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[GoldenRatio]

My dad n his gf had a ups baby too n my dad is 55 n gf is 44! And here I am all filled with youth but can't hav a kid

Btw I was super tired and irritated today n when I got home, DH was mean to me so it pissed me off even more. We are not talking. I was so hungry but couldn't even eat beaches of anger. Af must be on its way, signalling

 

[TJ Islander]

My dad n his gf had a ups baby too n my dad is 55 n gf is 44! And here I am all filled with youth but can't hav a kid

Btw I was super tired and irritated today n when I got home, DH was mean to me so it pissed me off even more. We are not talking. I was so hungry but couldn't even eat beaches of anger. Af must be on its way, signalling

Sorry girl. look at the bright side: at least you dont need his sperms for a while. lol. it would be crazy if this happened during ovulation.

you guys will make up soon enough!!!

 

[GoldenRatio]

Omg TJ u actually made me smile while I was crying. Thanks!

I don't want his sperms anymore, he can keep it he didn't eat n went to bed, so I threw out the food. I hate how I spent hours cooking n after treating me like poop, he doesn't even eat it. Not gonna test tom, don't even feel like continuing ttc.

 

[BelleNuit]

Ha-ha Golden, that's just about how I sound during the tww! It's crazy how wonderful find my husband when I'm ovulating... and how annoying I find him at other times of the month haha

 

[GoldenRatio]

I know! I hate everything that he does week left to af so about time for bitchness but this time i was right! Problem is not my hormones.

 

[puma1986]

Ladies make sure you resolve those issues now! He will annoy you even more and it will become unbearable after baby is born!

On another note.... WTF BODY?!?! I just had a 1.5 to 2 day period. Its normally 4 days! My temp dropped so I know there's,no way that was implantation bleeding...it was heavy on day one and I spotted on day two. And absolutely NOTHING today. There was moderate bleedining for a couple of hours but then it turned to a watery pink/red ewcm CM I'm not stressed, or eating weird. This better not mess anything up on my body for baby making this month! Has this ever happened to you guys?

 

[greenarcher]

Ladies make sure you resolve those issues now! He will annoy you even more and it will become unbearable after baby is born!

On another note.... WTF BODY?!?! I just had a 1.5 to 2 day period. Its normally 4 days! My temp dropped so I know there's,no way that was implantation bleeding...it was heavy on day one and I spotted on day two. And absolutely NOTHING today. There was moderate bleedining for a couple of hours but then it turned to a watery pink/red ewcm CM I'm not stressed, or eating weird. This better not mess anything up on my body for baby making this month! Has this ever happened to you guys?

Same happened with me this month. 1 day spotting, one day light/med flow, 1 day spotting. I have no idea if it might affect fertility, but I've been reading up on thin endometrium. If the lining isn't thick enough, the egg can't implant. Possibly due to low estrogen or poor blood circulation. They recommend exercise, so I've been stepping up. I was on birth control forever, so I think I might have low estrogen.

 

[BelleNuit]

I tend to have the opposite problem, Heavy to moderate flow for 3 days and then it stops.

But ya, sounds like something might have been off last cycle with forming your endometrium. Did you O earlier than normal?

 

[puma1986]

I tend to have the opposite problem, Heavy to moderate flow for 3 days and then it stops.

But ya, sounds like something might have been off last cycle with forming your endometrium. Did you O earlier than normal?

Nope! My O day has stayed consistent. It just struck me as odd because in my life of cycles, none of them have ever been this short.

Green: Man, you really are my cycle twin lol Great advice! I'll step it up too!

 

[TJ Islander]

sometimes i think the sperms and all the BD mess with our cycle. when i was single and didnt have sex for months i had perfect ewcm, cycle was dead on, everything was perfect. now all this sex is just doing crazy stuff to my body.

i had some spotting this morning guys. AF due tomorrow. i may be out for this month. zikv is getting more numerous here. im not scared of it bc i use repellants and close up early. i dont have much mosquitos where i live. when the chikv was going around last year i didnt catch it. but last time DH was scared and we took a break. i think he will want a break again.
but im not gonna force it.

this morning on my way to work i saw the little kids going to school looking so cute in their little uniforms . i wanted to cry but the tears couldnt come. my eyes were dry. strange. sighhh...

 

[GoldenRatio]

My 10 month being on here, i seen many that had short af at some point.
I think it can be stress related or if u took pain killer, that can effect af too. It wont effect ur cycles.

For me af was 2-3days of light flow when i first started ttc, up to 6th month it got shorter and shorter. One cycle is was 1 day of light bleeding and half day spotting. Then i started metformin and stopped pain killer so it did go back to normal. So i think ur diet,workout and basically life style that month effects af length.

btw did my bday testing and got BFN on 8dpo, it was so white!

 

[BelleNuit]

8 dpo is still early Golden! You're not out yet!

 

[greenarcher]

Sorry to hear! Would have been a nice birthday present, but it's still early.

Can you explain what pain killers have to do with a short period? I HAVE to have pain killers or else I vomit. Is it specific kinds?

 

[BelleNuit]

Hey green, some meds interact with your endocrine system. It can change your hormonal balance which might create a lighter period. Check to see if the meds your on have any side effects like that!

I'm in the process of cutting back to 1 cup of coffee a day, and I'm experiencing withdrawal, big time! Headaches, unfocused, extreme fatigue.

It's horrible and can last up to 9 days. But probably better to go through it now than when pregnant.

 

[GoldenRatio]

Im not sure why it stops or slows the flow but i know pain killers do slows down the blood flow to ease the pain so that might hav something to do with it.
My mom and sil never take painkiller, apparently it stops af right away.


I took this from google.
Many prescription and nonprescription medicines can affect the menstrual cycle. A few examples are:
Anticoagulant medicines, such as aspirin and warfarin (such as Coumadin).
Nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs), such as ibuprofen (for example, Advil or Motrin) and naproxen (for example, Aleve).
Hormonal forms of birth control, such as birth control pills, Depo-Provera injections, Implanon or Nexplanon implants, and the levonorgestrel IUD (Mirena).
Hormone therapy.
Medicines used to treat cancer (chemotherapy).
Thyroid medicines.

 

[GoldenRatio]

Belle i was a heavy coffee drinker and when i first wanted to cut it down, i got bad headaches and couldnt open my eyes while driving. So i went back to it. But when i started drinking smoothies in the morning, i just didnt like drinking coffee afterwards and never got withdrawal after.

I put kale, spinach, fruits, hemp seed and flax seed in my smoothie. Tastes really gross so maybe add yogurt to make it better.

 

[BelleNuit]

I'll have to give that a try! I'm hoping the withdrawal won't last too long!

 

[OhHappyZ]

Up your water intake too during the mornings to flush your body first thing. That helped me a lot too when I cut back.

 

[BelleNuit]

Thanks HappyZ! I'll give that a try too

You guys are the best!

 

[GoldenRatio]

DH didnt even say happy bday im so disappointed