ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Tomorrow Laura!

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Lunch!

yum!!!

Oh, and here is that pic that I was trying to upload yesterday... this is the little face that I woke up to when I was about to fall asleep on the couch.

 

[mommylov]

Here is a pic from last year in our apt in Cali.. They look innocent but are little monsters! I love my boys!!

 

[Storked]

Amy they are so stinking CUTE!

 

[DoggieandPooh]

Hello, I am new to this forum. I have been reading a lot of posts this week and thought it would be good to share my own experience and talk to others instead of just read the threads. I just had a D&C 9/7/12 at 10w4d b/c the u/s showed no heartbeat. They thought it was because of an infection but I had my follow up appt. today and the culture came back negative. We are going to try after I am done bleeding. I didn't bleed at all right after but two days later I started spotting on and off and I am waiting for that to stop. Phyically I am doing pretty well but emotionally It has been hard. I took a week off of work but next week I have to go face everyone and my students.

 

[mommylov]

Amy they are so stinking CUTE!

Thanks! I love them... They are the best kitties ever. They dont scratch or bite or anything (unless they are playing). They let you rub thier bellys and will sit with anyone! They were so sweet after the loss and would give me extra cuddles liek they knew I needed it. Leo (My orange tabby) does the same thing your kitty does and he paws at our faces and purs and is just soooo affectionate. My other one is sweet but doesnt do the pawing.. he kneads and will lay on us.

 

[mommylov]

Doggieandpooh, welcome and sorry for your loss. Its so hard coming to terms with the idea of not having our lo's in our arms. It took me a long time to realize that it happens for a reason and better now than later but still doesnt make it easier. I had my D&C on july 19th and dh and I wanted to wait atleast 1 cycle before we try again. 1. because we didnt want to go through this again and 2. we wanted to make sure my uterus had a chance to heal and get ready for a new lo! Hope everything works out for you and your dh and best wishes and for a new healthy sticky bean!

 

[xxserendipity]

hi everyone sorry ive been awol this week been sooo ill and felt a bit low as some of u know i got my positive opk on thursday managed to dtd with hubby thursday then he hurt his wrist and although i tried my best to talk him round the pain he was in put an end to anymore baby making so as u can imagine ive felt really disappointed as feel like thats destroyed any chance of a bfp this month hows is everyone?? have i missed anything important or exciting?? xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Angel Lol, love your letter to af lol

Bd last night and I told dh I felt like we did it. I don't know why but it felt like last night was the night. Fx!

Getting ready and then off to work. Hope it stays a good morning...

to all!!!!!

You know what they say about women's intuition. The night my husband got me pregnant, I knew he did! I told him to get me pregnant, that I wanted to be pregnant, and ever since then I felt pregnant, and I was. I feel like this is the month!! Maybe not for me, because I just started ttcing, and bd the first time yesterday, don't think I am that lucky. But I will pray that all of you get your bfps!!

 

[lilesMom]

i put a reminder in my phone and all bethany so i wont forget tomoro. xx aye aye captain storked
amy ur kittys r super cute

 

[aaronswoman79]

phyllo dough is always a pain in the butt for me to find. Thx for the info on spotting. I am confused because since I can remember, the first day of my period is always very light, and I usually only I bleed when I clean myself, but it happens almost everytime I go bathroom, so would that be considered spotting? This is the first time in my life I am actually charting my cycle, so Im a beginner. Lots of new things to learn.

My cycle is the same way. I would "spot" (sometimes it would make it to pantyliner sometimes only present when I wiped) for up to 2 days before my flow came. It wasn't until I asked the Dr. what "flow" really was that I realized I was off by 2 days. I thought my cycles were 26 days, turns out they were 28! She also added that red = flow regardless of how light or heavy. Hope this helps Jessica!

