ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Dear AF,

(sarcasm) Thanks for the PIMPLE! Perhaps I should throw on a white pencil skirt today seeing as you LOVE showing up when we are least prepared!

Still waiting on CD1,
Angel

I hated waiting.. it was the worse! I would spot then it would go away and then come back and then out of nowhere there was a gush! I think the longer we go, the more normal she will be. I have only had the one post op and it was a doozy. Hoping to not get anymore.. said I was waiting for the one to come and go and it did... Im going to send a little note myself!

Dear ,

You seem to not get the idea here. Some of us welcome you and others wish you away . Get it together and get it right !

Regards,
Amy

Daily sticky chikys!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

Sorry you are at the angry stage hun As time goes on, it gets a little easier to cope. Good things are going to be coming your way!!

She is ok... trying to act all nice now She does that though. Acts all crazy and then when she sees that something is up and Im not talking, then she tries to be all nice. Do you ever watch Saturday Night Live? There is a character on there Penelope. She reminds me of her. Basically one of those that has to be a part of every conversation and everytime someone mentions something, she has to one up you or tell you that she doesnt prefer your method or your way i.e. I am having blinds and shutters installed at the house and she was telling me who did hers. Well I am going a different route and instead of saying "Oh cool" or something she has to be like "Oh I didnt do that, I went with ___ because they are much better and I love my blinds". If she ended there, then no problem.. but then she went off about my choice and to be honest.. I read reviews about people she used and they were horrible. idk, just annoying. When giving advice, speak your peace and then be supportive of whatever someone chooses... just be a friend! She doesnt get that. Whatever, Im enjoying my cloudy, cold day today! One more day until Friday

How are you doing???

 

[mommylov]

I think a big part of it is that she lives alone with her 2 daughters. Her husband lives in another state which to each his own. If it works for them, great but its not the ideal situation. So she is use to things running her way at home and doesnt have a husband to "share"... and her daughters are obv going to have to do whateer she wants since she is the mom so I think she is kind of a brat in that sense.

Ok, Im sorry.. Ill stop about her.. I can go on for days! lol I dont need to think about her.. trying to stay zen for me and my future lo

 

[TTCSecrets]

im goooooooooooodd...well..getting very irritated by my hair to the point i feel like doing a britney n shaving it all off :/ it just wont sodding grow, since i got pregnant all it did was fall out and break off it used to be touching my waist and now its barely past my shoulders and its in terrible condition, i was told prenatals were dead good for hair growth but they are definitely not working :/ xxx

 

[lilesMom]

amy she sounds troublesome
angel i hope af sorts herself out for u x
natasha i was just thinking this morn my hair used to so thick, its gotten much thinner , wonder why ?

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

ive got b6 upstairs but cos im still taking pregnacare once a day i didnt know if it would be over doing the vitamin b? xxx

 

[lilesMom]

b vit are water soluable, ur body doesnt store um, it pees them out if too much so no harm

 

[lilesMom]

i said i better look it up in case i was wrong, turns out thats fine if ur not preggers but not advisable if u r , jeez pregnant women cant do anything!!! bring it on

 

[tmd22]

I am totally new to this and these boards but if I don't get some support soon I'm going to go crazy!
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year. We found he had a low morphology and a varicocele. He has it repaired and off we went trying to conceive number 1! I found out I was pregnant and we were crazy excited. Yesterday was my 12 week scan and there was no heart beat. To say the least we were devastated. Tomorrow I'm having a d&c and I still can't believe this is happening.
So my question is, is there anyone out there that has had a MC with fertility issues and got pregnant again. I know this is a crazy question but I'm in a dark place and really need some hope. Please anyone?

 

[mommylov]

im goooooooooooodd...well..getting very irritated by my hair to the point i feel like doing a britney n shaving it all off :/ it just wont sodding grow, since i got pregnant all it did was fall out and break off it used to be touching my waist and now its barely past my shoulders and its in terrible condition, i was told prenatals were dead good for hair growth but they are definitely not working :/ xxx

Oh no! She is one of those?!? Now I really feel for you! I often think the one-uppers (think I just made up a word) are insecure, so they inject themselves and their beliefs onto everyone else to hide said insecurities. I'm just guessing here, but that has been my experience. If they weren't so annoying, I'd feel sorry for them!

