Trying To Conceive #1+ Vent Thread

[littlegirl87]

Pheonix82
Yesterday was cd 1 for me as af showed up right on time. So im preparing for yet another round. I used to do zumba every single day and if that is what you body is used to they they to go for it! Just don't want to do anything too strenuous that your body would not be uses to. I took a break from the zumba when we started trying a while ago so i haven't gone back to that yet. I will do a 30 minute daily burn workout each day or walk my dogs a couple miles. These are both usually mild forms but still get my hr moving!

Sending absolutely wonderful wishes your way

 

[Phoenix82]

I'm cd12 today and I seemed to have gotten a bit of a poorly to which I had cd12 last cycle. So I guess ovulation must be coming.

The monitor shows estrogen faintly and lh dark which also shows ovulation coming.

So I have a week then I'm done.

Good luck this cycle. Keep me posted xxx

 

[Phoenix82]

Apologies in advance but I need to vent this!!!

I've got what appears to be the signs of ovulation happening with the monitor and sticks (no o symbol but I'm still in my first month of using my monitor). But last month cd12 I had diareah at lunchtime and I have the same again today - cd12!!! So I'm assuming this is just before o (I could be wrong).

And today I've rushed home to bd mid afternoon before being out and unable to bd again until Monday and the oh has a "headache" (the most crucial time if I ovulate in the next day or 2!!!!!!!) I may as well write this month off, bloody men - I'm livid with him.
I know he can't help the headache but I'm sure he could mange 15 mins (tmi I know but if we need to just get it done it is possible, god knows I've felt terrible some months but still done it).

Especially as we are out with his Dad for dinner and he's go karting tomorrow ( I'm sure he'll manage those 2 things)!!!

I'm soooooo disappointed :growl mad:

 

[littlegirl87]

Apologies in advance but I need to vent this!!!

I've got what appears to be the signs of ovulation happening with the monitor and sticks (no o symbol but I'm still in my first month of using my monitor). But last month cd12 I had diareah at lunchtime and I have the same again today - cd12!!! So I'm assuming this is just before o (I could be wrong).

And today I've rushed home to bd mid afternoon before being out and unable to bd again until Monday and the oh has a "headache" (the most crucial time if I ovulate in the next day or 2!!!!!!!) I may as well write this month off, bloody men - I'm livid with him.
I know he can't help the headache but I'm sure he could mange 15 mins (tmi I know but if we need to just get it done it is possible, god knows I've felt terrible some months but still done it).

Especially as we are out with his Dad for dinner and he's go karting tomorrow ( I'm sure he'll manage those 2 things)!!!

I'm soooooo disappointed :growl mad:

I went through the SAME type of thing with my DH and it made me so incredibly mad i could have killed him to be honest. Sometimes i think they just truly don't understand how small of a window it is, but they need to!!!

Good luck hun! I hope something works out somehow!

 

[Phoenix82]

I went through the SAME type of thing with my DH and it made me so incredibly mad i could have killed him to be honest. Sometimes i think they just truly don't understand how small of a window it is, but they need to!!!

Good luck hun! I hope something works out somehow![/QUOTE]

They are soooo annoying!!!! My oh couldn't understand why I was so mad??
I cannot guarantee when I'll ovulate but the monitor is showing the right signs and tomorrow is cd14.

Today I've been REALLY sick but am feeling loads better now so am making him bd tonight!!
I could do without it but if I haven't ovulated yet I still might have a shot at catching it - hopeful or what?

 

[littlegirl87]

I went through the SAME type of thing with my DH and it made me so incredibly mad i could have killed him to be honest. Sometimes i think they just truly don't understand how small of a window it is, but they need to!!!

Good luck hun! I hope something works out somehow!

They are soooo annoying!!!! My oh couldn't understand why I was so mad??
I cannot guarantee when I'll ovulate but the monitor is showing the right signs and tomorrow is cd14.

Today I've been REALLY sick but am feeling loads better now so am making him bd tonight!!
I could do without it but if I haven't ovulated yet I still might have a shot at catching it - hopeful or what?[/QUOTE]

fingers crossed for you!!

 

[MoonKitten]

I have been TTC 4 years, I have PCOS. I'm 32 days late. 6 negative urine tests and a negative blood test done 10 days late. VERY CONFUSED. I have veins apearing on my breasts, nauseated for the past 3 weeks and been dizzy and almost feinted earlier today. I've had chills and some days it seems like no matter what I eat I can't get full yet other days food doesn't appeal to me at all. My breasts randomly start aching for the past 2 weeks. My nipples are dark some days and light others and VERY sensitive (very unusual, they weren't even that way when they started growing) I've been an emotional train wreck. I don't know what to do anymore. Due to my irregular periods my doc won't listen to me and give me a t. V. Ultrasound. Usually my periods can switch arround 2 weeks but I had gotten it regulated through a special diet. They had been regular for 6 months before this. I'm very fustrated to the point where I have thought about giving up. Sometimes it just feels so hopeless. Any suggestions?

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Thanks "best friend" for choosing to tell me you are pregnant like that - after one month of NTNP. Thanks so much. If you knew me properly you would know I am in no state to handle those sorts of announcements, but cheers, you managed to ruin my week.month.year.

 

[Phoenix82]

Tuesdaybaby you poor thing.

Have you told people you are ttc?
I only ask as I have a friend ttc and I've not told her I am as she doesn't need the added pressure of thinking I might get there first. She's very much like that and she'd ask me every 5 mins which would stress me out!!

