ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

i know i dont want my LO to confuse me with a whale when it comes out ha ha

 

[lilesMom]

whats ur colour amy for in a few days time xx

 

[Storked]

Jessica, happy birthday! How are you celebrating?
*As far as tests, I got the darkest line with a First Response Early Result but it still didn't tell me I was pregnant the day of my missed period. But all of my sisters were at least a week late before a BFP so I guess I am just the same.

Laura, I have been quiet but just not much to report here. I guess I don't feel committed to this cycle. I do want to be pregnant and I am trying but not living my life around it any more which is why my husband bought our tickets for an overseas vacation I have come to realize that I am powerless and that my rainbow baby will arrive when they are ready, not when I am. Good place for me to be in!
And those pregnancy symptoms sound great girly!

Danni, so sorry your DH isn't wanting another child. I know that you will do whatever is best for you

Amy, how are you feeling today? The wait is so hard when you want it so bad. I am totally here if you just want to trash talk the TWW (what I always want to do when I am in it )

Natasha, test as often as you like if it makes you feel better I say!

Hi Jen!

Hi horsey!

AFM: guys I haven't gotten a stinking thing done today! I haven't even read my book (it is a stupid YA so that may be a part of it). But I did finish season 1 of Once Upon a Time! And I am making dinner so that I can take a nap when DH gets home. Didn't get any sleep at all last night

 

[lilesMom]

ur so right chick, anything we do just gives us a chance to concieve, we cant guarantee unfort so much better to relax and try make it easier on urself
well done, hol be lovely, id love a sun hol. xx

feck house work, it will be there tomor too

 

[lilesMom]

im off to bed chicas, mommy lol is tired xxx

 

[Storked]

Laura, sweet dreams! And I actually did all my housework yesterday just still feel like I should be doing something but I am hardly going to start knitting to just feel productive and the like hehe (though I do know how to knit )

 

[xoxo4angel]

I need to know, in all your opinions, what is the best pregnancy test that yields the earliest results. I realize I can't test today, because it is better with 1st mornings pee, right? I don't know much about pregnancy tests, so what seems to be the best pregnancy test to yield the earliest results?

https://www.livestrong.com/article/171389-most-sensitive-pregnancy-tests/

I found this most useful!

 

[Storked]

Oh and Angel, what about Sheryl Crow and cell phones? I meant to ask but forgot lol

 

[mommylov]

whats ur colour amy for in a few days time xx

Awww, green... I soooo hope to join to you ladies along with the rest of the girls here! fx fx fx fx

lol your lo wont think you are whale, he/she is going to love thier mommy no matter what! Im sure you are going to be the preetiest preggy mommy!

 

[mommylov]

Jessica, happy birthday! How are you celebrating?
*As far as tests, I got the darkest line with a First Response Early Result but it still didn't tell me I was pregnant the day of my missed period. But all of my sisters were at least a week late before a BFP so I guess I am just the same.

Laura, I have been quiet but just not much to report here. I guess I don't feel committed to this cycle. I do want to be pregnant and I am trying but not living my life around it any more which is why my husband bought our tickets for an overseas vacation I have come to realize that I am powerless and that my rainbow baby will arrive when they are ready, not when I am. Good place for me to be in!
And those pregnancy symptoms sound great girly!

Danni, so sorry your DH isn't wanting another child. I know that you will do whatever is best for you

Amy, how are you feeling today? The wait is so hard when you want it so bad. I am totally here if you just want to trash talk the TWW (what I always want to do when I am in it )

Natasha, test as often as you like if it makes you feel better I say!

Hi Jen!

Hi horsey!

AFM: guys I haven't gotten a stinking thing done today! I haven't even read my book (it is a stupid YA so that may be a part of it). But I did finish season 1 of Once Upon a Time! And I am making dinner so that I can take a nap when DH gets home. Didn't get any sleep at all last night

Hi Bethany :wave:!!! How are you dear? So exciting that you guys are going to be going over seas for vaca! Thanks for the words of wisdom.... I am having such a rough time with all the - hpt Im getting.

Thanks Laura, you are the BEST!! Have a great night mommy-to-be and we'll see ya in the am!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

I need to know, in all your opinions, what is the best pregnancy test that yields the earliest results. I realize I can't test today, because it is better with 1st mornings pee, right? I don't know much about pregnancy tests, so what seems to be the best pregnancy test to yield the earliest results?

https://www.livestrong.com/article/171389-most-sensitive-pregnancy-tests/

I found this most useful!

Thx so much, I am reading it right now!

 

[xoxo4angel]

DH was saying she was reporting cell phones caused her brain tumor! If there is even a slight truth to that then our fellas and their are in trouble! YIKES!

I love the Once Upon a Time series! The Big Bang Theory starts again tomorrow!!

 

[mommylov]

DH was saying she was reporting cell phones caused her brain tumor! If there is even a slight truth to that then our fellas and their are in trouble! YIKES!

