TTC #3! Anyone welcome!!

[nordicpixie83]

Hey girls :wave:

Gypsy sending you big hugs

Well I'm pretty sure I ovulated on thurs/fri/ I had very dark lines on OPK. Saturday absolutely nothing. On OPK . Friday/Saturday right side cramping and desperate to !!! Yesterday and today feeling nauseous, right side cramping , can't reach my cervix , lots of lotion cm , tearful today .....

I fully expect it's just hormones and nothing exciting so I'm not going to get my hopes up. With both daughters and especially the last one I knew very early and tested positive 9dpo on a 28day cycle . First daughter I just knew and tested positive 4 days before af was due !!

I actually have no idea when AF is due or how long my cycle is as I stopped cerazette (minipill) almost 5 weeks ago after four years on it !!!

 

[Gypsy99]

Have to ask what does OH mean? All I can think of is Occupational Hazard.

 

[Bloblo]

Have to ask what does OH mean? All I can think of is Occupational Hazard.

Hahaaaaa that is a good way to describe them.... it means other half

 

[waiting2c]

Lol, whilst that could be true Gypsy it means other half That has given me a chuckle this morning though!

Welcome bkp16, hope your stay in here is short!

Good luck Nordic! Sounds like you got your timing right.

I am waiting waiting, feels like all I have done for so long is wait! AF due any time from Sunday to Wednesday (depends how long my cycle feels like being this time)then I can wait some more to get back to Ov time. I need this next month to work out, since officially TTC status there has been no month where I have had any chance of the timing being right. I need this month to have us at home where I can BD away with no visitors staying and no hospital stays! I have between now and then to try and get our sex life back on track, TMI but we havent DTD since the tail end of Ov time last cycle, so like mid April. Hospital stays and Life just arent being nice to me right now!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Have to ask what does OH mean? All I can think of is Occupational Hazard.

that is so much more accurate than other half! Love it!

I say other half as we're not married......will get around to it one day when we decided where and how. Don't want the traditional wedding but can't decide so keep putting it on the back burner. Concentrating on renovating our house and the boys instead.

Had a chat with my mum this aft. She brought up the subject of babies. I've not really spoken to her about having another as I was afraid she'd think I was crazy! It's upset me and been the main cause of my doubts about ttc #3, I've kinda mentioned it in subtle jokey ways to gauge my parents reaction and just felt they wouldn't be very supportive of the idea. Felt I'd be on my own a bit. So anyway, long story short she was quite the opposite. She seems to understand my reasons for wanting a bigger family and chatted about how I'd feel if I had a another boy or girl. (I wouldn't know what to do with a girl but don't mind either way). So I feel sooooooooo much better. Much more positive. Much happier. Like a weight of indecisiveness has been lifted. And it's bloody typical OH is currently in another country!!

Anyway, sorry I've bleathered on again!

Waiting2c, Hope your cycles become clearer and regular. Mine have been rubbish, don't really know what to expect but they've always been that way. Xx

 

[fuschia]

Baby brain- really good your mum is on board . I totally get it as I feel the same and did the same with my mum. While ago and luckily, like yours she's up for it and isn't making me feel bad about it !

Cd33 for me today ! It's weird as I haven't had a long cycle like this in a long long time ! Just goes to show how a life change really can alter your cycle answer I ovulated 4 days later than usual.

Just waiting and waiting ! Need my period so I can get back in the game !!

 

[Gypsy99]

bkp16 welcome and good luck.

Babybrain so cool that your mum understands. i haven't spoken to my mum about it as i'm pretty sure she wouldn't be keen. My sister is great to talk to about it though.

Fushia i hope she arrives for you soon so you have a fresh cycle.

Waiting2C that's really frustrating too. I'm finding BD creates wanting more BD sometimes. but everyday can get boring LOL although I still enjoy it any time.

LOL that occupational hazard I seriously thought it was something like that not something logical like other half

AFM - Doctor today and she did more smears and pap test just to make sure everything is OK. Felt around in there and it effing hurt. She has to refer me to a specialist to check out about any other underlying endo since my op so I'll be guaranteed to wait a while for that unfortunately. Public system takes a while here. I should have jumped onto getting health insurance.

 

[waiting2c]

Yes I hear you Gypsy, our public system takes forever! I hope you can get some answers quickly or not need them because you got a bfp in the meantime!

