I completely agree! However my husband had let them default once or twice. So that's why the mortgage guy said to wait a year and stay on top of his student loans. Then we should be ok!
Ugh! I had a break down tonight. My sister was texting me, they just bought a new house, she works part time, and her husband owns a lock smith company but BARELY makes anything! Like he may as well not even have a job cuz he doesn't ever make money cuz he's not busy but REFUSES to get a job to provide for his family!!! They just barely got approved for their loan... They have 2 kids already and my sister, knowing what's going on with me ttc, she tells me they want to try for their 3rd, and said "sorry I feel bad telling you"..... We are 5 years apart and she is older however she has always wanted to do the things I did and be more like me, so I've always felt it's some sort of competition between us, but like from her point of view. Well idk but it just PISSES me off! Like she brags how they have sex once and get pregnant. They last thing they need is another baby! When your husband doesn't care enough to help you financially and you can't pay your bills, they think it's totally smart to have how ever many kids they want, like what like 5! Well anyways it just gets to me!!! Like rubbing it in my face and I know it will happen asap and I'm not gonna be happy for her! This sounds so terrible cuz she's my sister but we've never really gotten along great, and I think it's a terrible idea. And yes I'm jealous! Very jealous!!! So I cried on my way home when she told me that. I told her "it hurts to hear that, but it's your life" idk I feel like is worse that it's MY sister having a million babies and I can't even have one. I'm more resentful to her than joe shmo! I told my husband and at least he was a bit positive and said "yea well when we do have a baby at least WE will be financially stable and you CAN be a stay home mom and then SHE will be jealous/mad".... My response was "GOOD!" Ugh I'm a terrible person.