ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Hi ladies! :wave:


Laura, how are you doing sweets ? I hope youre getting lots of rest ! Did you ever decide what you are going to do about that lunch date you were trying to get out of ? Or did that already happen? Wait, was that before my in-laws came or after... oh boy Im all over the place! Forgive me if I got the timing wrong



:wave: to anyone I missed

Lots and LOTS of to you all!

hi babe , how u today?
im gettin like 10 r 12 hrs sleep a nt but im still
i thought i had fixed my by eating rice cracker at nt and before i get out of bed but it just postponed it i be worried if i stopped gettin it now anyway so i cant win
um im a goldfish i cant remember what lunch i was tryin to get out of , does sound like me though , ha ha
i get lazy
any news with u hon? xxxxxxx

hahah nothing new with me... just waiting for our +OPK .. Im worried that last month either we too much or that we stopped too soon so Im really hoping that the opk does the trick this month! If I fell pg this month, the baby would be due in July near DH's bday.. what a great bday present that would be huh!

 

[lilesMom]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WNZ6xscWooA&feature=related

Had to share this extremely emotional sad video with you ladies. This is the hospital I would have had my son at. Also I feel sometimes if I made the wrong choice and should have tried to have him. I wonder if the outcome would have been the same and I would have been able to have him alive a few short days or if he would have been a stillborn like they said. I am glad im pregnant again as his EDD is in 5 days but at the same time I cant help but wonder who he would have been.

aw jen , im crying for u here xxxxxxxx
we cant torment ourselves like that, we follow docs advise cos they r the ones with yrs of training and experience xxxx
i waited nearly through 3 weeks of scans to make sure i should have d and e cos i was admanant they were could be wrong but they werent . when i had d and e they knew 100% that my baby had stopped growing 3 weeks previously , its gut wrenching and horrible but we couldnt have had our babies with us no matter what we did so we did what we had to do, love u hon, please dont think like that... xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
u did ur very best for ur baby, as did i, just keep that with u, nothing else.
they know how much we loved and will always love them xxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

Negative HCG...and according to hormones AF is due Friday! I guess a 12 day LP is alright! Back to the drawing board...Dr is prepping the freezer!

aw balls angel!!!!! thanks god for ur back up plan so u dont have any extra delays xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

that would be an unreal present amy xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

just found out a girl i chatted with after d and e on here is preg yest. (we had d and e within 2 days of each other ) she is due same day as me and now she had a scan today and she is preg with twins wow so happy for her

 

[lilesMom]

where r all my girlies? what ye doin for the day? xx
i had lunch with my sis and then called u to my niece who has the 2 week old. poor girl is struggling with breast feeding, she was bit upset. hate seeing her upset . i dont mean to be insensitive , if ye dont want me to talk about her baby i wont xxxxxxxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

awwww yay for twins! Thats wonderful news and gives me much hope!!! Im really hoping this cycle is it! Im really scared that something is wrong but I have taken a home fertilty test and everything says Im good so idk.. I hate that I was able to conceive right away the first time and not so much this time

Angel, ut oh! He better not try and get off the hook! lol fx for you and hope that he just wants to go to dinner just because.

 

[lilesMom]

thanks angel. yeah i am happy just got a bit freaked out this eve for no real reason, rol on scan tues xxxxx
dont let him back out, its not like its too hard for him, if ur willing to do it then i think its the least he could do tell him i said so xxxxxxx

at least it means u get to try a bit sooner ? always have to look for some bright side xxxxxx
enjoy ur dinner x

 

[lilesMom]

awwww yay for twins! Thats wonderful news and gives me much hope!!! Im really hoping this cycle is it! Im really scared that something is wrong but I have taken a home fertilty test and everything says Im good so idk.. I hate that I was able to conceive right away the first time and not so much this time

Angel, ut oh! He better not try and get off the hook! lol fx for you and hope that he just wants to go to dinner just because.

i hope i follow her lead with the great scan
just had a great big slice of cake to comfort myself its yummy sponge, cream and starwberries, thanks sis
hurray for fertility test. hon its great sign u got ur bfp so fast last time but keep in mind that was incredibly fast so no wonder its not a repeat this time, but it does prove ur very fertile so u should be gettin ur bfp really soon xxxx soon to be bump bud xxxx

 

[mommylov]

awwww yay for twins! Thats wonderful news and gives me much hope!!! Im really hoping this cycle is it! Im really scared that something is wrong but I have taken a home fertilty test and everything says Im good so idk.. I hate that I was able to conceive right away the first time and not so much this time

Angel, ut oh! He better not try and get off the hook! lol fx for you and hope that he just wants to go to dinner just because.

i hope i follow her lead with the great scan
just had a great big slice of cake to comfort myself its yummy sponge, cream and starwberries, thanks sis
hurray for fertility test. hon its great sign u got ur bfp so fast last time but keep in mind that was incredibly fast so no wonder its not a repeat this time, but it does prove ur very fertile so u should be gettin ur bfp really soon xxxx soon to be bump bud xxxx

FX for your next scan.. Im sure its going to be perfect! Cake sounds yummy!!! Im sooooo sleepy. I think all this company and work going on at the house is catching up with me. I really need to get some rest this week if we are going to try. I think youre right, I know we were lucky to conceive on the first try the first time but I guess a part of me is just scared that something from the d&c is making it harder for a little bean to implant.

 

[lilesMom]

i thought the exact same amy, think we all have that fear but look at me, gettin my bfp wasnt the problem xxx
rest up for ur BD or just let DH do the work ha ah xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

i thought the exact same amy, think we all have that fear but look at me, gettin my bfp wasnt the problem xxx
rest up for ur BD or just let DH do the work ha ah xxx

I like this! And I know your scan will go well Tuesday! I hope you get a pic!