I love the Once Upon a Time series! The Big Bang Theory starts again tomorrow!!

lol right!

yay for bbt!! Just saw that Big Bang Theory has the same letters as Basal Body Temp! .. HA! Ok off from work ladies... Im going to go home and throw some laundry in and ba back later. Ill try not to poas!

 

[aaronswoman79]

I was feeling better!! Then I get a call today, on my b-day from the hospital where I lost my baby, and had to start talking about the mc, because they wanted information. It brought everything back. Now I feel stupid because they want to make a preconception appointment, and they suggested that we don't start trying and bding until I get the green light. But my doctor already gave me the go ahead and told me it was ok after a couple cycles. So now I am thinking I might be pregnant, and these people are going to scold me and tell me negative things about my pregnancy if I am indeed pregnant. I can't even go in for a pre-conception appointment because I no longer have insurance coverage, and I will only be able to qualify for some type of coverage when I am indeed pregnant. Now I miss my baby more than ever, and I still don't have the answers I need, not even if he was actually a boy, even though I was already 18 weeks and everybody visibly saw and told me he was a boy. Now they are saying a genetic deformation could make a girl look like a boy?? Well he looked like a boy to me!! Now I am just confused.

 

[Storked]

Amy, you want it badly so of course you will be sad by BFNs the wait isn't about action and that is the hardest part right? We have already done everything so you must wait. But we would rather keep trying, being proactive

Angel, whoa. I really wish celebrities would shut up sometimes
As for Big Bang, I haven't seen it. Keep hoping that Netflix will stream it so that I can watch from the start

Jessica, that is terrible! I wish that they hadn't called you. Jesus that isn't what you needed to hear. You are doing the best that you can ad that is what matters*

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, you want it badly so of course you will be sad by BFNs the wait isn't about action and that is the hardest part right? We have already done everything so you must wait. But we would rather keep trying, being proactive

Angel, whoa. I really wish celebrities would shut up sometimes
As for Big Bang, I haven't seen it. Keep hoping that Netflix will stream it so that I can watch from the start

Jessica, that is terrible! I wish that they hadn't called you. Jesus that isn't what you needed to hear. You are doing the best that you can ad that is what matters*

Thanks Bethany! We really missed your insight and wisdom these last few weeks your were gone. At least it felt like weeks! I am glad you are no longer stressing about bding and all that stuff. You are wise, and I know it is better to be like that. You are still so young, your rainbow baby will come! As for Big Bang my little teen daughter here loves that show as well as How I met your mama!! Believe it or not, I have never watch the shows, I get restless when watching tv, and the little one hogs it up so much, I usually don't get a chance. So, are you already planning for the trip?? Your husband knows the language right?

 

[xoxo4angel]

Oh Jessica. I second Bethany! It's like they are so far removed and only focused on the science that they have forgotten there is a grieving mother on the other end of that phone! I wouldn't let them scare you from getting pg without consult...bullies!

 

[Storked]

Jessica, it did feel like weeks. I am so plugged in that not having connection messed me up.
All of our rainbows are coming and we just have to do the best that we can. Besides, that preconception appointment won't ease your fears. After the loss of your son you know you have some doubts about what the doctors say. You are being cautious now and looking into things and doing the best that you can. We will always know that we are doing our best for healthy babies
I hog the tv at home! I love How I Met Your Mother but don't watch it too often

Angel, I think that you are exactly right. I think that they feel that if they put things in cold, clinical terms that they aren't being hurtful but they ARE. The coldness makes it more hurtful. And it invalidates how you feel. Sad.

 

[TTCSecrets]

I went for my blood test this morning and the nurse was saying how the doctor shouldnt have told me to try after one period because it will reult in miscarriage again rah rah rah and i was like look its my body my life etc and i got the go ahead from doctor .... very emotional day , hope all u ladies are done going to catch up now xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

I went for my blood test this morning and the nurse was saying how the doctor shouldnt have told me to try after one period because it will reult in miscarriage again rah rah rah and i was like look its my body my life etc and i got the go ahead from doctor .... very emotional day , hope all u ladies are done going to catch up now xx

In all honesty Natasha, that nurse is full of crap. That is not true. Many doctors give the go ahead after 1 cycle. I think if someone is destined to have another miscarriage, it will happen again regardless. What a fear monger that nurse is. Many women don't even wait their first cycle and start trying right away. Many go on to have healthy babies and I am sure there are others who mc. There is always that chance. Result in miscarriage?? Who is she to say that?? There are women who get pregnant right after giving birth to a full term baby, I would say that is traumatic, and they go on to have healthy babies! Every body is different. Who does that nurse think she is, some kind of pregnancy guru who can predict mc?????!!!! There are woman all over the world and 3rd world countries who pop out 1 baby per year. And I know this, my mother is from one of those countries, and many women there literally get pregnant like 2 months after giving birth. Do they all have miscarriages?? no. You cannot predict. I feel like slapping that nurse for telling you that. Take what she said and throw it out. She had no right to tell you that. She is not God, she is not all knowing!