TTC #3! Anyone welcome!!

[Gypsy99]

Waiting. That's how i'm feeling now. I definitely didn't think it would take as long as it has. I'm very very over it. I will be sooo happy if we actually do end up getting those two lines on a pregnancy test, but I feel like it's just not meant to be at the moment. I think I was holding onto it with DH too, and he has just been fucking me off so much lately - I'm thinking why are we doing this again.

Good luck to everyone.

 

[babymumma6]

I'm with you gypsy.. I'm very over it. I honestly didn't think it would take this long and really it hasn't been that long really.
I'm waiting for af Monday...

 

[Kiwiberry]

Hey everyone! I think you are still in with a chance kiwi as the other posters have said, it can stick around for up to 24 hours.

Hope everyone else is doing okay :-

yay for only 1 more week to wait Brandonsgirl! That is very exciting!

I am feeling frustrated this month, I went into it so hopeful as was first month would have a solid chance, yet here I am feeling like I didnt yet again. Am CD24 today, AF due next Thurs according to app, and feel no different to any normal month. No symptoms other than cramps but I have those every month. I have zero idea if I ovulated or when that was, never got a positive OPK, ran out at CD18 taking one a day and never had a dark positive. Found a random one in drawer yesterday and took it and there was a line, half as dark as control, so not positive but still there. Figure I cant have not ovulated by now as never had a cycle longer than 35 days and that would make it in the 50s.

Gah, I know there are those of you that have been trying longer than me and havent had success yet so forgive me for my next comment. I just so thought it would have happened by now when I was WTT last year.

Maybe its just not meant to be?

I know it feels that way hun but it will happen. I know how you feel though sweetie and I'm so sorry you have to go through this.

I've been telling myself that some people are meant to have babies at just the right time. It's cruel it really is but maybe there's a reason for all of this. Your baby is going to be so special it takes a little extra time. The world needs to prepare.

The same goes for all of you lovely ladies who are struggling.

 

[brandonsgirl]

It will happen waiting2c Sorry your feeling a bit in limbo at the moment.
Maybe get some more opks and keep testing?

 

[Heather.1987]

I haven't tested since thursday. Im expecting period early next week so well see.

 

[babymumma6]

Lots of brown spotting for me. So looks like I'm out now!!

 

[brandonsgirl]

Only a few days until the implant is out for me

I've started brown spotting with the odd red blood too, so hopefully thats my period starting. I really want to have my period from the implant before its removed so i know i've finished one whole cycle on the implant and then once its out, it will be a brand new cycle. Things seem to be looking good so far.

So sorry about the lovely ladies that aren't feeling hopeful this time around. I absolutely believe that everything happens for a reason. And although it never feels like it at the time, there's a reason that this past month hasn't been your month. Perhaps next month is supposed to be the month for you! Please don't loose hope. I know its so hard not too and once AF rears her ugly head, its very difficult to not feel hopeless.
I'm glad i've found this group, We are all here to help each other in the difficult times

 

[babymumma6]

Has anyone done acupuncture before and had success? I've booked into a Chinese medicine guy who does acupuncture. I'm alittle nervous...

 

[fuschia]

I have done acupuncture !

Ttc second time round we tried for 14 months then I braved acupuncture - I saw a lady who had trained as a fertility specialist (amongst other things ). I became pregnant second cycle having acupuncture - amazing !

This time around I have had accupunture for the last 3 cycles and I not pregnant yet but one of those cycles I totally messed up the timing of bd so doesn't really count . I'm going to continue having acupuncture and hopefully will fall pregnant soon !

Don't think this month is my lucky one though as bfn at 13dpo - af due tomorrow x

 

[babymumma6]

I have done acupuncture !

Ttc second time round we tried for 14 months then I braved acupuncture - I saw a lady who had trained as a fertility specialist (amongst other things ). I became pregnant second cycle having acupuncture - amazing !

This time around I have had accupunture for the last 3 cycles and I not pregnant yet but one of those cycles I totally messed up the timing of bd so doesn't really count . I'm going to continue having acupuncture and hopefully will fall pregnant soon !

Don't think this month is my lucky one though as bfn at 13dpo - af due tomorrow x

Oh wow! That certainly give me alot of hope. I've heard it's amazing with stress relief and blood flow. How many times did you have to have it? I really hope it works for the both of us!!

