TTC #3! Anyone welcome!!

[Katy78]

I'm so sorry BabyBrain!

 

[waiting2c]

Hey ladies - does anyone ever still come in here?

How is everyone doing?

 

[faith2015]

Hey ladies - does anyone ever still come in here?

How is everyone doing?

Sometimes I pop in! Very slow train here. Two chemicals in a row. Decided to take a month off of fertility meds and we are seeing a specialist on the first. I am on CD6 ! What about you? How are you doing?

 

[Katy78]

I'm still here. nothing exciting going on. On 9 dpo, waiting for AF or BFP ( preferably a BFP of course).

 

[waiting2c]

Sorry to hear about your chemicals faith, hope you get a sticky bfp very soon!!

Good luck Katy!! Hope you get the bfp!!

 

[Katy78]

Thanks!

How are you doing?

 

[MissGii]

Hi ladies Thought id pop back in, so I got a positive opk this morning. ( I think ) iv been out all day and just got home decided to do another OPK ( different brand ) and no line what so ever? I’m just going to focus on the positive one 😊 I also had a ewcm so bd tonight yay

 

[BabyBrain80]

Good luck MissGii x

So sorry to hear about your chemicals Faith

Hope you get that bfp Katy x

How are you keeping waiting? Hope all well xx

Afm, well Im all over the place. Really been struggling to get over my mc. I was quite sure I didn't want to try again as having 2 mc in a row has been very hard and the fear it will happen again is huge! But the longing, broodiness is unbearable.
In the past we've wanted to carry on ttc and have become pregnant which does help a bit. This time Im being reminded constantly that there will be no #3. It hurts. I had planned and can picture them being there in so many situations. I know I may regret not trying but I have given it a good go. Maybe there is something wrong?

I really want another child. Im just so scared. Im kinda hoping this feeling of longing passes. I spoke to oh on saturday and he was amazing. I really thought ttc was off the table but he very supportive even though hes scared for me too. It felt good to talk about how I am feeling.

So basically I dont know what will happen. For now I am waiting on my first af, my mc was just over a month ago. We have a little holiday booked for July, a cabin in Yorkshire near the coast, something to look forward to. So Im thinking of waiting till nearer then before deciding, see what these hormones do. Part of me wants to get ttc NOW!!! Part of me thinks best to wait a bit. Part of me says never again!

Anyway, nice to see you guys xx

 

[MissGii]

Good luck MissGii x

So sorry to hear about your chemicals Faith

Hope you get that bfp Katy x

How are you keeping waiting? Hope all well xx

Afm, well Im all over the place. Really been struggling to get over my mc. I was quite sure I didn't want to try again as having 2 mc in a row has been very hard and the fear it will happen again is huge! But the longing, broodiness is unbearable.
In the past we've wanted to carry on ttc and have become pregnant which does help a bit. This time Im being reminded constantly that there will be no #3. It hurts. I had planned and can picture them being there in so many situations. I know I may regret not trying but I have given it a good go. Maybe there is something wrong?

I really want another child. Im just so scared. Im kinda hoping this feeling of longing passes. I spoke to oh on saturday and he was amazing. I really thought ttc was off the table but he very supportive even though hes scared for me too. It felt good to talk about how I am feeling.

So basically I dont know what will happen. For now I am waiting on my first af, my mc was just over a month ago. We have a little holiday booked for July, a cabin in Yorkshire near the coast, something to look forward to. So Im thinking of waiting till nearer then before deciding, see what these hormones do. Part of me wants to get ttc NOW!!! Part of me thinks best to wait a bit. Part of me says never again!

Anyway, nice to see you guys xx

Sorry to hear about your mcs, wishing you all the best for a healthy pregnancy in the future should you try again. Good luck 😊

 

[Alligator]

Hugs, babybrain it's tough to know what the right call is...but if you find yourself wavering and wondering...give yourself space to do just that. Time has a way of making things a little clearer, sometimes.

 

[waiting2c]

Lovely to hear from you babybrain, I am glad ttc isnt off the table as I think a hard and fast no right now would make the feelings you are having too hard to bear.

I think your plan of giving yourself some time is a good one, take a couple of months for hormones to sort themselves out, try to enjoy not worrying about where in the month you are at, and then see how you feel about it. Time definitely helps to heal and give perspective on things.

Understand if you don't want to but if you do, would be lovely to hear from you every now and then still too!!

 

[NinjaKitty5]

Hello ladies
I'm new to this part of the forum but not to the website! this site has helped me through two successful pregnancies Any whoooo my fiancé and I have decided to try for baby #3 This pregnancy is likely to be different due to the fact with my last daughter I had developed gestational diabetes and unfortunately after giving birth it turned in to type 2. We have been not trying not preventing for the last 10 months and nothing has happened thus far , so this is our first month using ovulation tests I usually have a 31 day cycle so I will be curious to see when I ovulate this month. I am on Cycle day 16 and for two days in a row now I have gotten a "high" smiley face on the ClearBlue advance ovulation test. Anyone else on cycle day 16 ? I would love to have a TTC buddy ! Sorry for being long winded I kinda suck at these introduction things :3 I am looking forward to getting to know you guys! Lots of baby dust

 

[BabyBrain80]

Welcome and good luck NinjaKitty! Hope your stay in ttc is a short one and you get your BFP soon x

Thanks ladies and thanks Waiting, I will stick around x

Wish this knot in my stomach would ease but think it's the sensible thing to wait a few months. At the moment I just want to get straight onto ttc but I know that my mind is all hormone crazy and I might feel differently in the morning!! Grief and hormones are a tough combo! X

 

[NDH]

Hi I'd love to join. I'm "trying but not trying" (somewhere between actually trying and NTNP in my books lol) for our 4th. I'm on CD10 today and likely will be ovulating in the next day or two.

 

[BabyBrain80]

Good luck NDH, hope you catch that egg!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Hey so af arrived this morning, feel good and bad. I actually took an ic on wednesday to see if everything was back to normal but a line came up quickly, not as dark as control but not faint either. I was quite bummed that it wasnt all quite over yet but part of me hoped it was a new pregnancy even though I didnt believe that!

Anyway af is here so things are looking better and here we are again at CD1. No idea what Im doing yet so will wait and see.

 

[waiting2c]

Glad af has returned babybrain, at least that means things are returning to normal and you can choose whatever you want to do from there!!

 

[Gypsy99]

Hey ladies! i haven't been on here for a long long time as i needed to really take a step back and hope that DH would sort himself out. Although he's still not 100% we are back on the saddle again so to speak. We never fully stopped trying, but just weren't going as crazy as usual.

Anyway i'm back to temping - which isn't working well as it's been so hot here. I'll probably test in about a week.

I had another laparoscopy in November, and my last AF was horrible, so hoping that she settles again.

How is everyone doing? Will be great to start following everyone again

 

[waiting2c]

Hey Gypsy!! So lovely to hear from you!!

Man it is so hot here isnt it! Baking today!

Hope that your AF settles down now and that you have some TTC luck!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Gypsy!!!! Im so happy to hear from you! Ive missed you and wondered how you were doing.

Ive been through a bit of shit but coming out of it now I hope. Thinking of ttc again but scared after 2 losses in a row. CD3 so still time to decide.

Glad to see you xx