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[Jules8]

I use both and I don't have that on mine. I'm getting jipped on smileys!!!

 

[MH5280]

omg I'm totes gonna think of you next time I'm playing with his balls! And then I'll laugh and obvi can't explain why I'm laughing! Haha!!!

Jules on the mobile, when your replying there is "post quick reply" or "go advanced" it's under go advanced then it will be on the side and you can click "more" it took me a while to figure it out too! And it gets difficult on your phone! I've tried to just learn them and type them in but there sooo many!

 

[Jules8]

I found them!Yay!

 

[MH5280]

Ok so Saturday night we were sitting there just watching a movie, and I got sooo dizzy. I didn't feel well. Made my husband go get me pedialite and drank a glass and went to bed. Yesterday I was pretty ok. Didn't didnt dizzy. This morning I woke up and was ok, was getting ready for work and went to blow dry my hair and I got dizzy again. I then called into work and went back to bed. I have felt ok all day, drank more pedialite, I'm eating just fine, but I feel hungry a lot. I just got a little bit dizzy and drank more pedialite before bed.
Whyyyy am I getting dizzy???? I had what I'd say was my period, I started Thursday as expected and had cramps and it was kind of clotty... Well then Friday and Saturday I really didn't have anything! And by Sunday nothing at all. My periods usually are 2-3 days. I wouldn't think I'm preg cuz we had sex ONE day, which was CD 14 when I usually O. But... I had cramps and bleeding. So wth is wrong with me???? I hate this feeling! Now I notice it when I make a sudden movement. But still it's not fun. I think I may be a little dehydrated but I've been drinking water and pedialite... Not as much as I normally would but still drinking water. Any ideas? Just a dizzy spell?

 

[Jules8]

I can't tell you for sure what could be going on, but I know that I get dizzy sometimes around my af. It especially happens when I am extra hot, like during a super hot shower, blow drying my hair, when it's hot outside, or the heat in the house. I wish I knew what it was linked to so I could help you out a little more.

It could also be caused some other things as well. If it happens again it wouldn't hurt to call the nurse at your doctor office.

I hope it goes away for you!

 

[MamaBunny2]

Hey now it only takes ONE time! My friend that's 2 weeks ahead of me said she KNOWS when they conceived bc they only ONE TIME during the month of November (on her DH's bday) and that's all it took! And this is the friend that took 5+ years to conceive her first. He's 1 1/2 now

Hope you feel better soon!

 

[MH5280]

the second time it happened I was blow drying my hair. I felt clamy, like my hands, but the rest of me felt cold. today I have been ok. I know it has happened before like right before I O'd, however, it wasn't this bad! like satuday night was TERRIBLE! it was scary! probably just hormones going cray... cuz ya know that's totally normal! lol! its a scary feeling tho!

so now that we know when we are moving, I DO NOT WANT TO WORK!!!!!!!!!! EVER!! AAAHHH!! LOL! I have basically 2 months left and I know at the end they will go fast, but its gonna be a loooong two months!!! last night my husband gave me the responsibility of making lists of what we need to do before we move, like canceling services, starting up services in CO, and most importantly FINDING A PLACE TO LIVE!! psh! why you gotta put all that on me?!?! he is busy making the business plan for the move, so I get all the personal shit! I cant wait!!! HURRY UP TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL

 

[Jules8]

That is super scary!

It happened to me in the shower one time and I felt like I was going to pass out. I got out as fast as I could because I was scared of passing out and getting hurt in there. I ended up sitting in a chair right outside the bathroom all wet until I felt ok. I hate that super dizzy feeling! Unless i'm on a fun ride....then it's ok. lol

I am so excited for you! I bet time will fly by! I am a little jealous as well because...well I have been checking the weather and it's way nicer than here!My friend that lives out there keeps bragging about it. lol
That sucks he is making you do that stuf...though at least you can choose what you want and he can't complain! haha I know my friend had someone help them find a place since she was moving from out of state and couldn't really look around. Craigslist and trulia don't always have all the options available so they had more options to choose from. Just an idea so that is one less thing to worry about when moving.

We decided against Colorado for now, instead we are moving back to Delaware closer to family. It didn't seem right to move so far away with everything going on in my family and my husbands mom going through a hard time due to her brother/his uncle passing away from cancer last week. Plus, I have a teaching license in DE so I have a chance to go back to doing what I really love to do. My job here is alright, but something is missing and I know it's because I want to teach. Knowing we are getting out of here makes it soooooo hard to concentrate on things here! So I feel ya girl! I just want to scream...I QUIT then pack up and leave immediately. Unfortunately we need a place to live and my work requires a month of notice before leaving so I guess I need to be patient. lol

 

[MH5280]

Haha! I'm the same way! I want to scream to everyone "I'm out of here!" And go!! That seems like a smart idea to move closer to family rather than farther! And I'm sure they would all enjoy it once you have a little baby!!! We will stay at a friends house when we first get there but we really don't want to stay there long. We may just get an apartment in Denver until we buy. We'll see! I just wanna buy NOW!!!!! Haha. But hubby needs to get his credit up!

