ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

they all stayed here for few hrs , was lovely, they r really funny
and they brought cake always good ha ha

 

[horseypants]

aww you guys are a ray of sunshine in here : ) i had to giggle when i read your post lile's mum. yay for happy homecomings!

i cant make sense of my chart and dont think im normalizing quite yet. ive been doing opks with no positives yet but ff thinks i o-ed. i think the application is just being "impatient"! i knew it might be a long cycle.... we'll see!

storked, glad to hear you are doing well xo hi jen!!!!!

 

[lilesMom]

i hate opks, i always seem to have 2 lines all the time, no matter when i test
i was too late to test for my O last cycle i think and now ive used all my opks and by the time i ordered more and they came in the post i be too late for this one too
i also said i wouldnt bother ordering more unless ttc didnt work for me soonish
so i think il give up on um for now and if i need to later il get more.
i may change my mind again tomoro ha ha

 

[horseypants]

ya, i hate opks too but i like poas! lol i feel you on the back and forth and with the two lines stuff! i usually have two lines, except after o - then sometimes, i'll get a few more clos to positives, but then i get at least fainter lines! for the past two weeks, it's been usually faint lines. my body is being weird still

what do you have going on today? any cute preparations for OH?

 

[lilesMom]

its just gone 8 at nt here now, so not much goin on for rest of the day
he isnt back for another 3 weeks so no prep yet
how u doin? any news?

 

[horseypants]

fertility friend thinks i o-ed but i think i didnt

i have been doing a lot of day dreaming about the wedding, which will probably happen a year from now

work sucks!

i am eating celery!

i made OH a lunch to take to work cause im being cute like that lately he seems to like it

 

[lilesMom]

day dreaming about ur wedding sounds good, happy planning x
i really hate celery
just had some more cake, bold laura
im being nicer to every1, its made me realise life is too short for grudges,
was never rude to people anyway but am being more considerate.
its good for me and them

 

[Storked]

Laura, what kind of cake? I don't like raw celery but I will eat it in things. My spouse says I'm just picky hehe
horseypants, I didn't get a positive until Friday. It was weird! And men love it when you cook- I am making homemade pizza and a ton of cookies so he won't notice what a mess our house is

Life is too short for grudges or even drama. I see those things as a waste of my life energy. Makes me feel good!

 

[horseypants]

i can not deny i am sometimes too dramatic. i agree grudges only clog the works and should be dropped as quickly as possible sometimes they are seeded in some kind of miscommunication, so airing stuff often can help. -i went through a period where i was being "perfect," with no bad behavior. lately, i figure, at least i can admit my shortcomings and im always willing to try harder. i have been having a challenging time lately!

 

[lilesMom]

we all have our bad moments horseypants, we r only human
i love cooking and OH does like it too
it was a sponge cake with cream, jam and strawberreis , my fave yum
still half in fridge calling me

i was only saying to someone the other day that nno fighting is ever necessary if people explain the feelings behind actions , just understanding why people r snappy r mean r anything else will allow u to forgive um and understand um
course im no angel sometimes it takes me a bit to put myself in their shoes ha ha

 

[horseypants]

YUM!

 

[Storked]

horseypants, I am very self-aware too. I always dwell on my faults and try to figure out why I am the way I am. I admit to the things that I am not logical about as well. Drives my spouse batty

 

[Storked]

Sounds tasty Laura!

 

[lilesMom]

it was
im much more critcal of myself than i am of others, if i could learn to be as lenient on myself it would be good

 

[Storked]

I think AF may be on her way! No bleeding just feel crampy in a menstruating way

 

[lilesMom]

oh bags babe, still might not be xxxxxxx
if it is hope ur ok, maybe we can both have bfp next month.
but dont write it off just yet x

 

[horseypants]

yes, dont write it off too soon. im sure you've heard, af feels just just like bfp due to progesterone!

 

[CherylC3]

Hey ladies can I join u?? Going for a dnc in the morning... When can I bd again? When can I try? I just want a baby this yr has been the worse and such a rollercoaster. Xx

 

[Storked]

Hey ladies can I join u?? Going for a dnc in the morning... When can I bd again? When can I try? I just want a baby this yr has been the worse and such a rollercoaster. Xx

Welcome so sorry for your loss
I was told that I could bd after two weeks and that I could try when I had my first cycle after the procedure. I am so sorry that you are having such a rough time. We will all get our sticky beans.

 

[Storked]

Laura and horseypants, I won't give up. But if AF comes I won't be too sad