Miss_C
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Oh Sammy and Glowie I can feel your pain so much in your posts and wish I could properly hug you both. In fact go up and hug a stranger and say it's from Miss_C!! You will both feel good! Hugs release pheremones and we all need them!!
As for bding between loss and AF i agree it will happen if it happens and whatever will be will be etc. I didn't temp until after first AF we did say we wouldnlt try until after the first one so took that time to completely focus on grieving and recovery etc etc. When the witch hit I was a mess it was just like losing ziggy all over again. Add that to the fact I couldnlt bring myself to BD once she had gone, soooooo weird. I wanted to more than anything but I had a big barrier up that I couldnlt do it. When we finally did I was againa n emotional mess, I cried allt he way through and after and it was just such a huge thing. I donlt know why or how but I guess there was something there in my mind about doing it all again cos we had to cos the baby was no longer there etc etc it was all just putting emphasis on losing ziggy, the period, the bding, the follow up scans and docs appointments etc. So ladies I guess I am telling you this to prepare yourselves that you may feel OK and "healed" and then it bites you on the arse again
As for bding between loss and AF i agree it will happen if it happens and whatever will be will be etc. I didn't temp until after first AF we did say we wouldnlt try until after the first one so took that time to completely focus on grieving and recovery etc etc. When the witch hit I was a mess it was just like losing ziggy all over again. Add that to the fact I couldnlt bring myself to BD once she had gone, soooooo weird. I wanted to more than anything but I had a big barrier up that I couldnlt do it. When we finally did I was againa n emotional mess, I cried allt he way through and after and it was just such a huge thing. I donlt know why or how but I guess there was something there in my mind about doing it all again cos we had to cos the baby was no longer there etc etc it was all just putting emphasis on losing ziggy, the period, the bding, the follow up scans and docs appointments etc. So ladies I guess I am telling you this to prepare yourselves that you may feel OK and "healed" and then it bites you on the arse again