ttc after a d&c

[xxserendipity]

af is due on 23rd so pretty close to u

mines due 22nd if i go by that fertility friend app so nearly exactly the same hun ooo exciting!!!!! when will u test i know its best to wait a few days but i know i wont be able to and will test that mornin lol x

 

[aaronswoman79]

Tomorrow Laura!

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Lunch!

Bethany!! Now I am hungry! We talked about the pesto yesterday. Now Im gonna have to drag my husband out so we can buy some tortellini later. So, do you make your homemade pesto?

 

[xxserendipity]

Thanks, It is so hard to make a decision to wait a cycle or not wait. I have read many posts where women conceive and have healthy pregnancies without waiting and those who didn't. I want to ttc so badly and am very impatient anyhow. But I also know I can't go through this again right away.

its very hard to decide whats best hun a friend of mine told me to ask myself the question if i was to fall pregnant straight away and god forbid mc again would i be able to cope? and i decided that id find it just as hard 2-3-4 months down the line and chose to start ttc straight away xx we're all here if u need us hun xx

 

[lilesMom]

doggie i had to wait cos i would have blamed myself if i went ahead and something happened, i was very impatient but i realise i am def stronger and more able to handle things now than i was. after d and e i was afraid i wouldnt be normal and able to concieve so i didnt try. many people do though with mixed results, i spent ages thinkin bout it too, its tough decision , best o luck whichever u decide xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hello, I am new to this forum. I have been reading a lot of posts this week and thought it would be good to share my own experience and talk to others instead of just read the threads. I just had a D&C 9/7/12 at 10w4d b/c the u/s showed no heartbeat. They thought it was because of an infection but I had my follow up appt. today and the culture came back negative. We are going to try after I am done bleeding. I didn't bleed at all right after but two days later I started spotting on and off and I am waiting for that to stop. Phyically I am doing pretty well but emotionally It has been hard. I took a week off of work but next week I have to go face everyone and my students.

I am so sorry for your loss. They also thought I might have an infection, but I didn't. So we are still waiting for answers. Lost my baby at 18.5 weeks. I know it is so hard emotionally. I really feel for you, my heart aches for any woman that has had to go through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

 

[lilesMom]

af is due on 23rd so pretty close to u

mines due 22nd if i go by that fertility friend app so nearly exactly the same hun ooo exciting!!!!! when will u test i know its best to wait a few days but i know i wont be able to and will test that mornin lol x

il test that day if af hasnt arrived
last time i got a faint pos on day af was due i usually wake up with af when i get it so il prob know that morn anyway

 

[aaronswoman79]

hi everyone sorry ive been awol this week been sooo ill and felt a bit low as some of u know i got my positive opk on thursday managed to dtd with hubby thursday then he hurt his wrist and although i tried my best to talk him round the pain he was in put an end to anymore baby making so as u can imagine ive felt really disappointed as feel like thats destroyed any chance of a bfp this month hows is everyone?? have i missed anything important or exciting?? xx

so sorry about your week hon. I hope your husbands wrist gets better so that you both can continue on your tcc journey. I feel the same, so anxious to bd and get pregnant right away! Hang in there!

 

[mommylov]

I think I test last

Laura, cant wait for you all to test... next week is going to be a busy week for everyone huh! lol Lost of testing and awaiting af!!!!

Thanks Jessica!

Bethany, your lunch made me hungry... I think its time for linner lol

 

[lilesMom]

af is due on 23rd so pretty close to u

mines due 22nd if i go by that fertility friend app so nearly exactly the same hun ooo exciting!!!!! when will u test i know its best to wait a few days but i know i wont be able to and will test that mornin lol x

il test that day if af hasnt arrived
last time i got a faint pos on day af was due i usually wake up with af when i get it so il prob know that morn anyway

 

[mommylov]

Thanks, It is so hard to make a decision to wait a cycle or not wait. I have read many posts where women conceive and have healthy pregnancies without waiting and those who didn't. I want to ttc so badly and am very impatient anyhow. But I also know I can't go through this again right away.

Its definitley a toughy .. I know a fre girls that conceived right away and have beautiful, healthy kiddos and some waited and had the same outcome . Its totally a personal call. If you feel youre ready, then go for it! If you decide you need to wait, thats ok too. Just know you are not alone!

