Spoomie: Aw. Hon. It's downright horrid some days.
But everyone has said super smart things about it. I was thinking last night, that it's a lot like running a long race. If you believe that the wall is there, it gets bigger and harder and more painful. Maybe you could try to use some of your mental long-run strategies here? As in, breathe, relax, be in the moment and try not to view it so much as a finish line, but a process. At least, that's what I am going to do (I run half-marathons). And I love Miss C's views on it. I need to hold onto those ideas myself. Hang in there.
AFM: Welp, I've been trying to post all morning and the site keeps crashing. Fits my mood, really. So, tested this morning and BFN. I'm okay with that, as the doc yesterday said that he thinks I did O on cd15, so now I am on 13dpo and that's a nice stable looking cycle, so that's something. And so far, no signs of the witch. Interesting. The temps for the cd1-9 were wonky because (as OH reminded me) we were visiting friends and sleeping in a super hot room. I wish I had showed him the damned chart earlier so I wouldn't have spent these last two weeks wigging out.
Doctor news is this: 1) I'm old (really? That's news?) and so it's going to be hard; 2) I need to wait 5-12 days after this AF and get a hysterosalpingogram to see if everything's open in there; 3) I need to stop taking my anti-androgen meds and then wait through the next cycle before having bloods taken. So we're on a bit of a delay here, which will give me some time to calm the f down and work on my acupuncture and herbal treatments.
Acupuncture news is this: She thinks I am still carrying trapped grief from the little barnacle that I lost in November. Really? You think? But she is lovely and so we're working on spleen, liver and blood. The spleen needles flippin hurt (which shows how much I needed them). And last night, I slept well for the first time in a while and had a bit of a temp rise this morning, which probably means that AF is on her way (I know, I am freakishly backward with my temps).
I hope you all are well and that those snatches have bonfires in 'em by now. I'm going to try to post this before the site crashes again.