TTC 40 plus!! Lets share the ups and downs!

[Mistyy]

Garfie i just had a proper look at my chart (have just been bunging the temp in ect recently, not really looking IYKWIM) and even FF isnt expecting my AF till Tue/Wed. Its saying earliest testing day is wednesday and all that. So .... theres time for my temps to plumet. But why the spotting grrrr.

Desp - i thought implantation was more like CD6ish?? <starts thinking foolish hopeful thoughts >

God it would be so fabulous if i was pg. sigh. I just really really think i want it way too much for it to actualy happen if that makes any sense, lol.

 

[Desperado167]

Garfie i just had a proper look at my chart (have just been bunging the temp in ect recently, not really looking IYKWIM) and even FF isnt expecting my AF till Tue/Wed. Its saying earliest testing day is wednesday and all that. So .... theres time for my temps to plumet. But why the spotting grrrr.

Desp - i thought implantation was more like CD6ish?? <starts thinking foolish hopeful thoughts >

God it would be so fabulous if i was pg. sigh. I just really really think i want it way too much for it to actualy happen if that makes any sense, lol.

It can occur any time from a week before your period to a few days before your period is due ,

 

[Nise]

Oh Nise thats geat news! Roll on the 16th Thank you for your kind words You're dead right about the temp thing. My friends worst looking, rockiest charts were always her preg ones (all 3 times on FF) I had forgotten that. Thank you

Y'know you're new wonderfully laid back attitude to ttc at the mo is the stuff of "I gave up and it happened" stories Anyway - good luck with the filming.

Waves to all.

Lol, better be careful what I wish for! Though for someone who quite regularly used to O on CD10 not dtd until then could be regarded as risque

Garfie, fantastic news! What a rollercoaster you've been on but wow, I would never have thought about ringing up to question the results. What a difference its made. Relax and enjoy the happy.

AFM... Still waiting for the AF after D&C. 50 days now, so frustrating and worrying. I finally managed to get a doc appointment for next week. It will be 8 weeks by then. I hope it turns up before then but if not who knows what will happen and more to the point how quickly the NHS will help me.

Thanks. Just a question, have you tried another test - only I had a friend on here who MC, AF never arrived and she thought she'd missed a cycle but somewhere she had ovulated again and got another bfp? Don't want to raise false hope, but if you haven't then it maybe worth doing just to rule out!

Thanks ladies for all your support, I am anxious still but trying to remain positive (only 7 more sleeps until my scan when hopefully I will see my baby )X

Roll on Scan day.

Just went to the loo and I had bright red blood ,hope the soy from last month isn't gonna strt messing with me

That's pants though as someone else said, bright red blood for AF is the best kind.

Misty - Your temps don't look like the is on her way to me





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I agree, doesn't look like AF time just yet.

Thank you Ali and Garfie

It was one quite obviously bloody/mucusy wipe when i went for a wee earlier Garf . Nothing more at all (i've checked a couple of tmes).

Why cant our bodies just be a bit moe predictable huh? My LP was the one thing i thought i had down to a fine art!

Could it have been implantation bleeding ,your temp is still quite high for af ,

Ooo, I hope so

 

[garfie]

Misty - I would say see what your temps do tomorrow

It is possible to implant later - but remember if that was implantation bleeding (fingers crossed it was) then it will take a few days to show up on a





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[Mistyy]

Thank you girls Well - i think i'll be hopefull then! Why not? I'm always miserable when AF arrives anyway I dont think getting my hopes up will make things any worse tbh

So .... i'm officialy on the hopeful bench

 

[maryanne67]

hi misty i`m sure i speak for everyone, we`re all on the hopefull bench with you

 

[Just_married]

Absolutely. It's one long bench tonight! Loving this hopeful vibe tonight!

 

[pdmcd17]

Fx'd misty

 

[Mistyy]

News from the 'bench' ....

Temps are higher ...
But
More spotting (streak of blood in mucus) 1st thing this morning ...

Sooooo ... my guess its going to be the whole Jubillee weekend on the bench then girls - <passes wine/coffee/pastries/chocs/grapefruit juice(!) along the line> - with a probable ''everybody off, AF's arrived'' on Tuesday

Its lovely to have your company here ladies

 

[Desperado167]

News from the 'bench' ....