 

[Jules8]

Credit is such a pain in the ass! If it isn't perfect it will ruin everything. lol

I could hear the happiness in my moms voice when I told her. Starting fresh in a new place sounds so exciting at first, then you think about how much you would miss everyone. Heck..I am only an hour from them right now and I feel so far away.lol

 

[MH5280]

I just caught myself counting out and planning what does we need to have sex! Ugh!! I'm ready to get back on this wagon.... I just wish I KNEW we were ok to reproduce! all my emotions

 

[TTTTina]

AF ended yesterday so I'm ready to start trying again. My doctor gave me names of other places to look at finally for getting an SA. In case their is something up with his sperm count, how often would you guys think we should have sex?

 

[Jules8]

Have you thought about tracking with OPKs or temping? Those are two good ways to at least pinpoint ovulation, then you know when your fertile to bd. If not just every other day after AF ends. That should cover your bases. Lol

I think my AF started yesterday..I say I think because its so light I can't tell if its spotting or full blown AF. I'm not sure if its normal now that I'm taking these new meds. I just want to start my new cycle gosh darn it! Lol

 

[MH5280]

Maybe do every other day starting like CD 12... It's sooo hard to do that tho! Maybe skip 2 days instead of every other...

My husband drives me NUTS, it never fails the week of AF he's so horny and just wants it all the time. But as soon as AF is gone he doesn't want it as much! Like wth!? He needs to change that! I think now he's liek afraid to touch me cuz he wants to wait until we are moved. Still so annoying!

 

[TTTTina]

I do use opks. I don't temp tho. I know if his sperm is low then you're not supposed to do it as often. My apps say my fertile week tomorrow. Maybe we'll do it every 2 days till after o, I'll figure it out. Lol

 

[Jules8]

Michele- That's men for you! lol Always following directions at the wrong moment in time, then it's like pulling teeth when you actually need them to do it. I always thought it was silly when women would talk about how all men have similar attributes, but after dating a few guys and getting married..some of those stubborn attributes really are universal. lol

Tina- You got this! Sperm can live a few days so as long as you guys are bding 3-4 times during your fertile window I think your on the right track.

 

[Jules8]

Tina, I am so feeling your frustration with finding someone to do an SA! Basically, they won't give me clomid unless hubby gets an SA done. Makes sense...I don't want to take all this medicine if there is an issue with him as well. So I called my OBGYN and they don't do it. His doctor doesn't do it either. After what feels like a million phone calls, I finally found a fertility specialist that is covered by our insurance. We just have to pay the $40 co-pay for the meeting and the SA is covered.

I am happy to have the meeting and so thankful that they except our insurance, because I feel like we are moving in the right direction. But it's also that bitter feeling that everything just has to be so damn difficult! I just keep telling myself that the many doctors, appts, phone calls, tests, and time will all be worth it.

 

[MH5280]

Yay! That's exciting you found a dr! I hope it goes well! Do you am have an appt scheduled? I sooo wanna just have a meeting with a specialist but I think that's getting pushed farther back until we have moved. I'm happy for you guys owing proactive! I wish my husband was that way right now! I know we have a lot going on and he doesn't want to add the stress but it's so hard to sit back and wait for someone else to do something about it! So I'm happy for you girls! Even tho none of us have 100% answers but your getting there!!!

 

[Jules8]

The meeting is two weeks from today. There was an opening for next week, but there still is a co-pay and we don't have the extra money until next payday. Our cat had to go to the vet which was insanely expensive and we will be traveling this weekend.

More like me being proactiv. Honestly, if I hadn't called to make the appt. it wouldn't of happened. I didn't even tell him I was doing it. Just called and told him when were going. lol I told him he should just do the SA while were there and he got all weirded out about it. So we shall see how things go

 

[MH5280]

I totally do that! But ugh! I know how much stress he has. I just want an opinion! Maybe I'll ask him again. Although I brought it up and told him in ready to try again and he said "I just don't want any more stress right now. And that's one thing we need to be relaxed with"

I should give up! And let him finish this shit here until we move. I JUST WANT A BABY!! Lol!

So the other day I went to the bathroom and when I went to flush I looked in the toilet (does anyone else do this?? Lol) and there was this thing, it looked like a loogy maybe, a chunk of slime looking. Well I was like "hmm weird" but whatever. Then today I had it again but it was when I wiped so I touched it and it was totally like slime and kinda clear when it pulled apart. Now I know when you O you have "egg" like mucus, and I'd say that's totally what this was... But I've never had it clump out like that... And I thought it was weird to be like one day and then again 2 days laters. But now I'm sitting at my desk totally have pain in my side so I'm like "maybe I am ovulating??" I guess. I've just never had that come out looking like that, and not a few days apart....