ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

Horsey...glad OH is there to make you feel better. I have to tell mine exactly what he needs to do to make me feel better, so it takes the "he knows just what to do/say Hallmark moment" away, which leads to me being upset or hurt toward him. Textbook displacement!

sounds like me and OH but i suppose im lucky in one way that he listens to what i want and trys to provide it ( most of time , ha ha) could be worse , he could ignore me when i tell him what i need from him

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thank you thank you Laura!

no prob sweetie xxxxxxxxx
hope it makes sense to u x

It does! I like the peace, tranquility and positivity theme. I need those things right about now! The abundance card can be a few things...maybe I'll go play the lotto and win us that yacht! Or it simply could be the call DH got from his sister, pretty sure she has her hand out for money. Jeez, the cards are making plenty of sense now!

 

[lilesMom]

yey the queasies r nearly gone, water and food is great when u can eat um

 

[lilesMom]

Thank you thank you Laura!

no prob sweetie xxxxxxxxx
hope it makes sense to u x

It does! I like the peace, tranquility and positivity theme. I need those things right about now! The abundance card can be a few things...maybe I'll go play the lotto and win us that yacht! Or it simply could be the call DH got from his sister, pretty sure she has her hand out for money. Jeez, the cards are making plenty of sense now!

i often get the pos cards followed by abundance, i think its just saying if u keep your spriits up, good things are a coming
it always means good things on the way so its all good.
do lotto just in case
were u on here when i got my 1455E on lotto
i fell asleep doin angel cards and woke up, wrote down the nums and went back to sleep, i did the lotto with um next 2 days and won that amount on second day

 

[xoxo4angel]

What?? Congrats Laura! Our lotto is Wednesday worth 32million. Perhaps I'll get a ticket before my labs are drawn!

 

[lilesMom]

we have a lotto every day of the week in irl , some days we have 2
that was few months ago, i was so happy
was a nice win.
best o luck in ur ticket if u win 32 mil remember who prompted u to buy ticket h aha x

 

[xoxo4angel]

But of course Laura...I'll deliver your portion personally!

 

[lilesMom]

But of course Laura...I'll deliver your portion personally!

hee hee u wont be able to fly for few months if bfp x

 

[xoxo4angel]

But of course Laura...I'll deliver your portion personally!

hee hee u wont be able to fly for few months if bfp x

Then I'll travel by yacht! (Ok, I'll wire it to ya! )

 

[lilesMom]

ha ha u would get ur wish with the yacht after all x

 

[Storked]

Laura, go nap
I was quiet because I was baking and then replying to the one other thread I am active on. I only had the browser open to reply on it for several hours
Yay for scan tomorrow!
I don't blame you one bit for being mad at that coworker! As ladies who have lost ours we have a lot more respect for that budding life and. Ant understand why anyone would do ANYTHING to harm it! and it may very well be the cause of her boy's problems. Sad.
Love it when you do the cards- you cheer us all

Angel, you are tough! I don't think I could go to a shower now :-/
Yay for bed snuggles! Have you ever seen the soap opera Dark Shadows? I love it.
Oh beach! Did you have a blast? Was it nice to catch up?
And you are right about the women being selfish!
Men are asses. Go ahead and tell yours what to do for those Hallmark moments- you may resent him for making you tell him to do it but you know you will be more upset if he just never figures it out.

Hey Jen, how are you and baby today?
I plan to breast feed my kids. My whole family does that unless the babies just don't take to a nipple. Can I ask my one of my sisters your breast pump question? She counsels women on breast feeding and nutrition for their children in her office so I bet she would know. But I hear the pricey electric kind are best
Have a good time!

Horsey, glad that things are looking up! I think our losses, no matter when, whack the hell out of our hormones. I become so weepy and sensitive about a week before AF (now). We can't help it
So is today looking up?
And are you fairly outspoken in real life? *I like that

Amy, WHERE ARE YOU?! We miss you

Natasha, HI! Enjoying your DH?

