ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

i need to rant to calm down, i know a person she is more a work person than a friend, we hang out in the same group. we had a work bday party the other nt, fri nt and she was knocking back beer, she had as much or more than everyone there. it made me so mad, would u give a new born alcohol, its same bloody thing. it wasnt a one off she does it all the time,
she knows i had mmc and pretty soon after i went back to work she told me she was expecting ,that was fine, was lovely of her, she pulled me aside and told me cos she didnt want me to hear else where and be hurt, she is a nice person so i just dont get it.
a few days after she told me she was on about a party she was goin to and how she was gonna stick to 'only wine so it would be fine' arrggghhhh!

i know it is none of my business really but its horrible to see.
i would love to say it but i know it would do no good at all and would only cause an agrument but her poor baby is suffering, it can have long reaching effects on him/her. its not like 40 weeks is even that long
ok sorry rant slowing down. i just needed to get it out there

 

[xoxo4angel]

Each milestone of a pregnancy we cling to as hope that this time things are progressing and healthy, so it pains us to watch others take that for granted! Such a selfish woman! I'm in the 2ww, I only allowed myself a redwine spritzer (merlot & soda) while entertaining company.

 

[xoxo4angel]

As for our guest...DH is from a small town. The past few years while staying at our cabin I became close to the wife of one of his high school friend's. It was his birthday weekend and they wanted to come to the beach. Luckily it was 80F degrees Friday and Saturday, then dropped Sunday to 60-70 with rain. Sunday was no fuss though because they heart football, so being at a sports bar was what they wanted.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Laura...it's 4:44!! You think you can do my cards if it isn't too late for you?

 

[lilesMom]

yeah it is horrible to watch her , she has another son who is 2 , who has health problems, it makes me wonder is this why? might be unfair of me but they dont know what it can cause.
yup it prob bothers me more since mmc , but it still bothered me before too
ur so right angel, while ttc ,its better to believe we r just in case xx
it was kinda ironic, one of my good friends was giving out to me about her and was drinking away vodka and then she told me about an hr later that she is trying and waiting on af. what do u say to that , doh!!!!!
thanks angel u r a pet and v understanding xxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

As for our guest...DH is from a small town. The past few years while staying at our cabin I became close to the wife of one of his high school friend's. It was his birthday weekend and they wanted to come to the beach. Luckily it was 80F degrees Friday and Saturday, then dropped Sunday to 60-70 with rain. Sunday was no fuss though because they heart football, so being at a sports bar was what they wanted.

ooohh sounds like a lovely relaxing weekend , perfect baby cooking conditions for u xxx
whats 80 in celcius do u know, i dont know how to convert

 

[lilesMom]

Laura...it's 4:44!! You think you can do my cards if it isn't too late for you?

awww , i can sweetie, give me a few mins xx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thank you. My 80 is roughly your 27 degrees.

 

[xoxo4angel]

And after a mc and mmc I never take anything for granted! I cannot believe the other woman drank vodka knowingly in the 2ww...ignorance is bliss! Selfish women and their poor children!

 

[lilesMom]

i used a different pack again, just cos

1) acknowledgement : accept all aspects of urself so u feel happy and confident. become aware of and nurture the good qualities of others so they feel relaxed and happy in ur presence. recognise who u truly are to be happy.

2) archangel uriel: your r blessed to get this angel card, he brings love, peace and tranquility. you in turn can spread these qualities. conect with him and ask for his help. see urself surrounded in purple and white light. think, 'i am one in peace and serenity'

3) positivity : keep ur thoughts words and actions pos. what u focus on is what u attract so allow urself to attract high vibrations by streaming only pos thoughts. the angels are aware of power of positivity and will support you in this. your pos will keep u happy and fulfilled and help get what u desire. think , 'i am positvie and strong' .

and one card from other pack

oh its one of my fave cards ...

