Miss C - Wonderfull, wonderfull,
wonderfull You give us all hope
Butterfly - keep us posted about the adoption process. Sending
right back and the best of luck. Do you feel a weight has been lifted stopping TTC?
Nise -
waiting again keep us posted. Yes, it is best to try to have a united front. It takes work though! lol.
Just married - huge
i think you have been amazingly brave to go and get tests done. That goes for all you lovely ladies that have gone to face the music, as they say. (I'm too afraid of the bad news to go. How silly is that?) So be strong
just. Most of what they've told you is crappy financially speaking - but not physically speaking it seems. You have one good strong tube - focus on firing out those eggies!
I've just been watching BBC Breakfast doing a piece on how women are evolving socially at a fantastic pace - working longer, being more successfull, marrying later, and therefore wanting to start a family, or a second family later in life. Average age of a mother having her
first baby rose to 31 for the first time last year apparently. They've got experts sitting on the couch shaking their heads and shrugging and saying 'oh how sad that nature isn't evolving at the same pace. Women just aren't fertile after a certain age. But what can we do?'
Well we can bloomin well offer fertility treatment on the NHS
after the age of 38 perhaps, and try to turn around the unwanted/unplanned teenage pregnancy boom in this country which is costing us a fortune!
Grrrrr!
Anyway - i'm not doing another massive post
I didn't intend to yesterday, actually, it just all came flooding out. The sad thing in all this is i don't actually believe i'll fall pregnant again at all tbh. I'm TTCing and charting these days just so that i don't wont have the awful regrets of 'if only we'd tried' when the menopause does come
No good reason for this pessimism other than the amount of time we've been trying without success
Enjoy the sunshine if you've got some today, it's actually
not raining here today