Thx angel. I do spot at the beginning but it is red, so I think I will just start bding 2 days early, since I don't know what the heck is going on with my body right now. So we had our first bd on cd9. Wow, all of this cycle stuff can be very confusing. I am scared to use a opk because Im scared it will confuse me even more. But if it comes to it, and I can't get pregnant right away, i will do it.

 

[lilesMom]

doggie and pooh welocme babe, big hugs. its such a tough time but it does get better i promise xxxxx
welcome back danni we missed u xx oh no i know how u feel, i had a few throw backs like that, anytime i thought i was nearly able to try ,some stupid new medical reason would come up for me not to, so frustrating.. its just moving the goal posts though , it will happen, try to remember that xxx
and dont rule urself out this month u got one in on right day so fx xxxxxxxx

jessica thanks and fx for u too xxxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Aww angel love it! Amy fxd its your cycle it just has to be right? Bethany same for you! My pms left huh im starting to feel hopeful again.so scared to be crushed cd 20 here not sure about dpo.i really dont want to look til i know i can test.

ladies

work time

Hang in there hon! I'll be on the same boat in a couple weeks, right now cd10, bding week here. I am so scared of the anxiousness of waiting for bfp. This is so hard!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

im goooooooooooodd...well..getting very irritated by my hair to the point i feel like doing a britney n shaving it all off :/ it just wont sodding grow, since i got pregnant all it did was fall out and break off it used to be touching my waist and now its barely past my shoulders and its in terrible condition, i was told prenatals were dead good for hair growth but they are definitely not working :/ xxx

omg me too. May hair is all jacked up since my pregnancy. My hair is naturally very curly, but now it has gone from curly to an all out afro. The prenatals did nada for my hair. Doesn't matter what conditioner I use, nothing helps!

 

[horseypants]

DoggieandPooh, welcome. sorry for your loss.

 

[xxserendipity]

doggie and pooh welocme babe, big hugs. its such a tough time but it does get better i promise xxxxx
welcome back danni we missed u xx oh no i know how u feel, i had a few throw backs like that, anytime i thought i was nearly able to try ,some stupid new medical reason would come up for me not to, so frustrating.. its just moving the goal posts though , it will happen, try to remember that xxx
and dont rule urself out this month u got one in on right day so fx xxxxxxxx

jessica thanks and fx for u too xxxx

fingers crossed hun got 8 days till i can test and feel like this week is gonna take forever lol xx

 

[lilesMom]

i know the wait is really long u have less to wait than me though, so first u and bethany, then me and jen ha ha xxxx come on bfp s

 

[xxserendipity]

hopefully we'll all get bfps very very soon when are u testing again hun?? xx

 

[lilesMom]

af is due on 23rd so pretty close to u

 

[aaronswoman79]

I am totally new to this and these boards but if I don't get some support soon I'm going to go crazy!
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year. We found he had a low morphology and a varicocele. He has it repaired and off we went trying to conceive number 1! I found out I was pregnant and we were crazy excited. Yesterday was my 12 week scan and there was no heart beat. To say the least we were devastated. Tomorrow I'm having a d&c and I still can't believe this is happening.
So my question is, is there anyone out there that has had a MC with fertility issues and got pregnant again. I know this is a crazy question but I'm in a dark place and really need some hope. Please anyone?

So sorry for what your are going through! We are all here to support you. Try rest as much as you can after your d&c, find a good support system (like all of us here!). We are all on the same journey as you, we have had either mc or d&c. I know it all takes a while to sink in. Please whenever your feel the need to vent or find support, let it all out here. We have all had our share of venting. I myself do not have fertility issues (not that I know of), but I have heard many many stories of women with fertility issues, men with low morphology, that go on to have healthy children. Take care and know that we are all here for you.

 

[DoggieandPooh]

Thanks, It is so hard to make a decision to wait a cycle or not wait. I have read many posts where women conceive and have healthy pregnancies without waiting and those who didn't. I want to ttc so badly and am very impatient anyhow. But I also know I can't go through this again right away.