ttc after a d&c

[TTCSecrets]

This is why im a bit confused though..deep breath..

Because i have an 18 day luteal phase, an online calculator worked it out to be wednesday that i ovulate, so tuesday is quite possible.

Although if my luteal phase was 14 it would have been sunday, ..

I had positive opks for monday tuesday ,then negative tuesday night, then all weekend i had straight up negatives, i just keep thinking what if i did ? although my opks say i didnt so i think i must have caught it, but then again theres only a 25% each cycle of pregnancy xxxx

 

[mommylov]

You are going to be part of that 25%... with everything you did I really think you have a great shot!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks babe Hope u are too, cos even though you didnt do it day after O in case it was late, the lttle swimmers can still stay inside u alive for a few days When are u testing xxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks babe Hope u are too, cos even though you didnt do it day after O in case it was late, the lttle swimmers can still stay inside u alive for a few days When are u testing xxx

I hope so! Im just really kicking myself in the butt for not going a little longer Ummmm I SHOULD wait to test on friday but so far (I cant believe Im about to admit this) I have tested on Sunday morning, Monday, Yesterday afternoon at work, and this morning... all with bfn showing

AF is due this Friday

 

[TTCSecrets]

Maybe your hcg is just taking its time or sticky bean is being shy! Lol!
I know, ive got 9 FRER tests, 2 CLEAR BLUE and ive got like 50 10miu tests on the way from internet, so i think im going to just use a FRER tomorrow CD 9, and for the next few days , and then give up after 14dpo, my period isnt due until 20dpo and im not testing up until then lol! if i were to have a positive it should be here by 14dpo i would have thought. If not, ill put my BBT to use from 8th october lol! xxx

 

[mommylov]

hehe maybe! "Dear lo, mommy needs to you to put on your big boy pants right now and not be shy so I know youre in there!" lol

I might do the same and order some hpt online. At this rate, dh is going to want to buy stock in First Response!

 

[TTCSecrets]

haha i know i mean i wont lie, ill be gutted if at 10dpo i dont have a sniff of a bfp xxx

 

[mommylov]

Im almost tempted to make a drs appt and see if they can do a blood test but they will think Im crazy for not waiting until I have a missed period.

 

[mommylov]

I guess one good thing too is that I havnt had af cramping so maybe that means my bfp will come late? fx!

 

[mommylov]

So quiet... where did everyone go?

 

[TTCSecrets]

i been back to bloody bed everyone in my house is annoying me i feel like shouting at them all xx

 

[mommylov]

i been back to bloody bed everyone in my house is annoying me i feel like shouting at them all xx

Oh no! Did something happen or are they just generally annoying?

 

[xoxo4angel]

Nothing wrong with testing bunches Amy! I mean what if you fell in that percentage that it shows up early...I like "what if." And you can go do a Doc in the box (not your reg Dr, go to a small Urgent Care clinic) and tell them you think you're pg, but aren't sure when to expect AF. Tell them you want the quantitative Beta, not just the rapid results. Hehehe.

 

[mommylov]

Nothing wrong with testing bunches Amy! I mean what if you fell in that percentage that it shows up early...I like "what if." And you can go do a Doc in the box (not your reg Dr, go to a small Urgent Care clinic) and tell them you think you're pg, but aren't sure when to expect AF. Tell them you want the quantitative Beta, not just the rapid results. Hehehe.

Hmmm I might think about this one! hehe I would think after this Friday, if no af and no bfp that they would gladly do a blood test so I GUESS I should to wait...

 

[mommylov]

Whats funny is the last time we tried, I was the same way. I was telling DH that I need to by an opk (Which is the one I ended up buying and not needing at the time). So today I told him that I just want to cry because I think I messed it up. His response "Last time we dtd TWICE because we couldnt do it any other time and you went out and bought this stuff a few days before your period and then you found out that we were pg. I think we should just wait a few more days. Tech we still have 3 days left".