4) shower of adundance :
to heal ur finances, give the angels ur worries about money, they will guide u to create and accept abundance. your finances will heal as fast as u allow.
ths card is a sign ur prayers have been heard and answered. listen to and follow ur gut right now. this abundance is not necessarily money, it ca take any form, an abundance of time, friends, ideas etc. can mean an unexpected win ad can mean that if u have been finding coins lately , its sign from loved ones departed and angels

all good babe xxx

 

[lilesMom]

Thank you. My 80 is roughly your 27 degrees.

perfect temp, nice and warm without being melting

 

[horseypants]

thanks so much for the comforting words a-gain all better now. OH is back home and i calmed down. af is calming down too. she scares me lately and i get very weird.

angel, i hope it's ib

 

[jen435]

laura so sorry you had to see her drink ugh! ppl like that make me sooo angry!! My friend drank and smoke and her son is now 4 and has serious behavior and developmental problems. He is also extremely overweight and very mean! He HURTS!! anyways know that your taking care of your lil one and that is the best you can do! Also know you have a group of girls that youll never hear that we did such a thing from! So rant all you want! Makes me appreciate you all even more! Yay for that ultrasound scan tomorrow! Cant wait to hear how many beats per minute!

Btw did or are any of you ladies going to breast feed? I started a thread asking about breast pumps that are good to use but not getting much feed back. So figured I asked for any info you ladies may know about the whole process because i am not educated on this topic yet.

Out to dinner now with the husband for our anniversary and to see Taken 2! Hope you ladies are having a nice day!

Angel and bethany I agree with laura! Its still to early! Prays being said for you!

 

[horseypants]

liles mum, oh my gosh! that is terrible, yikes. i might have to say something which im sure would have gone poorly.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thank you thank you Laura!

 

[lilesMom]

thanks so much for the comforting words a-gain all better now. OH is back home and i calmed down. af is calming down too. she scares me lately and i get very weird.

angel, i hope it's ib

thank god ur feeling better, such a stressfull time xxxx big hugs xx
its no wonder hon, u have all normal af hormonal issue but also the whole damn u af for being here issues, loves u, its all normal and dont be shy, we all freak out from time to time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Jen. Breast feeding or pumping is sooo beneficial to baby! My sister had a portable pump that she lived by! Cost might have been $300 and brand is Medela. Some hospitals have the one's they can rent to you monthly. Breast milk is by far cheaper than formula! Most Dr's have a lactation consultant that will work with you, even come to your home.

 

[lilesMom]

Thank you thank you Laura!

no prob sweetie xxxxxxxxx
hope it makes sense to u x

 

[lilesMom]

laura so sorry you had to see her drink ugh! ppl like that make me sooo angry!! My friend drank and smoke and her son is now 4 and has serious behavior and developmental problems. He is also extremely overweight and very mean! He HURTS!! anyways know that your taking care of your lil one and that is the best you can do! Also know you have a group of girls that youll never hear that we did such a thing from! So rant all you want! Makes me appreciate you all even more! Yay for that ultrasound scan tomorrow! Cant wait to hear how many beats per minute!

Btw did or are any of you ladies going to breast feed? I started a thread asking about breast pumps that are good to use but not getting much feed back. So figured I asked for any info you ladies may know about the whole process because i am not educated on this topic yet.

Out to dinner now with the husband for our anniversary and to see Taken 2! Hope you ladies are having a nice day!

Angel and bethany I agree with laura! Its still to early! Prays being said for you!

thanks sweetie, ye d best xxx
ive calmed down now, i just feel bad for her bub.
U/s is a week tomor so have a bit of a wait yet but i cant wait
all hopefull
i am gonna do my best to breast feed but it doesnt work for everyone ao im not gonna pressure myself but do really wanna
2 of my sis did with no problem but one had to quit due to bleeding nipples and lack of milk so il do my best but wont beat myself up if i cant.
im gonna use my sis breast pump and just buy my own bits.
i think its medina, that name is in my head but il double check, she found it great and has used other that werent so great, they r expensive enough but worth it

happy anniversary enjoy ur nt xxxxxxxxxx hi to Dh

 

[xoxo4angel]

Horsey...glad OH is there to make you feel better. I have to tell mine exactly what he needs to do to make me feel better, so it takes the "he knows just what to do/say Hallmark moment" away, which leads to me being upset or hurt toward him. Textbook displacement!