 

[heaveneats]

well my temps are really screwed up because i've had a fever so i'm discarding this mornings as FF thinks i already OV'ed which i havent. was in the hospital last night, foudn out i have Pneumonia, so i'm out for this month i think i'm too weak to do anything except sit on the couch and try to breath without coughing up a lung, its so humid outside too that its not helping. It would be my luck to get pneumonia in June

 

[fuschia]

Babymumma - I think I might have had a total of 3 or 4 sessions . I generally made sure that I had it pre ov but I know I had a session after ov. One cycle I had it twice ( before and after ) .

It is very good and not scary like I though lol . Sometimes the needles are uncomfortable going in but most aren't and then it's absolutely painless anyway ! I fell asleep last time !

Heaven eats - I'm sorry your having a rubbish time at the mo sounds horrid !

Afm- waiting for af now - bfn today on internet cheapie . Slight raise in temp but nothing mad - come on af let's get on with the next cycle and maybe get pregnant this time !!!! Af due tomorrow x

 

[Kiwiberry]

heaveneats: so sorry you're​ not feeling well, I hope it passes soon and you can start next cycle feeling refreshed.

fuschia, sorry you're out this month hun, lots of for next cycle.

AFM: 5 DPO, waiting till at least 9 or 10 DPO to test.

 

[waiting2c]

Hey Ladies!

Sorry you are sick Heaven, it always sucks having to miss a cycle!

Fuschia - sorry about the bfn, I am in a similar boat

Kiwi - Best of luck - will be looking forward to your testing days!

Babymumma - sorry this wasnt your cycle either.

Gypsy - how are you doing?

Brandonsgirl - cant be long now till that implant comes out?

Sorry if I have missed anyone! Hope you are all okay regardless!

Afm - Bfn today at maybe 12dpo, maybe less. Have had a lot of cramping and feeling off but its not anything, I need to stop thinking it might be. I need to figure out how to chill out on it all, I am getting so worked up and obsessing but I just dont know how to let go and not try and control it all. Any Suggestions?

 

[babymumma6]

Heaven - I'm so sorry you aren't well. I know a few people with it and in hospital at the moment but it's very cold here at the moment. Hope you get better real fast!

Fuschia - I was thinking the same. Pre ovulation for both of us. I was thinking of getting the hubby to do it as well. A few people have mentioned they have fallen asleep during the sessions lol I just want to be able to relax so I hope I can. Thanks for your information.

Kiwi - Yes I look forward to your testing days also!

Waitingtc - I'm exactly the same. My last 2 pregnancies I've gotten pregnant cause I was either going away that cycle or had too much on to notice I was pregnant. It's been I don't think about it that I've actually gotten pregnant. Hence the acupuncture. I want my body to relax for this cycle. So much stress in my family at the moment I swear that's why I can't get pregnant. I've also booked a weekend away for me and the hubby. Something for us to look forward to and try to forget and just enjoy. It's incredibly hard to think about it 24/7..

 

[Gypsy99]

Really quick message sorry. I'm doing OK. CD10 and awaiting Ovulation. Taking it in strides this cycle again. My temps are all over the place, as I keep waking up cold all the time!!

Hope that everyone is doing OK.

 

[brandonsgirl]

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[brandonsgirl]

Hey Ladies!

Sorry you are sick Heaven, it always sucks having to miss a cycle!

Fuschia - sorry about the bfn, I am in a similar boat

Kiwi - Best of luck - will be looking forward to your testing days!

Babymumma - sorry this wasnt your cycle either.

Gypsy - how are you doing?

Brandonsgirl - cant be long now till that implant comes out?

Sorry if I have missed anyone! Hope you are all okay regardless!

Afm - Bfn today at maybe 12dpo, maybe less. Have had a lot of cramping and feeling off but its not anything, I need to stop thinking it might be. I need to figure out how to chill out on it all, I am getting so worked up and obsessing but I just dont know how to let go and not try and control it all. Any Suggestions?

Tomorrow morning

 

[fuschia]

Cd 1 for me !!

Mixed emotions as always ... doesn't take me long to get re motivated though. Can't waste time feeling down about something I can't change ... bring on the next cycle .

Silver lining is that af has been bang on time for a 13 day lp the last few months so that's nice . Also , a feb due date ( wouldn't have cared but...) would have joined me and my daughter so a busy birthday month already !

Gonna keep getting healthier and try harder with timing this month.

Isn't all this bding difficult when you have busy lives ?!

 

[Heather.1987]

Cramping and bfn. Af due today.