<crosses fingers for Reb>
Hope this is the start of a lovely romantic year for you both. Keep us posted.
Nise -
Poo. More
I'm CD2 today. Veeery heavy this time here.
Heavenly - fingers crossed for you too
PDMC - Yay for EWM! (the things we get excited about!)
Everyone else <waves> and ((hugs))
I have a sad and tricky thing going on - got to get this off my chest - any thoughts ladies? i'll try and keep it brief:
When i lost baby last April i stared chatting on a support forum and made 3 good friends, K, L & E. All of us in our late 30s/early 40s, all lost babies in the same month. All of us joined FF. K happened to live near me and we meet for coffee often, L and E live miles away. We did all 4 meet up once in the summer. Was fun! Within 2 months K and L got preg again. E decided she was too jealous to chat with them any more and would then only talk to me. I could see how she felt, as with a 'closed' group of 4 women bound together by ttc the pressure does mount up. The worry about being last and left behind .... L sort of wandered off, didnt hear from her any more. E would email me every day. I still meet K for coffee.
Then 3 months ago E fell preg. (So I was the one who was last! eek. Was tough at first but i'm ok). K still preg, and i was keeping her posted about E! E would still only talk to me. Struggling with depression - even though preg. Emailing me every day and i was trying to support her (while trying not to be envious).
Then just b4 xmas E lost her baby at 4 months AGAIN
We kept chatting every day by email over xmas. She's been very down since then of course, i've done my best to support her. I havnt mentioned my cycle AT ALL this month out of mindfulness of her situation, but i think she checks my chart on FF still. Suddenly she stopped emailing. About the time my chart started to look hopefull coincidently .... I texted her to see if she was ok and she sent me one brief text to say yeah, she'll email soon. And thats been that. Nothing. Just waiting to see if she contacts me now i've put AF on my chart
I feel for her but am hurt that she would just drop me like this.
Anyway sorry for that great ramble. Cant talk to many people in RL about this situation as its all so bound up in how it feels to be ttc for ages. K is lovely but has distanced herself from E and says dont worry about it
Arrrrrggggghhhh. And breath.
xxx