TTC #3! Anyone welcome!!

[Babybump87]

So I caved and did another IC this afternoon came back BFN! I’m 10 dpo according to FF going by a positive OPK.

I’ve got AF type cramps tonight probably wake up to spotting tommorrow .

 

[faithforbaby]

So I caved and did another IC this afternoon came back BFN! I’m 10 dpo according to FF going by a positive OPK.

I’ve got AF type cramps tonight probably wake up to spotting tommorrow .

Fingers crossed for both of us! The only thing odd for me is my boobs hurt. They NEVER do, so that's odd 😏

 

[Babybump87]

I’ve had some odd symptoms this month too . We are around the same day DPO.

If I am not pregnant this month I may speak to my GP. I know many women try for months / years and we are coming to the end of just our fifth cycle . Anyone else been to their GP after 5/6 months of trying . I don’t want to go and look a fool because I know it’s still early days.

 

[gigglebox]

I would say it's still early, however if you go now to start preliminary stuff just in case it takes awhile, you won't have to do it later IF you actually do end up taking some time to conceive.

That said...it took me one gto get ds1. Then 5 cycles of trying to get mc, then another 5 for ds2...so it can take time, especially as we age. There's another woman on here i talk to that had a few oopsies without trying, then took 7 months to conceive when she tried. You just never know!

 

[Mom15]

Baby - I think it’s a personal choice in a way and circumstances sort of make a difference. For example if you have always conceived right away the 5 cycles probably seems a long time to you. I don’t think it hurts to start the conversation. At the very least you and your GP could come up with a game plan so you know if it doesn’t happen by a certain date, you have a plan in place.

 

[faithforbaby]

I’ve had some odd symptoms this month too . We are around the same day DPO.

If I am not pregnant this month I may speak to my GP. I know many women try for months / years and we are coming to the end of just our fifth cycle . Anyone else been to their GP after 5/6 months of trying . I don’t want to go and look a fool because I know it’s still early days.

5/6 months is totally fine!!

 

[Babybump87]

Thanks everyone , think I was just disappointed at seeing another BFN . We NTNP with DD1 and it took 5 months initially thought it was 6 months. DD2 was the first month. I think it’s just because we have been using OPKs and trying this time wereas before it never felt like we were trying. (Hope that makes sense)
I’m over it now anyway. Like Giggle said we just never know !

Thanks ladies

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

AF got me all 2 days before expected but CD 28!

 

[faithforbaby]

Ok- TMI, but my boobs hurting is one thing, but I just took a bath and was able to squeez a colostrum looking substance from my right side ... I haven't nursed since July last year 🤷🏼*♀️😳

 

[donnarobinson]

Hope ur ok girls .. my anxiety has been bad the last few days .. I’ve got bad health anxiety and noticed a few moles they have been there awhile but I went to the drs to get checked and he said the one is fine the other two are aytypical so best just remove them while there tiny he’s not worried said it’s more precaution but I’m still worried and I’ve noticed a new mole come over the last few days and now that’s playing on my mind .. I hate feeling like this I’m such a nervous wreck about health I’ve got to have them removed in two and bit weeks
I really need to learn to control my worrying after all we all need to die I just can’t seem to get past that lol x
Cd14 here nothing to report still doing my opks x

 

[Babybump87]

AF got me all 2 days before expected but CD 28!

Oh no Sorry Hoping !

 

[Babybump87]

Ok- TMI, but my boobs hurting is one thing, but I just took a bath and was able to squeez a colostrum looking substance from my right side ... I haven't nursed since July last year 🤷🏼*♀️😳

Ooo this Is a good sign surely ! When are you next testing !