So, DH and I did go to dinner...DH bought me a beautiful bottle of vino and said I not only needed it, but deserved it! Yay! He refrained from a glass, said his boys need to be top notch for their debut!

Thanks again ladies for your support!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Happy Anniversary to you and your husband Amy!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

i thought the exact same amy, think we all have that fear but look at me, gettin my bfp wasnt the problem xxx
rest up for ur BD or just let DH do the work ha ah xxx

I like this! And I know your scan will go well Tuesday! I hope you get a pic!

So, DH and I did go to dinner...DH bought me a beautiful bottle of vino and said I not only needed it, but deserved it! Yay! He refrained from a glass, said his boys need to be top notch for their debut!

Thanks again ladies for your support!

Yayy! Drink a glass for me Angel. Nice that your hubby is taking care of his swimmers! Think I will buy a bottle of wine also! Maybe a dessert wine since I have a sweet tooth. Sorry about af, but you aren't 100% sure it is af or are you? If it is AF, all i can say is, 1 extra month of healing and getting a nice healthy lining for your LO that is on the way!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thanks Jessica! I guess hormone levels are the tell all for cycles...my slippery little eggy dodged DH's swimmers! Yay for her being selective, I guess, maybe not? Haha!

Now that I've had time, I think, what if DH's swimmers are slow? Then us timing it to the exact day was not good...his might have needed a head start! Back to SMEP!

 

[Storked]

I’M HERE! Hehe…was having withdrawals but didn’t have a moment to get on earlier

Laura, hope you had a good chat with your sister and a good lunch!
Talk away about the baby, doesn’t upset me none dear. You are so freaking sweet to ask though. I love how considerate you are. MY ROLE MODEL!
How are you feeling?

Amy, don’t feel bad about cereal ever! We eat so much here as breakfast and as a snack
HAPPY ANNIVERSARY! hope the day was great! Get in some snuggles and discuss your awesome time coming up at the end of the month? Woohoo!
Afraid tonight was chicken and dumplings but I could do mushroom soup for Friday tomorrow is chicken chili with cornbread. DH is relieved that it is cool outside now. He hates how I love soup and ice drinks in any weather
As far as apt…no call. I guess I should call them but am afraid to hear no. Ugh.
And thanks for the pic compliment! Stole it off FB but it makes me so happy!
Still using the OPKs?

Hey Angel, I am the baby so all the siblings are older but the sister was SO wrong because AF came four days early. Can you believe that?!
Love your profile pic btw- super duper awesome!
Has AF kind of started for you too? Aw crap just read that you said negative hcg. Our sticky ones will come! Gotta repeat the mantra until it happens. Love ya girl!
Was the wine amazing? And score for your husband watching out for the swimmers!

Praying, sounds like you have a great doctor and

Jen honey… and I am so sorry. I think that any choice would have been hard and so painful.
I love you.

Jessica, HI! How are you?

Natasha, Danni, Horsey...love you gals.

AFM: damned witch showed FOUR days early. CD 26. Wasn't even expecting it. DH was pretty disappointed so we went to GNC and both of us are on a fertility blend.
I'd be more sad if he hadn't bought me some other things (makeup! Clinique bonus buy! Whee!) with more to get me tomorrow (Books! Trader Joe's!) and I will get to see my sister and bitch.
And when my husband isn't around trash talk him for his moronic political opinions that he is always shoving down my throat

 

[jen435]

Angel I very sorry. Even all that science cant predict a fast bfp boo I was excited. Now if your really out then at least DH is being a sport and going through the motion for you. But if you arent officially out then im still going to have faith til AF shows. How sweet! If his swimmers are slow my doctor told me a man drinking some pepsi before BD is suppost to stimulate them and make em swim faster. Maybe a question for the doctor to verify. I know that female swimmers last much longer and are slower. So maybe he has better girl swimmers. Male are faster and die quicker so i heard. Anyways this month is hopefully a nice thick healthy lining for your egg to burrow into. I hope you enjoy your wine! DH is correct you deserve it! Im happy DH is so supportative after a disappointing day. That sticky bean must come soon!!

Amy Fxd for this cycle for you! Dont you worry your pretty little head that baby will stick and you are fertile! Its the matter of timing and catching that egg! Are you getting any signs of two pink lines on your test stick yet when you eject it? Id do everyother day til you get two lines then dtd once then when you get YES go to town... I think thats what helpped us. That fact we gave it a rest and let the quanity build up. I also really think the grapefruit juice played a huge role too for my ewcm bc i had tons after two cycles of drinking. Hang in there and just keep watching the opk test lines after you eject them til you get your YES. When you start to see "two" lines forming your close to ovulation.



Laura your sleeping alot! I hope your okay and this is all a good sign! Im anxious for your scan on tuesday! You should be hearing that amazing babies heartbeat!

Natasha Danni how are you?

Jessica hi! How are you?

 

[jen435]

Bethany that witch just dont get it!! GRR!! Well time to aim for that July baby! I am so sorry AF showed her ugly face but score for DH knowing how to make his wife HAPPY! He sounds incredible bethany! Im so happy to know your with a loving man. I hope that blend works incredible for you this cycle and you nail it! Show that witch who's boss! That goes for all you ladies!

 

[jen435]

Laura that is incredible that she is having twins! simply amazing! God really does bless us and some with a two for one! Im anxious to see how clomid works for horseypants this cycle!