Danni, how are you!!?

 

[lilesMom]

hi sweet pea, i know i must go to bedsoon but im just feeling better so i dont wanna waste it sleeping ha ha
hurray for baking, u make kitty litter cake can i have some
my scan is a week from tomor so nearly there xx but thanks xx i put it funny

it was medela , i had name a bit wrong

any other news bethany xxx

 

[lilesMom]

oh and bethany i wasnt stalking u on the other thread in case u saw my name
i remeber never giving up being nice to me when i joined and was checking to make sure her preg goin well glad it is

 

[xoxo4angel]

Amy? Jessica? Natasha? Hope you ladies are doing well! Gearing up for O time I imagine! My sister said she saw .88 cent hpts at Walmart and was going to grab me the entire bin! Lol.

 

[lilesMom]

cards for bethany
ur gonna like the third one espeacially

1) assertiveness : this situation can be healed gently and with love but there is also a need for strength and truthfullness. we will stand with u guiding u. handle conflict with honesty and love.

2)new partner ( dont fret isnt always romantically ) : a chance meeting is no mistake, it is a catalyst to set wheels in motion to answer ur prayers , pay attention to new people we send into ur life,. allow other peopl t help u instead of doin things alone.
could be a new pet coming into ur life. or could mean consult a expert.
your prayer is being answered through other people.

3) Change in direction ( pic on card is a baby in a basket with an angel and a stork on a cloud ) : the change that r happening are because of ur newborn willingness to follow angel direction and guidance. u r protected now and in future so follow ur heart to the happy outcome u desire. you're startin a new phase in ur life. pregnancy, birth r adoption of a child is poss.

 

[xoxo4angel]

oh and bethany i wasnt stalking u on the other thread in case u saw my name
i remeber never giving up being nice to me when i joined and was checking to make sure her preg goin well glad it is

You are so nice!

 

[lilesMom]

aw angel thanks , u too hon xx

 

[lilesMom]

Amy? Jessica? Natasha? Hope you ladies are doing well! Gearing up for O time I imagine! My sister said she saw .88 cent hpts at Walmart and was going to grab me the entire bin! Lol.

yeah where r our girlies
thats why i bulk buy, total poas addict here

 

[aaronswoman79]

The most painful part of my D&C was the IV in my hand (I still think they did something wrong with that because my hand felt like it was broke for a week after). The doctor said to wait 2 weeks to start trying again...I waited 6 days and thats only because of blood. My cervix was still a little sore so we just took it easy. I am staying "active" but not rushing anything. I did not plan my other 2 children, I just stayed "active" and God did his part. I do not want to stress myself out with pregnancy tests until my body gives me a sign that something is going on in there.

If its meant to happen (and I hope it is) it will. Stay positive and stress free everyone..."A watched pot doesn't boil"

Thank you. Sorry you've been through a loss. I am knocking on 37's door, so while I trust that God has a plan for me, I am thankful for the RE he has put in my life!

And good thing he trusts the doctor!
I am due for AF the 15th. You keep a journal? So organized! Go you! But you never know, those pesky PMS symptoms are so similar to early pregnancy. What symptoms did you have with your angels?
And you know, it is so soon- neither of us may have had any implantation yet. Those pesky babies could wait until the last minute

It's just a symptom journal, nothing fancy. I like to use it as a reference. My angels made me sleepy, so I was napping by 7dpo and had tender bbs at arm pit.

Its not the age, its the mileage Angel. And you and your husband look very healthy, especially with those 10k runs! I wish I were that healthy. Don't worry you will have your healthy lo in no time. I have my fx for you. All of us were right, remember back in late August early September we were all saying September and October were going to be good months? We already have Laura and Jen who are expecting, now it is just time for the rest of us to catch up, and we will in due time!!

 

[lilesMom]

im off to bed sweeties, chat soon
love and to all xxxxxxxxxxx