ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Laura and horseypants, I won't give up. But if AF comes I won't be too sad

stay positive your time will come. Hoping for implantation cramps for you. Its not final til af shows. We are hear for you.

Sounds like you ladies had good days! all the baking and cooking talk sounds yummy.

Laura yay!! 3wks til oh is home!!! Hoping it goes fast for you. Glad your seeing the kids often!

Hi horsypants! Hoping you ovulated.

 

[jen435]

Hey ladies can I join u?? Going for a dnc in the morning... When can I bd again? When can I try? I just want a baby this yr has been the worse and such a rollercoaster.

Welcome! I am very sorry for your loss. I hope everything goes okay for you tomorrow. As Bethany stated they tell you to wait two weeks so you can heal and close properly. They ask you to wait to prevent infection. As far as waiting too ttc after they recommend 2-3 cycles but its ultimately up to you. I am so sorry you are having such hard times. hope you will be okay. We are here for you if you need to talk. Let us know how everything goes. Wishing you well.

 

[Storked]

If I am not pregnant this cycle I may put off TTC. My hubby and I are supposed to go to Thailand in April and...yeah
But I hate to put off a baby just to have fun abroad. Feels all kinds of wrong. Especially when I *really* want the baby. Grrr.

 

[Sweetz33]

Cheryl my docs said wait 1 cycle minimum.

 

[lilesMom]

welcome cheryl , i was given same advice as storked as regards bd and trying xxxxxxxxx big hugs to u xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i may have to put off too storked, so peed off.
my pma has taken a knock. i just got a call from my doc saying my liver enzymes r further elevated so she wants me to go to a consultant fast and not try till sorted. so annoying. i have been sick and allergy plagued for about 5 yrs on and off so maybe they cure me this time
had a feeling they might come back to me worse this time, hadnt been feeling too healthy hopefully they finally find what it is and bloody fix it

and dont feel bad bethany, its all ur choice, u r young to use a cliche. things will happen when they r meant to hon, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Storked]

Oh no Laura! How soon do you see a consultant?

 

[lilesMom]

she contacting them today and saying i need to be seen fast so im not sure when. prob within a 2 weeks she said. if they sort it super fast , i could be sorted for when OH comes home. not likely though irish health care is wicked slow.
there goes my lotto money into cons ass pocket

 

[Storked]

she contacting them today and saying i need to be seen fast so im not sure when. prob within a 2 weeks she said. if they sort it super fast , i could be sorted for when OH comes home. not likely though irish health care is wicked slow.
there goes my lotto money into cons ass pocket

I hope it goes by super fast! You are in my prayers honey

 

[CherylC3]

Thanks ladies I think il wait 2 wks to then ntnp for a month then some obsessed ttc will begin lol... Lilesmom hope everything goes ok Hun...

I think a dnc is the best option after a mc it feels like closure. Xx
ladies

 

[lilesMom]

thanks bethany and cheryl xxx
i agree with u cheryl , u know for sure ur sorted out properly , for want of a better phrase and can then wait to get back to normal , hopefully fast
it does feel really final but its like a definite line that helps u look forward if u know what i mean, take care sweetie xxxxxxxxx

 

[horseypants]

cheryl

lilesmum, keep us up to date on the docs. i hope it's an easy fix this time.

storked hang in there and dont give up, though thailand does sound pretty good sounds much better with a few drinks too!

i've oed or im about to

 

[Storked]

catch that eggy horseypants

 

[jen435]

Laura i hope your consult goes well and comes back before your oh so you can ttc again soon. youll be in my thoughts and prayers.

Bethany no af yet could be good news. Dont lose hope. Your vacation sounds nice. Dh and i spent our first year of marriage to vacation. You are still young. Have faith you will be a mommy when the times right.

Cheryl glad your finding closure. I didnt feel complete closure til i recieved the memorial card from the hospital. They put my sons ashes in the garden. Makes me feel some peace. Your two weeks should hopefully go fast. I hope you try to stay positive. You will have your rainbow baby in time.

 

[jen435]

Horseypants goodluck!!! Hope those swimmers catch that egg!

 

[CherylC3]

Horseypants get catch ur eggy

Thanks guys the countdowns on... Hubby laughs at me cos I'm the one with the high sex drive lol....xxx

 

[Preciousone]

Hey ladies quick update i had to return to hospital today as my pregnancy tests are still dark lines ;( had bloods taken so we shall have to see what is going on ;(

I have to go back in 48 hours and have them retested, please let me return to normal quickly ;(

FX TO YOU ALL XX

 

[CherylC3]

Hey ladies quick update i had to return to hospital today as my pregnancy tests are still dark lines ;( had bloods taken so we shall have to see what is going on ;(

I have to go back in 48 hours and have them retested, please let me return to normal quickly ;(

FX TO YOU ALL XX

Aw hope ur ok Hun

 

[jen435]

Hey ladies quick update i had to return to hospital today as my pregnancy tests are still dark lines ;( had bloods taken so we shall have to see what is going on ;(

I have to go back in 48 hours and have them retested, please let me return to normal quickly ;(

FX TO YOU ALL XX

Wishing you well. is there any chance you could of fell pregnant again? If not i hope your hcg levels drop fast.

 

[ehdo9967]

Preciousone-- so glad you are going back! I had my first d&c on june 6th and on june 20th still had dark lines- i had to have a second d&c on june 21st and finally now don't have any line at all!


It was much longer recovery than i had wanted and that i'm sure you want but the most important thing is to monitor your recovery!

everyone told me to stop taking tests every day and that things were find, but I knew something was off!

As they say...."only you know your body!" So please let us know what blood tests say...its so rare to need another so I am sure you are fine, but if you need another and need support I am here