Grrrr, I hate when he is so logical/rational and doesnt give in to my madness!

 

[aaronswoman79]

HA not going into work today, i cant hack it today, just cant be bothered so they can do without me ....had enough lol, sick of people still asking if im expecting etc n im like no lol... i feel like sending an email to everyone in the building saying Just to let you know lol...

hopefully soon i will be expecting... along with jen and laura and the rest of us ! come on girls someone come online im bored and lonely at home

xxx

Hi Natasha! People are kinda weird because I am usually very careful about asking a woman is she is expecting. Sometimes I am worried maybe she miscarried, especially if she all of the sudden gets very quiet about her pregnancy. With my last pregnancy I almost told nobody. I told one brother at 10 weeks and I waited 5 weeks to tell him since I started spotting at 5 weeks. but then all of the doctors told me that my baby was perfectly healthy and that no way was I gonna lose him. ha!! They said that I had like less than a 1% chance or something like that!

What is really weird is that I really put off on telling my other brother (we have never gotten along, he's a big bully). Its kinda weird but I was scared to tell him because it was very close to his birthday, and I remember him telling us that bad things or tragedies always seem happen around his birthday. Yeah, I know I am really superstitious. So my mom goes on to tell him. A couple days later I started to bleed, go into the ER, and some guy walks in that looks exactly like my brother, and I have never seen anybody that looks like him. My husband couldn't stop staring at him.lol. I told my hubby, "This is an omen, I don't like this." An hour later I found out the baby died. Do I think telling my brother I was pregnant caused my babies death? Probably not. Will I tell him if I happen to be pregnant around his birthday... NO!! Yeah, like I told Angel, I think I am going crazy, I am starting to get all superstitious and paranoid.

 

[aaronswoman79]

hi girls sorry ive been missing again ive had a bad couple of days hubby sat me down the other night said we needed to talk, he's decided he doesnt wanna keep trying for another to explain it properly i should explain that before we fell pregnant and mc we had already agreed 3 was enough for us and i was happy with that i was on birth control but we still fell pregnant once we'd got used to the idea we were both excited and happy and then obviously everything went pear shaped im now left feeling like i want another however although he was gutted about the mc he still feels like 3 is enough he said at first he was willing to have another to make me happy and says he still will if its that important to me which obviously it is!!!!! but i dont wanna make him have a baby he doesnt want i thought he had come round to the idea but obviously not as im sure u can imagine im devastated i have been nipping on to see how everyones doin and huge congrats Jen hopefully the rest of u wont be far behind Laura and Jen noone deserves it more than u girls!!!!!! i dont really feel like i should post now iykwim but if noone minds i will keep logging on to see how u all are coz u've become important to me over the last few weeks and have helped me through some days i dont think i could have got through without u all xxx

love you all

There has to be a way to convince him without forcing him. My husband also only wanted 2 or 3, but now that we lost our little boy he wants 3 or 4. I think I might have subtly manipulated him with little comments here and there, like how 4 children make a perfect sized family, and giving him examples of families of 4 and so on. Give him some time hon. Maybe he is just feeling frustrated and down, just like you. Maybe the loss affected him so deeply . This is all so fresh was has happened to you. I know at times I get scared and say I don't think I could have another baby and go through this again. But then I later realize I need to have another baby, I just need to. I hope you continue to stay with us, Danni.

