ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

thanks jessica, u will be with us really really soon xxxxxxxxxxx
i can feel it in my bones xxxxxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

U guys cheered me up with your gross cakes. I am having a rough spot. I told oh we are breaking up. I should have been seven months. Stuffs hard right now. I am alone at home. I gotta force myself to go to sleep. Called in to work tomorrow. Kind of a bad move. I'm being a mess. Thx for the laffs. Next stop road kill cake and compost carrot cake.

Horsey, I was right there last week! I told dh I wanted a divorce, I even threw all of his clothes out of our closet, I was so pissed at him. I hope both of you can work it out hon. Just remember, men think so differently than us. I know it can be so frustrating. Sometimes when we are down or fed up they don't react like we expect them to, but they do care and love us. They just have weird ways of showing it, or lack of showing it at times. And they aren't that good at understanding that we are very hormonal and moody right now, especially with the losses that we have had to deal with. Hang in there hon, when you need a good laugh just remember Bethany's kitty litter cake. lol.

 

[aaronswoman79]

thanks jessica, u will be with us really really soon xxxxxxxxxxx
i can feel it in my bones xxxxxx

Thank you sweet Laura! I hope to God we all can be bump buddies very soon.

 

[aaronswoman79]

And men are contrary like that: tell them no and they want it but if you offer it to them it doesn't happen. Bit unfair really

Sounds like me 6 year old. You say no and they want things more and more. lol. Men can act like children, better yet toddlers. lol.

 

[aaronswoman79]

laura so sorry you had to see her drink ugh! ppl like that make me sooo angry!! My friend drank and smoke and her son is now 4 and has serious behavior and developmental problems. He is also extremely overweight and very mean! He HURTS!! anyways know that your taking care of your lil one and that is the best you can do! Also know you have a group of girls that youll never hear that we did such a thing from! So rant all you want! Makes me appreciate you all even more! Yay for that ultrasound scan tomorrow! Cant wait to hear how many beats per minute!

Btw did or are any of you ladies going to breast feed? I started a thread asking about breast pumps that are good to use but not getting much feed back. So figured I asked for any info you ladies may know about the whole process because i am not educated on this topic yet.

Out to dinner now with the husband for our anniversary and to see Taken 2! Hope you ladies are having a nice day!

Angel and bethany I agree with laura! Its still to early! Prays being said for you!

oooh Take 2. Liam Neeson killing everybody once again!! lol. Pretty tough for a 60 year old huh! I loved the first movie, hope you enjoy this one! Happy Anniversary!! Enjoy your evening with your dear husband!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Horsey...glad OH is there to make you feel better. I have to tell mine exactly what he needs to do to make me feel better, so it takes the "he knows just what to do/say Hallmark moment" away, which leads to me being upset or hurt toward him. Textbook displacement!

Yeah, same with my dh, and its so weird because I have to tell him the same thing over and over again. You would think he would get a clue by now. Textbook displacement. lol. Good one. Angel, are you a writer? Those AF poems, you should get those published. They are really clever!

 

[Storked]

Laura, a week from tomorrow? I will try to be patient
No news here except that the apartment called for more verification of my social security number- think it must be confusing seeing as how I recently (this year) changed the name on it.
Kind of worrying that we our application may be denied because I have horrible credit from my first marriage. But my husband’s credit is great and he is the one who supports the family.
Hehe what other thread? Oh I saw where you were checking on Never! She is such a sweetie pie and doing great
Thank you so much for the cards- they always ring so TRUE!
Sweet dreams Laura.

Angel, get that bin!

JESSICA! Hi I agree with Laura that your rainbow is near.
Men are emotionally stunted children, so right! How are you today??

 

[aaronswoman79]

Laura, a week from tomorrow? I will try to be patient
No news here except that the apartment called for more verification of my social security number- think it must be confusing seeing as how I recently (this year) changed the name on it.
Kind of worrying that we our application may be denied because I have horrible credit from my first marriage. But my husband’s credit is great and he is the one who supports the family.
Hehe what other thread? Oh I saw where you were checking on Never! She is such a sweetie pie and doing great
Thank you so much for the cards- they always ring so TRUE!
Sweet dreams Laura.

Angel, get that bin!

JESSICA! Hi I agree with Laura that your rainbow is near.
Men are emotionally stunted children, so right! How are you today??

Bethany, are you planning on being a stay at home mom? I have been for many years. When I had my first daughter at 20, I was already my father's caregiver so I took care of him as well as raising her (not easy!). He passed away when my youngest daughter was 1. I was 27. I feel that taking care of my sick father, helped me learn to be more patient with my 6 year old who has special needs. I guess everything happens for a reason. It works better that I stay at home with my daughter because nobody understand her better than me. Not even my husband. Believe me, he wouldn't have the patience. lol. So now I home school her. Not easy with her emotional problems, but I try my best. I don't think the school system could offer her the care that I do, mama knows best. hehe. So long story short, I kinda just became at stay at home mom. I am looking to somehow work from home though, to bring in extra income. It's hard though because there are a lot of scams out there when it comes to working from home. I know I'm rambling a lot today, I tend to do that with you girls. Not sure why. lol. So anyways, how are things going Bethany? I hope you get that apartment!! FX. Oh, and I'm cd4 today. So just planning ahead for this cycle. Want to tackle every avenue I can. lol. I want a lot of healthy swimmers to catch that eggy.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy?? Where are you hon? I hope everything is going good with your in-laws visit!!

