ttc after a d&c

[horseypants]

jen, i work at a radio station and a few of the ladies around here have had problems too. do you think this type of radiation could have any effect? xo

 

[mummy to be]

Hi ladies.. Just wondering if i can join the chat here My husband and i lost out baby mid June 2012 and has D&C 28th June. We are still in the no aloud stage of things but it is hard not too and we are super super scared about falling pregnant again....
I am not even sure when my AF will return after the D&C.... how long was it before it returned with you all???

Did you just let nature take its course or did you prevent until 2 or 3 cycles and than go for it (so to speak).

Thanks in advance
xoxo

 

[Storked]

Hi ladies.. Just wondering if i can join the chat here My husband and i lost out baby mid June 2012 and has D&C 28th June. We are still in the no aloud stage of things but it is hard not too and we are super super scared about falling pregnant again....
I am not even sure when my AF will return after the D&C.... how long was it before it returned with you all???

Did you just let nature take its course or did you prevent until 2 or 3 cycles and than go for it (so to speak).

Thanks in advance
xoxo

Welcome! First off, I am so sorry for your loss. It is very hard
I started to miscarry naturally on May 9 and had D&C on the 10th. It was a 32 day cycle. I am TTC now, in my first real cycle after the loss
This link may help https://www.pregnancyloss.info/waitingforaf.htm

 

[jen435]

jen, i work at a radio station and a few of the ladies around here have had problems too. do you think this type of radiation could have any effect? xo

There are alot of towers for radiowave transmission. If its very common in ur office its very much possible. Also never carry your cellphone in ur pocket or close to you tummy. My ob told me that it transmits radiation also.

 

[Storked]

cellphones? Holy crap thanks for sharing I will be uber careful not to do that

 

[jen435]

Hi ladies.. Just wondering if i can join the chat here My husband and i lost out baby mid June 2012 and has D&C 28th June. We are still in the no aloud stage of things but it is hard not too and we are super super scared about falling pregnant again....
I am not even sure when my AF will return after the D&C.... how long was it before it returned with you all???

Did you just let nature take its course or did you prevent until 2 or 3 cycles and than go for it (so to speak).

Thanks in advance
xoxo[

Welcome! I am truely sorry to learn about your loss. how are you doing emotionally? The website Bethany posted for you is excellent. So I would definately recommend taking a look at it if you haven't yet.

I had a d&c on may 17. That cycle lasted 38 days. Af came it was normal. We are now ttc again. My obgyn gave us the green light at my two week checkup. They tell you to wait that long because they want to be sure everythings out, your uterus has time to shrink back to size and most importantly everything closes and heals properly so no infection occurs. If you choice not to wait don't worry many ppl try right away and some end up pregnant with beautiful babies. your body won't let you get pregnant unless its ready. It does take time for your body to get back to normal if you choose to wait for af. My doctor said she wouldnt of been concerned til after 3months. Nothing is normal after a loss.

I hope you and your husband are okay! We are here for you.

 

[lilesMom]

Hi ladies.. Just wondering if i can join the chat here My husband and i lost out baby mid June 2012 and has D&C 28th June. We are still in the no aloud stage of things but it is hard not too and we are super super scared about falling pregnant again....
I am not even sure when my AF will return after the D&C.... how long was it before it returned with you all???

Did you just let nature take its course or did you prevent until 2 or 3 cycles and than go for it (so to speak).

Thanks in advance
xoxo

hi mummy to be, welcome. so sorry for ur loss honey. hope ur holding up ok. xxxx i had mmc and had d and e on 24th may. i got negative test after 2 and half weeks, we waited 2 weeks till bd (to prevent infection ) and then prevented when we did. i got af 5.5 weeks and it was fine, loads of people said it could be heavy r sore but mine was fine. we were told wait one af by one doc and 2 af by another doc. we were waiting 1 af but my OH was sent to storkeds country in texas to work for 5.5 weeks . he will be back in 3 weeks and then we ttc
best of luck in which ever u decide to do, wait r try.
take care of urself, dont rush urself and dont put pressure on urself. u have been through a lot so look after urself and accept all help u can xxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i have so much to catch up on
i stayed at my friends house last nt so no internet for me
we went to cinema and then out for a little bit for a girls bday at work, it was fun.
i can still have some fun

god jen i hope u be ok at work. that is scary.
when im on the wards at work , they do xrays at times, u should see me run when i saw the xray machines while pregnant. i always keep my phone in my pocket by my tummy at work too , doh.
horseypants hope urs is ok at work too honxx

 

[jen435]

i have so much to catch up on
i stayed at my friends house last nt so no internet for me
we went to cinema and then out for a little bit for a girls bday at work, it was fun.
i can still have some fun

god jen i hope u be ok at work. that is scary.
when im on the wards at work , they do xrays at times, u should see me run when i saw the xray machines while pregnant. i always keep my phone in my pocket by my tummy at work too , doh.
horseypants hope urs is ok at work too honxx

So glad you had fun and a good day
Thank you i really hope so too. Starting my tww today. Came fast. definately felt ovulation and confirmed it with postive opk cm and cervix position.now the wait begins. How are you doing bethany??

 

[Storked]

I'm not going to test for a while. Will wait for AF and if nothing...will test
I only have cheapie HPTs and they aren't very sensitive. I never got lines on FRER until my period was super late so may have to wait longer for these...unless AF shows!

 

[jen435]

I'm not going to test for a while. Will wait for AF and if nothing...will test
I only have cheapie HPTs and they aren't very sensitive. I never got lines on FRER until my period was super late so may have to wait longer for these...unless AF shows!

Okay

 

[lilesMom]

arrggghhh come home Oh, im horny as hell with loads o cm . its perfect BD weather, hee hee i also seem to now get ov pain which i didnt get before loss. least i have lots of indicators that im goin back to normal cycle and timing be pretty good for OH coming home

 

[jen435]

What great news with perfect timing!

 

[Storked]

So glad you are normalizing!

 

[lilesMom]

yup im feeling really upbeat at the mo, getting excited about ttc now again
how ye doin? xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Storked]

Nothing happening here. Mostly going to be in the kitchen today making cookies and homemade pizza

 

[lilesMom]

yummy home made pizza what kind of cookies?
choc , choc chip ? my fave.
il have to get on aplane i think hee hee

 

[Storked]

Peanut butter cookies today

 

[lilesMom]

i hate peanuts so il postpone the flight ha ha. my OH loves um though
although i do love pizza
i just made veg soup, my sis callin soon with her smallies , yey
my fave kiddies

 

[Storked]

I hate peanuts too but not peanut butter. Strange huh? First things I will learn in Thai is "I'm allergic to seafood" and "I'm allergic to peanuts" I'm not allergic- I just really hate them!
MMM...veg soup. Minestrone now sounds good
You get to babysit??