 

[xxserendipity]

af is due on 23rd so pretty close to u

mines due 22nd if i go by that fertility friend app so nearly exactly the same hun ooo exciting!!!!! when will u test i know its best to wait a few days but i know i wont be able to and will test that mornin lol x

il test that day if af hasnt arrived
last time i got a faint pos on day af was due i usually wake up with af when i get it so il prob know that morn anyway

i always wake up with af too hun lol x

 

[lilesMom]

af is due on 23rd so pretty close to u

mines due 22nd if i go by that fertility friend app so nearly exactly the same hun ooo exciting!!!!! when will u test i know its best to wait a few days but i know i wont be able to and will test that mornin lol x

my b and b is gone weird , i tried to anser u but i dont think it posted, it got stuck. xx
il test on the day if i can hold off that long last time i got faint pos on day of af so fx same again

 

[lilesMom]

I think I test last

Laura, cant wait for you all to test... next week is going to be a busy week for everyone huh! lol Lost of testing and awaiting af!!!!

Thanks Jessica!

Bethany, your lunch made me hungry... I think its time for linner lol

good things come to those who wait im told xxx

 

[mommylov]

hi everyone sorry ive been awol this week been sooo ill and felt a bit low as some of u know i got my positive opk on thursday managed to dtd with hubby thursday then he hurt his wrist and although i tried my best to talk him round the pain he was in put an end to anymore baby making so as u can imagine ive felt really disappointed as feel like thats destroyed any chance of a bfp this month hows is everyone?? have i missed anything important or exciting?? xx

Awww, sorry youve had a rough week I know the feeling of defeat when dh gets hurt and you see your window to conceive close for the month. If it makes you feel better, dh told me the same thing and I thought I wasnt going to be tryin gthis month but then out of the blue he started feelng better and he managed to be able to bd and now is doing great. I hope that your dh gets better soon not just for his sake but for yours and future too! If you dont try this month, you never know what will happen and we could be there with you. Chin up hun and fx for ya!

 

[mommylov]

I think I test last

Laura, cant wait for you all to test... next week is going to be a busy week for everyone huh! lol Lost of testing and awaiting af!!!!

Thanks Jessica!

Bethany, your lunch made me hungry... I think its time for linner lol

good things come to those who wait im told xxx

GREAT things are coming!!!!

 

[xxserendipity]

af is due on 23rd so pretty close to u

mines due 22nd if i go by that fertility friend app so nearly exactly the same hun ooo exciting!!!!! when will u test i know its best to wait a few days but i know i wont be able to and will test that mornin lol x

my b and b is gone weird , i tried to anser u but i dont think it posted, it got stuck. xx
il test on the day if i can hold off that long last time i got faint pos on day of af so fx same again

i saw it hun it posted twice lol x

 

[mommylov]

hi everyone sorry ive been awol this week been sooo ill and felt a bit low as some of u know i got my positive opk on thursday managed to dtd with hubby thursday then he hurt his wrist and although i tried my best to talk him round the pain he was in put an end to anymore baby making so as u can imagine ive felt really disappointed as feel like thats destroyed any chance of a bfp this month hows is everyone?? have i missed anything important or exciting?? xx

Awww, sorry youve had a rough week I know the feeling of defeat when dh gets hurt and you see your window to conceive close for the month. If it makes you feel better, dh told me the same thing and I thought I wasnt going to be tryin gthis month but then out of the blue he started feelng better and he managed to be able to bd and now is doing great. I hope that your dh gets better soon not just for his sake but for yours and future too! If you dont try this month, you never know what will happen and we could be there with you. Chin up hun and fx for ya!

Or, you would be very close!!! Either way, we will all have bumps together at some point!

 

[xxserendipity]

hi everyone sorry ive been awol this week been sooo ill and felt a bit low as some of u know i got my positive opk on thursday managed to dtd with hubby thursday then he hurt his wrist and although i tried my best to talk him round the pain he was in put an end to anymore baby making so as u can imagine ive felt really disappointed as feel like thats destroyed any chance of a bfp this month hows is everyone?? have i missed anything important or exciting?? xx

Awww, sorry youve had a rough week I know the feeling of defeat when dh gets hurt and you see your window to conceive close for the month. If it makes you feel better, dh told me the same thing and I thought I wasnt going to be tryin gthis month but then out of the blue he started feelng better and he managed to be able to bd and now is doing great. I hope that your dh gets better soon not just for his sake but for yours and future too! If you dont try this month, you never know what will happen and we could be there with you. Chin up hun and fx for ya!

thanks hun its typical really we waited ages for me to finally get a positive opk and when we finally do we cant even make the most of it now we'll prob have to wait another month at least, nevermind it cant be helped x

 

[lilesMom]

u may still get bfp hon x

 

[xxserendipity]

im not holdin out much hope tbh x