 

[Babybump87]

Hope ur ok girls .. my anxiety has been bad the last few days .. I’ve got bad health anxiety and noticed a few moles they have been there awhile but I went to the drs to get checked and he said the one is fine the other two are aytypical so best just remove them while there tiny he’s not worried said it’s more precaution but I’m still worried and I’ve noticed a new mole come over the last few days and now that’s playing on my mind .. I hate feeling like this I’m such a nervous wreck about health I’ve got to have them removed in two and bit weeks
I really need to learn to control my worrying after all we all need to die I just can’t seem to get past that lol x
Cd14 here nothing to report still doing my opks x

Sorry your feeling bad Donna. I also suffer anxiety similar to yours . It’s absolutely awful! I think the fear steaks from our children on being so young , well I know it does for me. I’ve had a few moles removed for the same reason I was worried sick too you will be fine try not to worry too much xx

 

[Babybump87]

AF due tomorrow, this mornings IC is a BFN, still no spotting but I’ve got cramps . Dont really want to pay for FRER until my AF is late . If no sign by Monday I will get one .

 

[donnarobinson]

Hope ur ok girls .. my anxiety has been bad the last few days .. I’ve got bad health anxiety and noticed a few moles they have been there awhile but I went to the drs to get checked and he said the one is fine the other two are aytypical so best just remove them while there tiny he’s not worried said it’s more precaution but I’m still worried and I’ve noticed a new mole come over the last few days and now that’s playing on my mind .. I hate feeling like this I’m such a nervous wreck about health I’ve got to have them removed in two and bit weeks
I really need to learn to control my worrying after all we all need to die I just can’t seem to get past that lol x
Cd14 here nothing to report still doing my opks x

Sorry your feeling bad Donna. I also suffer anxiety similar to yours . It’s absolutely awful! I think the fear steaks from our children on being so young , well I know it does for me. I’ve had a few moles removed for the same reason I was worried sick too you will be fine try not to worry too much xx

It defo is from the kids being so young I think. It’s horrible and no one truely understands unless they have it .. thanks hun that makes me feel slightly better .. Ino the dr would of said if he was worried and he wasn’t it’s just anything that I can worry about I do lol. Hope af stays away and u get ur bfp hun! X

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

Hey DONNA! Hugs I had a bump appear on my forehead once and thought it was a normal pimple. I am a face picker unfortunately. Have been since I was in middle/high school. I do not even notice I am doing it. CAN NOT leave my face be when there is a break out on it which there normally is soooo as you can imagine I picked the crap out of this weird scab that was annoying me. Well the scab never went away it just grew a bit. IT was never more than a dime size but looked huge to me and embarassed me in photos but I didn't have insurance so I couldn't do much about it. I worried about it not going away so finally I found a place that did free skin cancer screenings and this was after having it for like 3 years probably. I go in and the nurse practitioner I see says "I am 90% sure that is a basal cell carcinoma" so I leave pretty freaked out but still have no insurance and no money (practically a single mom making crap money) and they were telling me they were going to have to have the doctor look at it and do surgery yada yada yada. So after reading on google how Basal cell that is close to the brain can get deep into the layers and still kill you I freaked out finally paid like 300 bucks to have it removed and checked and IT WAS NOTHING!!! Nothing but a picked pimple that developed into a weird skin thing. Sorry for the long story. Just thought you should know you definitely are not alone and I freak out too. I still think I am dying at times and I notice every little thing! UGH! I am sure yours is nothing too. HUGS!

 

[gigglebox]

Donna i can relate so much. I don't have a fear of death itself but more of how my family will do without me. I also have moles that've popped up! Aome that have been there years and other new. Asked the dr and she is also unconcerned, said i can remove them if i want but she isn't worried. Also now having visual issues and I'm certain it's pregnancy related but doesn't stop me from freaking put i have a degenerative disease and having near panic attacks over it anxiety sucks! Trying to keep my cool because i know it's not good foe baby but it is a real struggle some days.

Massive hugs!

 

[donnarobinson]

Thanks girls for all your stories it does help knowing I’m not alone .. x

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

I also have trouble with my eyes but that started happening last year once I hit 30. I see a retina specialist for it and he is pretty sure I will have a retina detachment at some point but that can be repaired if I am quick enough.. still scary to sit around and wait though for something that might not happen!

 

[donnarobinson]

Bottom is today’s opks it’s darker and looks on the way to postitive I hope so .. it looks fainter on this pic can never get them to photo well x