Oh congtrats Garfie thats wonderfull!
PDMC - it's almost certainly due to the recent BFN that your mood plumeted upon sighting a bump! ((hug)) It can be hard, i know. Great news about your divorce coming through.
Personally if i'm going to get an attack of the green eyed monster its not over new babies or big bumps but preg announcements and early pregnancies (RL only - ladies on here excepted - I want you ALL to get BFPs
) Once another ladies preg is over the announcement and past the 16 week point (which is when i MCd) its fine and i can be normal and happy as larry for them. It's odd, and i hate that i'm like this, but i cant shake it
Maryanne - i had to smile about you attacking your OH into submission
sorry. It is hard to motivate them at the right time without being obvious its ov week. DH and i went through a rocky patch a few months ago when he made it clear that although he was interested in my cycle he didnt want to be told when it was time! I mean why do we have to be the ones doing all the stressing!? However their pressure to 'perform' is harder than ours i suppose so .... <grudging acceptance of situation>. So these days i just try to keep him on hold for a few days on the run up to ov and then get all seductive over ov week. Seems to work as the 'perform stress' has all gone. Anyway - i'm so glad to hear you are finding it a little easier to post now petal. ((Hugs)) and strength to you
AFM - i'm feeling a bit shitty at the mo. It's 15DPO today and AF is due today or tomorrow. I dont feel hopefull at all and in fact and am giving up the accupuncture, the Q10 and the she oak (gave up the cups and the pree-seed yonks ago)
I'll carry on with pre preg vits as they contain the folic acid. It would be stupid and self indulgant to stop those. Just worked out that the weekend DH is going on a 2 night stag do in Bognor in a couple of weeks is my ov weekend
Great. He doesnt know, and there's not alot of point in telling him.
Been ttc with FF and all the bells and whistles and suplements for a year now. I'm checking my temps purely out of habit and vague interest. No actual hope at all. So sad for DH really. He so badly wanted a child of his own, and we were both soooo happy and joyfull when i fell pregnant last year. We were coasting ok before that. No expectations either way. Then the mc heart break. Now all this bloody stress and misery dragging on and on every month. No end in sight that i can see. I just want to turn my back on it all tbh.
Well, sorry, that all turned into a big me me me! AF is def on her way then it seems
Just got to wait for the spotting to start.
x