 

[Storked]

Laura, a week from tomorrow? I will try to be patient
No news here except that the apartment called for more verification of my social security number- think it must be confusing seeing as how I recently (this year) changed the name on it.
Kind of worrying that we our application may be denied because I have horrible credit from my first marriage. But my husband’s credit is great and he is the one who supports the family.
Hehe what other thread? Oh I saw where you were checking on Never! She is such a sweetie pie and doing great
Thank you so much for the cards- they always ring so TRUE!
Sweet dreams Laura.

Angel, get that bin!

JESSICA! Hi I agree with Laura that your rainbow is near.
Men are emotionally stunted children, so right! How are you today??

Bethany, are you planning on being a stay at home mom? I have been for many years. When I had my first daughter at 20, I was already my father's caregiver so I took care of him as well as raising her (not easy!). He passed away when my youngest daughter was 1. I was 27. I feel that taking care of my sick father, helped me learn to be more patient with my 6 year old who has special needs. I guess everything happens for a reason. It works better that I stay at home with my daughter because nobody understand her better than me. Not even my husband. Believe me, he wouldn't have the patience. lol. So now I home school her. Not easy with her emotional problems, but I try my best. I don't think the school system could offer her the care that I do, mama knows best. hehe. So long story short, I kinda just became at stay at home mom. I am looking to somehow work from home though, to bring in extra income. It's hard though because there are a lot of scams out there when it comes to working from home. I know I'm rambling a lot today, I tend to do that with you girls. Not sure why. lol. So anyways, how are things going Bethany? I hope you get that apartment!! FX. Oh, and I'm cd4 today. So just planning ahead for this cycle. Want to tackle every avenue I can. lol. I want a lot of healthy swimmers to catch that eggy.

Jessica, I am going to be a stay at home mom! My husband hates the thought of me getting a job (though I apply to them because I miss having my own money. And hate explaining to people that I am not employed when they ask what I do.)
That must have been so difficult to care for your father- you are such a strong woman Jessica. A great example to me.
How do you like homeschooling? I have a sister that has contemplated it and know a ton of ladies that do it and just love love love it. It is trying AND rewarding I bet. And trying your best to be patient with your daughter is all you can do and most likely more than she would get at school
Working from home...I actually think I saw article ideas on this the other day. From Redbook. I will see if I cut it out- surely scams wouldnt be listed in such publications?
And ramble away! It doesn't even seem like rambling to me- it always makes total sense what you say
Things are great aside from me worrying about the apartment application now (I mean why did they need faxes of my SSN??)
Did you decide on FertilAid for your DH? I think I may talk my husband into taking it as well. I read bad reviews on the women's but great for the men's! We can just take awesome prenatals and maybe the FertileCM

 

[aaronswoman79]

Laura, a week from tomorrow? I will try to be patient
No news here except that the apartment called for more verification of my social security number- think it must be confusing seeing as how I recently (this year) changed the name on it.
Kind of worrying that we our application may be denied because I have horrible credit from my first marriage. But my husband’s credit is great and he is the one who supports the family.
Hehe what other thread? Oh I saw where you were checking on Never! She is such a sweetie pie and doing great
Thank you so much for the cards- they always ring so TRUE!
Sweet dreams Laura.

Angel, get that bin!

JESSICA! Hi I agree with Laura that your rainbow is near.
Men are emotionally stunted children, so right! How are you today??

Bethany, are you planning on being a stay at home mom? I have been for many years. When I had my first daughter at 20, I was already my father's caregiver so I took care of him as well as raising her (not easy!). He passed away when my youngest daughter was 1. I was 27. I feel that taking care of my sick father, helped me learn to be more patient with my 6 year old who has special needs. I guess everything happens for a reason. It works better that I stay at home with my daughter because nobody understand her better than me. Not even my husband. Believe me, he wouldn't have the patience. lol. So now I home school her. Not easy with her emotional problems, but I try my best. I don't think the school system could offer her the care that I do, mama knows best. hehe. So long story short, I kinda just became at stay at home mom. I am looking to somehow work from home though, to bring in extra income. It's hard though because there are a lot of scams out there when it comes to working from home. I know I'm rambling a lot today, I tend to do that with you girls. Not sure why. lol. So anyways, how are things going Bethany? I hope you get that apartment!! FX. Oh, and I'm cd4 today. So just planning ahead for this cycle. Want to tackle every avenue I can. lol. I want a lot of healthy swimmers to catch that eggy.