I don't want to jinx it, but my "spotting" might be turning red...maybe AF has a 24 hour response time! LOL. Or maybe your letter frightened her---the timing was impeccable! hehehe!

Thanks babe, I think youre right! Oh yay, that could mean its af!!!! FX!!!!!! 24 hours, buahahah you tell her!!!!

Natasha, Im so sorry that the vitamins arent working for you. I too read the the B vitamins are good to help with hair and nail growth. My prentals have been maiking my hair and nails grow like crazy. Its Nature Made Prenatal... dont know if you are looking to swtich or anything but just thought Id throw it out there. GL hun!!!

 

[mommylov]

I am totally new to this and these boards but if I don't get some support soon I'm going to go crazy!
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year. We found he had a low morphology and a varicocele. He has it repaired and off we went trying to conceive number 1! I found out I was pregnant and we were crazy excited. Yesterday was my 12 week scan and there was no heart beat. To say the least we were devastated. Tomorrow I'm having a d&c and I still can't believe this is happening.
So my question is, is there anyone out there that has had a MC with fertility issues and got pregnant again. I know this is a crazy question but I'm in a dark place and really need some hope. Please anyone?

Hi tmd22, so sorry for you loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I too had a D&C 2 days after we found out and everything went well with the D&C so I hope that gives you peace of mind.
I personally havent came across this issue with dh. This was my first mc and the dr told me that it was just either a bad egg or bad sperm. Sorry I couldnt give you a better answer I hope everything works out for you!

 

[tmd22]

Thank you mommyluv. That does give me some comfort.

 

[Storked]

Laura, please post pics of the cute baby ferrets! I would love to have one but DH won't let me get any more pets until we go to Thailand since bringing kitty will already be a pain. But ferrets are SO CUTE! I didn't know that the females could die from AF :O

Oh Amy! Last night was it you think? Fingers crossed and girl!

Angel, I feel your pain. My normally clear skin has zits and I can't stop picking at them. My husband will lecture me when I get home. Gah.

Jen, be hopeful! I am cheering you on honey!*

Natasha, oh! When I was pregnant I was always like..."when am I supposed to get my awesome pregnant hair?!" hehe. Never happened. Hopefully it will eventually

Tmd, welcome to the thread- I am so sorry for your loss. Missed miscarriages are terrible.
I am the same as Amy, no infertility issues. I wish I could be more help


Ladies, daily and love!
I decided that if AF does show that I will treat myself to a tonnof Internet cheapies and go wild next cycle. It is a happy thought!

 

[lilesMom]

I am totally new to this and these boards but if I don't get some support soon I'm going to go crazy!
My husband and I have been trying to conceive for a year. We found he had a low morphology and a varicocele. He has it repaired and off we went trying to conceive number 1! I found out I was pregnant and we were crazy excited. Yesterday was my 12 week scan and there was no heart beat. To say the least we were devastated. Tomorrow I'm having a d&c and I still can't believe this is happening.
So my question is, is there anyone out there that has had a MC with fertility issues and got pregnant again. I know this is a crazy question but I'm in a dark place and really need some hope. Please anyone?

i am so so sorry for ur loss hon, it is the worst thing that happened in my life and i dont wish it on ever, xxxx
dont worry about the d and c , physically it is not to worry about at all, i thought it would be horrible but it was fine, its the emotions that are the worst of this whole thing. xxx
i have only started trying again this month so i cant say personally just yet. but my sis in law had fertility problems and has 3 kids, my sister was also told she would never have kids and now she has 4. so there is always hope even if u dont feel like there is, xxx
u say ur hubby had it repaired and ye concieved yourself so that is agreat sign xxx
one mc they say happens a lot and doesnt raise ur chances of it happening again in next pregnancy,not much consolation now but is when it comes time to try again. xxx
any qs dont hesitate to ask and ur always welcome here xxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

tmd22 feel free to pm me if u want hon, r ask anything here, wish i could help xxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

bethany i forgot to take the pics, its dark now , il do it tomoro xxx

 

[Storked]

Tomorrow Laura!

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Lunch!