tell him, but I definately would. Hopefully it will be an issue for both of us, very soon

 

[VP1228]

I feel so dumb for making my fiance as baby crazy as I am. We still look at baby clothes and furniture together even though we may never have a baby of our own. Why does this hurt so bad when I know why I am not pregnant?

 

[tamithomas]

Now that Kanye and Kim's baby is born, can the news and everyone on facebook stfu about North. Unless the baby is the second coming of Jesus Christ the birth of a baby is awesome but it's not a global revolution. Specifically when it's from those two empty heads. I can't stand Kim after her false claim of infertility for attention.

 

[tamithomas]

My thoughts every time I hear women complaining about their post baby bodies:

 

[HBGirl]

I can't stand Kim after her false claim of infertility for attention.

OMG yes! So much!

 

[VP1228]

I think it is crazy that the baby nickname is Nori when that should have been her real name instead of North. I mean that is outrageous her nickname sounds better than her real name.

 

[MrsAM]

Pretty damn peed off cos the hospital made me take a pregnancy test to 'confirm' I am not pregnant even though I told them AF uglyface turned up and she bled with a vengeance! No way was that some light bleeding. Yeah yeah I know why I have to but I hate pregnancy tests anyway with a passion...there are only so many BFN's a person can take. So I promised myself I would only try them when I actually feel preggers lol. Crazy I know....anyway it was a BFN as I suspected. Regular Sherlock Holmes me

Urgghhh why can't I even conceive one BFP! Wtf is wrong with my body!!

 

[hopetobemomm]

any ladies here have ectopic

 

[hopetobemomm]

ive been trying to get pregnant for a while its come to my attention that i will need ivf or i will never have a baby

 

[hopetobemomm]

What is so messed up about biology that it allows my 17 year old niece to get pregnant long before she is mature enough to be a mom, while I—who waited until I was through graduate school, married, had a stable income, savings, and bought a house—cannot seem to get pregnant? Why is our fertility so much better at an age when most people aren't yet ready to have children?

i soooooo agree my niece at 16 got prego im 25 and i need ivf

 

[VP1228]

What is so messed up about biology that it allows my 17 year old niece to get pregnant long before she is mature enough to be a mom, while I—who waited until I was through graduate school, married, had a stable income, savings, and bought a house—cannot seem to get pregnant? Why is our fertility so much better at an age when most people aren't yet ready to have children?

i soooooo agree my niece at 16 got prego im 25 and i need ivf

If I can't get the scar tissue off my ovaries I will need IVF and donor eggs and maybe donor sperm since DF is a Type 2 diabetic ugh this sucks

 

[tamithomas]

any ladies here have ectopic

you'll have better results in the miscarriage support or ttc after a miscarriage. Sorry for your loss!

 

[tamithomas]

To start getting back into shape or not to..that is the question? On one hand, I have no hope of bfp anytime soon so what the heck but on the other hand what if I do get bfp? It would be a waste of time. The weird ponderings of TTC.

 

[tamithomas]

Well..it happened. I've heard about it as an expression but it legit happened. First time ever. I literally puked after hearing about a bfp announcement. First time ever I've gotten so upset that my stomach reacted. There's a first for everything I guess.....