Temps are higher ...
But
More spotting (streak of blood in mucus) 1st thing this morning ...

Sooooo ... my guess its going to be the whole Jubillee weekend on the bench then girls - <passes wine/coffee/pastries/chocs/grapefruit juice(!) along the line> - with a probable ''everybody off, AF's arrived'' on Tuesday

Its lovely to have your company here ladies

Chart still looking great ,I am on the bench with you and since I am on a diet u may pass me the grapefruit juice ,have a great weekend ,

 

[Mistyy]

Oh - P.S: More out of interest than hope -

Does anyone undestand the 'Spotting Factor' thing on FF? i never have understood it. At the mo mine is saying:

4.4% of pregnancy charts show spotting at 12DPO. 18.5% less than for non pregnant charts.

I cant get my head round wether its saying more preg charts have this than non preg ones lol

 

[alin3boys]

you can implant upto 12dpo,fx'd hun

 

[Barnabibear]

Fingers crossed barnabibear that everything will be just fine and its the witch having problems with her broomstick she`ll be back before you know it ,,i`m having doubts about my af , been twice since the birth but more like spotting which ive never had before and 3 weeks apart each time so diffrent for me so know its not the same as your going through but its the worry of not knowing whats going on so big

Thanks Maryanne! I hope you're right. I'm so worried about scarring and all that it encompasses with regard to TTC. Terrified. As for your AF, it happened to me for a while, after giving birth. I asked about it with a doc, they said it was probably leftover prolactin from not getting to breast feed, even though I'd had the drugs to stop the distress from seeing the milk. It made a lot of sense. It should sort itself like mine did after a few months.

 

[garfie]

Misty - Can I sit on the bench too with you hun - those temps are looking gooooood! - I can have everything apart from the so for those of you on a diet I can eat your share



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[alin3boys]

Misty ~ your temps are still high so don't think its af fx'd hun,what testing date has ff given you

Garfie ~ no diet here hun so fingers of my grub pmsl

 

[Mistyy]

Aww - everyone is welcome on the bench We've all shoved up a bit and theres plenty of room

Still got this once a day bit of bloody mucus going on Had LOADS to drink at a friends party last night (i know i shouldnt have but ...) so my temp is unreliable today. Ali FF says Wednesday for testing. I think i'll be on by then tbh.

Love and hugs for all - HAPPY JUBILEE

 

[Nise]

Squeezes onto the bench with a big bag of foodz.... lol Hope everyones enjoying the weekend, I love Sundays that don't have that 'you've got to get up tomorrow' cloud hanging over them. I have not bothered to go down into central London - am staying in the dry half watching on the TV. At 5 foot fuck all, it's probably the best view I'll get!

 

[Desperado167]

Squeezes onto the bench with a big bag of foodz.... lol Hope everyones enjoying the weekend, I love Sundays that don't have that 'you've got to get up tomorrow' cloud hanging over them. I have not bothered to go down into central London - am staying in the dry half watching on the TV. At 5 foot fuck all, it's probably the best view I'll get!

Have a great time ,love it wen we can all stay up late and lie in in the mornings ,it's the best feeling ,am 45 on Tuesday ,was meant to be giving up TTc but I just can't commit to it ,maybe next year lol

 

[Reb S]

Squeezes onto the bench with a big bag of foodz.... lol Hope everyones enjoying the weekend, I love Sundays that don't have that 'you've got to get up tomorrow' cloud hanging over them. I have not bothered to go down into central London - am staying in the dry half watching on the TV. At 5 foot fuck all, it's probably the best view I'll get!

Good decision, Nise - I popped out of the Barbican to have a look, but all roads to the river were shut and they didn't let anybody anywhere near. We giggled a lot and found a bit on London Bridge where you could see a square foot of water - I saw the bottom of the hull of one barge go by - hahahaha!! x
Despie - even when you've given up like me, you still haven't.... xxx

 

[lily28]

Oh - P.S: More out of interest than hope -

Does anyone undestand the 'Spotting Factor' thing on FF? i never have understood it. At the mo mine is saying:

4.4% of pregnancy charts show spotting at 12DPO. 18.5% less than for non pregnant charts.

I cant get my head round wether its saying more preg charts have this than non preg ones lol

Nope I don't , but as far as I understand it has to do with implantation. Apparently women spot when the little fetus implants. IDK maybe mothers could help out on this