ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Angel, I may try OPKs again next cycle. What kind are you using?
Did they say whether 60% was good or not? Three vials- WOOHOO!
And Angel, yup shorter LP gives less time to implant! When do you get to ask the doctor about it?

Laura...I still haven't called them. Gah

Lamb, gotta agree with Laura that you just don't need to feel bad if it doesn't happen right away. Body goes all wonky after a loss.

no i wont feel bad just gonna take it as it comes now and have a little hope each month.

Hi Lamb, welcome and so sorry for your loss . I agree with this ladies. DH and I conceived on our first try when I got pg and after the d&c I waited one cycle and then went for it last month. Since I was able to conceive so fast the first time, I just thought it would happen again this time and it didnt . I took a fertility test and all because I too was scared something happened after my surgery but the home fertility test said that I was A-OK ! I now just finished my 2nd cycle and am going to be trying again this month . I went through an emotional rollercoaster and Im sure I will go through it again but that is just natural given all that we have been through. Chin up, it will happen for ya!

 

[lilesMom]

Hi Ladies! Hope you had/have a great night!

Angel, I forget... is this your first cycle post d&c? Mine wanst normal at all and I was SUPER regular before my mc. After, it took 6 weeks to get af and then this last cycle she came right at 30 days but I think I O late if that even makes sense so my timing too is still a little off. It does seem to be on its way to becoming more normal but seeing as how you and your dr are monitoring so close, there are things you see right now that we normally dont so that too may play into the whole "Well wait, I thought that phase happens after X amount of days". Hang tight and I agree with asking your dr about it just to be on the safe side.

In other news, it has been SOOOOO quiet here and I LOVE IT! That sounds mean and a part of me does miss the company but boy is it nice to have peace and quiet. I think a lot of people dont like her but for the wrong reasons. She is one of the more social people in my dept and so you can hear her always talking to someone and I think a lot of people here dont like that. I actually love that about her but I dont like that she doesnt give you a chance to respond to her or to talk about anything as she likes to cut off people and begin talking about herself. Other than that, she is ok.

Hope everyone is off to a great morning so far and a great night for Laura!

its only 3.30 in the eve hon but thanks xx

glad ur gettin some peace at work at last xxxxx
maybe she be mellow when she comes back off hols xxx

 

[Storked]

Amy, enjoy the silence honey! Enjoy it

Laura, I called and they said they hadn't heard back from their screening department. Gah.

 

[lamb27]

thanks mommylov hope you are ok...we havent waited obviously for my 1st cycle to come but just gonna taje everything as it comes now xxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[mommylov]

Hi Ladies,
I am new to this site and alittle scared have been through so much in the last few months. I had a miscarriage on the 4th july and passed the baby 5 days later was very heart breaking as they never put me in for a D&C. Then i had a mass bleed on the 31st july and ended up in hospital and ended up getting a infection they finally decided to do a D&C after the D&C i had a bleed for 10 days then it stopped for a week and i got a period. I was shocked that i got one so soon and i though when is this bleeding ever going to stop i just want to get back to normal.
My period stopped on the the 3rd of september what a relief. Only to start my period again on the 27th sep 4 days before it should be due and a heavy bleed for 2 days and then nothing after 3 1/2 days had completely stopped. Has anyone had this before after a misscarriage do i need to go get it checked out . Need some help

Mummabear, oh my goodness Im so sorry to hear about all that you have been through.. I cant even imagine. Though I didnt have the same experience so I dont have any great answers for you, know that you have come to the right place for great support! This group of ladies is by far the best at getting how you feel and just saying the right things. I really hope you find some comfort here and hope that you feel much better soon.

 

[horseypants]

<--i found that for you

storked, lovely. tell me about your makeup?

 

[lilesMom]

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thank you hun really appreciate your advice and kind words..yes im feeling better than what i did 2 weeks ago but its not without the help from people off here,im just gonna take everyday as it comes and when my body is ready then we will conceive again..it has defo made me a stronger person and i have a stronger bond with my partner,i just felt slightly guilty as i was ment to be pregnant with our 1st child now not trying again but im sure everyone feels like that xxxxxxxxxxx

i had people on here help me when it happened me, it does help to have a place to get answers and just rant and rave some days xxx anything goes here, it helps to get it all out xx
t gets that little bit easier everyday, but i did have few little setbacks but then came on again after xxx some little milestones wil throw u back a little but htat is normal, it helps to know thats its normal i felt sorry if htat sounds confusing best way i can put it xxx
veryone totally feels like that chick, guilt for something we had no part in, but thats all natural. i am expecting again just to let u know that it can happen fast but i feel a little guilt at being preg witha different baby if you know what i mean xxx silly but feelings arent logical. xx we r on here a lot this is a chatty thread so whenever u need us , there is nearly always someone here, im off work for a while so im here a lot, xxxxxxx

 

[Storked]

<--i found that for you

storked, lovely. tell me about your makeup?

Needing some makeup porn?

And LOL on the emoticon! Perfect!

 

[mommylov]

mommylov - surely someone else will step up to be annoying now lol i shouldnt tempt fate. enjoy the peace xoxox

Dear AF
I think we have started off on the wrong foot. When I asked you to come in a timely manner, I did not mean like NOW! You showing up unannounced when I was a teen was like my right of passage into womanhood...women everywhere can relate. We are now at a point where I need you to keep at bay, stop holding my uterus hostage and give me a chance to properly conceive. I know you are busier than on Christmas Eve, but I appreciate your attention to this matter.
Angel

Bethany/Horsey, I TOTALLY am enjoying this and really treasuring every moment lol and youre right, there are plenty of people here that are more annoying . She just sits RIGHT next to me so she is sometimes hard to avoid but these others I can slip away heheh

Angel, I swear your "dear AF" letters are the best! I hope she gets it right this month

 

[mommylov]

<--i found that for you

storked, lovely. tell me about your makeup?