 

[lilesMom]

Congrats Jen!!!!!! Woooohooo!!
How are we all today?!?!?
I did another test this mornig, BFN , expected so early, but i just wanna feel proactive in TTC, got mild twings to the left and behind my belly button, but that could just be because one minute im constipated and the next minute i cant stop it coming (TMI) Got blood test this morning to check for anemia , i did ring the doctors and ask that since im having the blood test done anyway can they just add to it that i want my hcg levels testing, and she said no youll have to book another appointment with the doctor, for him to then authorise another blood test.. I was like, thats a bit of a waste of time isnt it??Unhelpful doctors! GRRR

hope we are all okay, i dont know why i got up this early when blood test isnt till 11 :/ Blood test at 11, then work 12 til half five, then college six til half 9 :/ Im gonna be shattered!!! xxx

im like this too babe , i wont go for a while and then when i need to go, i really need to go i looked it up and said its common i early preg xxxx

hurray jen , so excited for u. xxxxxxx

im still playing catch up, im so tired the amount of pages is staggering me ha ha

i had my gynae scan today, the one i was meant to wait till after to get preg all went very well, apart from me nearly peeing myself cos they called me an hour late she said all looks fine, she said i may have little fibroids but nothing to cause me trouble , whoop whoop
liver cons tommor and hopefully get goood news there too

went to see my new gran nephew after , he is dotey xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

He will be gone from the 12-29. IF my cycle is back on track and we don't catch the egg on this first go (which I am not counting on), then my next O should be around 29 Oct. I should point this out to him and see if he can come back Friday the 26. I mean who really works on the weekends...surely I'm getting ahead of myself. So much for trying to be romantic, "Honey, you need to come home on the 26th so we can make a baby. Or we need to make a deposit before you go!"

lol. Its like they are a sperm bank literally!! Only I am starting to get scared that maybe my husband has a problem with his sperm count?? He has been under so much stress and pressure these last few years. I have no basis to think he has low sperm count, but I am so paranoid that maybe they are damaged. I inspect him to make sure he is wearing nothing too tight in that area, I am even scared for him to take very hot showers. I think I'm going being crazy

Jessica...I tend to be protective over DH's area too! I even asked him to NOT put his laptop on his lap anymore! I am now convinced my own trauma (recurrent mc) has caused me to try to control every little thing I can because the one thing I want to control, egg quality, I can't! Your reactions are perfectly normal...may seem crazy to an outsider, but not here!

Natasha...dadgum BFN! Still too soon doll!

Amy how are you holding up? Did you poas today? Edit: just saw your post! It's too soon! Don't give up yet!

Laura, Jen...hope the early symptoms are tolerable!

Bethany, you can ship some beef stroganoff to me here on the East Coast!

Good insight on the lap top!! If I see dh with it on his lap I will make sure to kindly remove it.lol. So you are on the east coast huh. Nobody here lives in California . Its so lonely here in Cali. I feel like this whole state is full of pregnant women. Lately everywhere I go I see loads of pregnant ladies.

 

[lilesMom]

hi girls sorry ive been missing again ive had a bad couple of days hubby sat me down the other night said we needed to talk, he's decided he doesnt wanna keep trying for another to explain it properly i should explain that before we fell pregnant and mc we had already agreed 3 was enough for us and i was happy with that i was on birth control but we still fell pregnant once we'd got used to the idea we were both excited and happy and then obviously everything went pear shaped im now left feeling like i want another however although he was gutted about the mc he still feels like 3 is enough he said at first he was willing to have another to make me happy and says he still will if its that important to me which obviously it is!!!!! but i dont wanna make him have a baby he doesnt want i thought he had come round to the idea but obviously not as im sure u can imagine im devastated i have been nipping on to see how everyones doin and huge congrats Jen hopefully the rest of u wont be far behind Laura and Jen noone deserves it more than u girls!!!!!! i dont really feel like i should post now iykwim but if noone minds i will keep logging on to see how u all are coz u've become important to me over the last few weeks and have helped me through some days i dont think i could have got through without u all xxx

love you all

oh no babe i am so sorry , im gutted for u, xxxxxxxx
might he change his mind? could u explain to him that it does mean an awfull lot to u xxxxx so sorry babe. xxxxxxxxx
totally we dont want u to leave, ur d best xxxxxxxxxxxx
we would miss u way too much xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
u can get some of ur sadness out here too hon, thats what we all here for, to share good and bad xxxxxxxxxxxxx