Some people don't realise how they come over, they just aren't self aware. She should have known that would have hurt you.

You WILL get there sweetie xxxx

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Thanks Phoenix, I appreciate your reply x

She and I had a timeline, she knew when we were about to start trying but I didn't tell her exactly when as I couldn't cope with the questions or dancing around the subject... I've ended up telling quite a few people about it now because I couldn't cope at work this morning & I've broken down twice in the space of 2 hours!!!!

Gosh, my life! x

 

[Phoenix82]

It's understandable hun.

I totally understand why it's hurt you.

You need to focus on ways to help you get pregnant and block other people that aren't helping you out.

 

[tuesdaysbaby]

Yes I'm being proactive: am doing acupuncture and we are also going for testing as I have a hard time believing that all is OK with my system! That seems to be a step in the right direction.

Thanks so much again! x

 

[Phoenix82]

 

[littlegirl87]

Hello Ladies,
I have been TTC for 11 months now and am getting ready to start another round of trying. My cycles are finally a little more regulated and things seem to be shaping up so I am hoping that maybe this time around will give me a good chance of actually getting that BFP I've been dreaming of! lol but seriously....

I was just wondering for those of you who have been trying and finally gotten your BFP if there was anything you did differently on that cycle that you think may have contributed to getting it to FINALLY HAPPEN!?!?!

Thanks in advanced!!

 

[mrsonwong]

So you know the feeling when friends and family around you get their own little bundle of joy news and they share their wonderful news with you. Then they stop and apologize and feel a little bit guilty because they know that you’ve been trying for a while. Then you feel like crap because you don’t want them to feel that way because you truly and seriously want to share in their happiness and yet feel a teenie weenie bit jealous and sad. Yea.. that’s what I’m feeling today. (especially since I just got my BFN this month a couple of days ago)

3 friends who just shared their baby news
2 friends who just sent out their baby shower invitations (one of them is my sister)
1 friend giving birth any day now.

This is a seriously FML kinda week.

 

[littlegirl87]

So you know the feeling when friends and family around you get their own little bundle of joy news and they share their wonderful news with you. Then they stop and apologize and feel a little bit guilty because they know that you’ve been trying for a while. Then you feel like crap because you don’t want them to feel that way because you truly and seriously want to share in their happiness and yet feel a teenie weenie bit jealous and sad. Yea.. that’s what I’m feeling today. (especially since I just got my BFN this month a couple of days ago)

3 friends who just shared their baby news
2 friends who just sent out their baby shower invitations (one of them is my sister)
1 friend giving birth any day now.
This is a seriously FML kinda week.

My sister-in-law Just had her first in July 2013....So EVERY time we see them it makes my heart hurt

I love my niece to death! She is great and wonderful and so is my sis-in-law! she is so supportive and helpful with advice and such, but we have been trying for a year now and its so hard because I want to be in her situation so bad!

Then my DH has 3 cousins who are all due within the next 3 months so we hear about that all the time and then people ask "when are you guys going to have one"....that is KILLER

I feel for ya! At least you know you aren't alone!

Here's to our TIME being NOW! to you!

 

[Phoenix82]

So you know the feeling when friends and family around you get their own little bundle of joy news and they share their wonderful news with you. Then they stop and apologize and feel a little bit guilty because they know that you’ve been trying for a while. Then you feel like crap because you don’t want them to feel that way because you truly and seriously want to share in their happiness and yet feel a teenie weenie bit jealous and sad. Yea.. that’s what I’m feeling today. (especially since I just got my BFN this month a couple of days ago)

3 friends who just shared their baby news
2 friends who just sent out their baby shower invitations (one of them is my sister)
1 friend giving birth any day now.
This is a seriously FML kinda week.

poor you

It totally sucks!!! Soooo with you.
I'm having AF trying to start now so I know I'm out I'm just waiting for it to turn up xxx

 

[mrsonwong]

Thanks so much for your kind thoughts.
I'm just grateful that there's still another opportunity to try.. let's see what April/May will bring for us.

 

[derickaluc]

Hello everyone! My experience is indeed a scary one. My cycle was due to come on on the 17th of this month which was Thursday. Which mean I ovulated April the 1-5. I had sex the 3-6. I also had cramps on that Friday and Saturday. Saturday my nipples became extremely sore which has never, ever happened before. This lasted about a week and a half. I also cramped that Tuesday and Thursday the week after but no bleeding. That brings me to last week which was the week of my period. I cramped again Tuesday and Thursday which was the day my period was due, NO BLEEDING! Friday morning I awoke with cramping as well. I go to the toilet only to see brown and pink spotting. Thinking that I would bleed heavy, I put on a tampon. I leave it in for hours. Only the same very small amount of pink and brown spotting and when I wiped, very light pink. I got to the point where I realized I was only wasting tampons and wore a panty liner. The spotting lasted for 2 days. Friday night I vomited 4 times from nowhere. I also vomited the same night from the smell of smoke which never happens. Then turned into red bleeding that's very light. My periods are usually heavy from the first to the last day. This was very light to where I can wear panty liners. Bleeding lasted 3 days. Can anyone share with me what is going? Hoping someone has experienced this. Thanks!

 

[littlegirl87]

kind of not looking good on my temps huh? I don't figure having flat temps not that much above coverline at 9DPO is a good sign?? Any input anyone?