Jessica, I am going to be a stay at home mom! My husband hates the thought of me getting a job (though I apply to them because I miss having my own money. And hate explaining to people that I am not employed when they ask what I do.)
That must have been so difficult to care for your father- you are such a strong woman Jessica. A great example to me.
How do you like homeschooling? I have a sister that has contemplated it and know a ton of ladies that do it and just love love love it. It is trying AND rewarding I bet. And trying your best to be patient with your daughter is all you can do and most likely more than she would get at school
Working from home...I actually think I saw article ideas on this the other day. From Redbook. I will see if I cut it out- surely scams wouldnt be listed in such publications?
And ramble away! It doesn't even seem like rambling to me- it always makes total sense what you say
Things are great aside from me worrying about the apartment application now (I mean why did they need faxes of my SSN??)
Did you decide on FertilAid for your DH? I think I may talk my husband into taking it as well. I read bad reviews on the women's but great for the men's! We can just take awesome prenatals and maybe the FertileCM

My husband also hates the thought of me working. lol. I guess they are old fashioned? As for the homeschooling, it is great when my daughter cooperates, but there are days where she is basically unteachable. So you have to be patient. And about the apartment ordeal. It seems like its getting harder and harder to rent or own these days. Its screwed up because many Americans credit are down the drain due to economic problems, sometimes its almost unavoidable. It sucks. Oh and the FertilAid, I am going to order it, but I am so impatient, I hear it can take a few months to start working. And I just want it to work like the first day he starts taking it (you know, so he starts producing massive amounts of swimmers... I know tmi) lol. I know that is impossible, by the way. But I feel so impatient to be pregnant again, since the mc. Oooooh thanks for the FertileCM, never heard of it until you. I just researched and found good reviews on it. I have tried checking cm, and I almost seem to have none. I have read that some women produce more than others. Now thanks to Angel, I'm looking into whole food prenatal vitamins, been reading up and seems like a healthier option.

 

[lilesMom]

jessica we be bump buddies in no time xxxx

my cat has just sat on my chest so its hard to type he has gotten really snuggly lately

bethany fx on the apartment xxx

horsey so glad u r feelin bit better xxx

 

[horseypants]

good morning sunshines. i'm really happy. OH came back and we got smushy (i wish mine didnt want me to work, he's the opposite, but i am totally going to try to work out the stay at home mom thing for at least a year or two once this who baby thing finally materialises)

i love my doctor. i started clomid last night and am taking another progesterone test after ovulation.

i love you guys! i've been doing an early morning shift at work so i'm never at a real computer when i read/write lately (except right now, but im going on the air in 40 minutes).

lilesmum, have i told you how happy i am for you lately? and jen! and has anyone else joined the pregos officially yet? will read up later xoxoxoox good morning aaron's woman and angel

welcome, jessica xo

 

[xoxo4angel]

G'morning ladies.

Horsey...yay for rekindling with OH! And double yay for a proactive Dr!

Jessica, I'd say many of us are anxious to be pregnant again. You are certainly not alone in that quest!

Bethany, I second Laura on the well wishes for your new place! When is the move?

Jen, Laura hope the morning sickness is at bay!

Amy, Did the in laws eat you? Do we need to send reinforcements? J/k

Natasha, Danni...how are you ladies?

AFM, I am going to say AF is around the corner for me. Sparing you the details, let's just say the spotting is a bit more than what one would expect for IB, but not enough to be called flow. One more day and I get to see the Oracle!

 

[horseypants]

angel, sorry if it is something i missed, but tell me about this oracle?

 

[xoxo4angel]

angel, sorry if it is something i missed, but tell me about this oracle?

Oh sorry, nothing missed, my DH NEVER believes anything I tell him regarding ttc (despite my endless hours of research). He has to hear it straight from the Dr, so I refer to her as the oracle! Wish I had a real life oracle!!

Edit: You said at work "going on the air"...as in radio or television?

 

[horseypants]

ahhhhhhhhhhh! angel, seriously, our oh's have a lot in common. too funny. mine always wants to hear it from the doc. apparently our obsession and 100 percent attention to our own lady parts is not sufficient expertise lol. he's getting better with it since i started temping every morning though. he asks me, "what do the temps say." if you've got the time, catch me up on what the doc appointment is going to consist of. otherwise, i'll pick it up when i catch up on all my backwards reading on this here thread.

 

[xoxo4angel]

I agree! I've had this body for 36.11 years...and my AF for 20+, so why can't he just take my word for it! He looks at the app on my phone to see where I am in my cycle. I go to the RE tomorrow for blood work to see if pg or not (I'll be 10dpo). I'll tell her about the spotting, so she'll prob throw in a few more hormones to be checked. DH leaves Friday for a few weeks and we aren't wasting any cycles, so IUI will be on the shelf.

 

[horseypants]

ok excellent - imma throw more dust on yoU!

 

[xoxo4angel]

ok excellent - imma trow more dust on yoU!

Nice! I'll take it!

Maybe on Clomid you'll have multiples! Then OH will have to cave and let you stay home! My doc wouldn't give me anything! 2 mc's due to egg quality and there is nothing they can do for it? It's the pits, but I guess I'm bound to get a good one at some point!