 

[Gypsy99]

Thanks waiting. I'm not sure how much longer I can keep going through this disappointment. I was on the verge of panic attack the other day because of other things going on as well. Sorry I've made this thread all about me lately!!

There are a few more people testing soon right? How are we going?

 

[heaveneats]

Have to ask what does OH mean? All I can think of is Occupational Hazard.

thats awesome! they should be occupational hazards!


hope everyone is doing well!

i'm exhausted, i had the kids on my own last night without DH as he was away for a practice he needed to do (he races cars for a hobby) and tonight i'm on my own again as he is at work on a 24 hour shift works has been really busy lately though so its been keeping my mind off things, i'm booked in to meet with my gyno again at the end of July where he will look at my chart that i will start next cycle, and prescribe clomid. So if by some magic it works first cycle i will hopefully have a baby by April 2018 i took my first opk yesterday, negative obviously but i think i'll take one from CD 10 onwards just incase. DH doesnt want me taking them but i'd like to just to see if i can get a positive again, he says he rather just have fun for now until i start meds and then he has to try lol

 

[nordicpixie83]

Hope everyone is ok ? I've had awful cramping all day on one side and this evening really watery cm . I'm so confused

 

[Bloblo]

Af started yesterday evening. Was super light yesterday and through the night, but crazy heavy today (not to mention most painful period ive ever had). I guess this is normal after mc, but i am really not happy

 

[Gypsy99]

sorry bloblo. Painful periods are so debilitating. Hope times goes quickly.

Heaven so much baby dust your way

Nordic. How's that pain and CM going now?

Shit it's cold. I don't want to get out of bed. Apparently we are getting a big amount of cold air from the Arctic the next couple days. It's not winter quite yet! !

 

[fuschia]

Sorry bloblo that it's so painful

Spotting tonight for me ! So looks like she's here- not enough to call it yet but morning I should think.

13day love for second time so that's good ! Just a weird cycle with ovulating late but I'm going to take Angus cactus this cycle and have more acupuncture plus the placement finishes next week so won't be so stressed .

Onwards and upwards eh ladies

 

[BabyBrain80]

Sorry Bloblo and Fuschia

I feel really yucky tonight. CD12 today and Ovulation time nausea is here! My OPK today is still light but getting darker. See how it goes tomorrow.

 

[waiting2c]

Fuschia and Bloblo Af sucks!

Good luck baby brain! Hope you get that eggie!

I should be expecting AF in about 3-5 days. I am looking forward to her getting here as then I feel like I am out of this waiting pattern and can count down towards something again!

 

[bkp16]

Sorry bloblo! ☹

At this point I'm not sure where I'm at in regards to O. I need to use the OPKs better. I had my first period May 1st after going off depo, so DH and I DBD around the 13-16. Now I'm just waiting around for AF so I can figure out my cycle length.

Sore boobs and fatigue happening currently.

BabyBrain, do you always have a light lh line in your OPKs?

 

[nordicpixie83]

Hey ladies ! Sorry for those of you that have the

Oh no a cold snap is all you need right now ! Get wrapped up warm xx

Still have right side cramping , very sore and feel wet ( sorry tmi ) so keep going to bathroom expecting af to have appeared ! But it's just watery or lotion cm. Today I had a complete emotional meltdown , sobbing , tears , snot , coughing , seriously unattractive , daytime tv style dramatic woe is me my life is over type crying !!!

Then salty junk food craving!

My hormones are way out of control !!

 

[babymumma6]

AF arrived for me yesterday too. Wish it was better news for us all. I'm very sorry girls!.. good luck this cycle

 

[Gypsy99]

Hey ladies.

Sorry Fushia. Af is such a bitch.

Nordic I love junk food. we have movie night tonight! The kids watch a movie in the lounge and we chill out watching something in the bedroom. Looking forward to it.

bkp - good luck this cycle. Hopefully a BFP or AF doesn't keep you waiting too long.

AFM - I'm still a bit down I think and I'm starting to not care how this cycle goes. I'll still try to get Dh onto it with it's fertile days, but I'm just not caring to much. i can't afford to have a breakdown at the end of this cycle with exams coming up. I'll still be here though. i enjoy talking to you ladies.