Needing some makeup porn?

And LOL on the emoticon! Perfect!

Buahahhah

 

[Storked]

angel, can you write to her for me? tell her when she's through resolving your claim, she's evicted from my womb for ev er. dude seriously, my afs are totally weird after mc. they were weird with my natural mc and after the d&c. i just had my fourth af and it was weird. my cycles are all different lengths the first four times too. and i'm not the only one. i doctor googled the muffins outta that one, lemme tell you! and you know what? my mood has been crazy during af too cause there's so much post d&c anxiety for me. and i know my doctor did a great job because everyone can't stop singing her praises at the ultrasound tech's lab. the tech actually told me how great my doc was mid-examination and every time af comes with a whisper then a bang bang bang bang, i'm still gripped by fear until she's on her way out and things finally quiet down again. i'm pissed off at her for you.

Thanks Horsey! I'll start drafting AF's Eviction Notice for you! It'll be a temporary eviction though, we kinda need her to prevent menopause!

It is true angel! Can the witch be reasoned with you think? Maybe instead of notices we should resort to voodoo

 

[lilesMom]

Amy, enjoy the silence honey! Enjoy it

Laura, I called and they said they hadn't heard back from their screening department. Gah.

argghh how anoying, least its not a no xxxxxxxxxx
fx for u xxxxxxxxxxx u sound like u really prefer that one x

 

[Storked]

mommylov - surely someone else will step up to be annoying now lol i shouldnt tempt fate. enjoy the peace xoxox

Dear AF
I think we have started off on the wrong foot. When I asked you to come in a timely manner, I did not mean like NOW! You showing up unannounced when I was a teen was like my right of passage into womanhood...women everywhere can relate. We are now at a point where I need you to keep at bay, stop holding my uterus hostage and give me a chance to properly conceive. I know you are busier than on Christmas Eve, but I appreciate your attention to this matter.
Angel

Bethany/Horsey, I TOTALLY am enjoying this and really treasuring every moment lol and youre right, there are plenty of people here that are more annoying . She just sits RIGHT next to me so she is sometimes hard to avoid but these others I can slip away heheh

Angel, I swear your "dear AF" letters are the best! I hope she gets it right this month

Angel's letters are the bomb!
Haha I am telling you Amy just as soon as you settle in to your peace in your area she will be back from vacation and you will be so much more annoyed because for a while you had a break from her

 

[horseypants]

yes, angel, you are so right about how we dont want her permanently evicted. i always forget that, so i am glad it is you drafting the letters. i get too emotional and wanna kick her out for good - hold me backl! whew!

bethany, you got it. and coincidentally today i am having delusions of grandeur about starting a famous makeup blog and that is my other excuse for wanting more more more - i mean other than the fact that i need makeup porn to survive.

mommylov, i am impressed with your use of emoticons. how many posts until we've used them all i wonder?

 

[Storked]

Amy, enjoy the silence honey! Enjoy it

Laura, I called and they said they hadn't heard back from their screening department. Gah.

argghh how anoying, least its not a no xxxxxxxxxx
fx for u xxxxxxxxxxx u sound like u really prefer that one x

Maybe it is a no and they are too pansy to admit it

 

[lamb27]

congratulations if you dont mind me asking how long did you wait to try again..yeh i have moments in the day when i feel abit upset but it makes you realise how strong we actually are doesnt it.
yes im very grateful for this website and i am also off work due to my miscarriage but going bk next thursday but the break has definetly helped xxx

 

[lilesMom]

Amy, enjoy the silence honey! Enjoy it

Laura, I called and they said they hadn't heard back from their screening department. Gah.

argghh how anoying, least its not a no xxxxxxxxxx
fx for u xxxxxxxxxxx u sound like u really prefer that one x

Maybe it is a no and they are too pansy to admit it

naw, no one is chicken over the phone xxx
face to face maybe but....
u will hear abck tomro that u got it, thats my prediction, lets all believe it and make it happen ha ha

make up porn sounds good, i normally love my make up but i have gotten so lazy now im not in work
i am clean though , i had my shower ha ha, just no grooming

 

[Storked]

yes, angel, you are so right ab0ut how we dont want her permanently evicted. i always forget that, so i am glad it is you drafting the letters. i get too emotional and wanna kick her out for good - hold me backl! whew!

bethany, you got it. and coincidentally today i am having delusions of grandeur about starting a famous makeup blog and that is my other excuse for wanting more more more - i mean other than the fact that i need makeup porn to survive.

I love makeup blogs- would totally follow yours! I really just got lipsticks and a chubby stick. All in shades of pink because I look drab in the browns that seem to be so popular with Clinique! And I got the bonus bag with the lotion, mascara, almost lipstick in flirty honey (when did I miss that one? Better than black honey!) and a compact of pinkish blush and purple/slate eyeshadows!

Ok, now tell me your favorite makeup brands! What do you wear the most? Favorite products. I need descriptions

 

[Storked]

Amy, enjoy the silence honey! Enjoy it

Laura, I called and they said they hadn't heard back from their screening department. Gah.

argghh how anoying, least its not a no xxxxxxxxxx
fx for u xxxxxxxxxxx u sound like u really prefer that one x

Maybe it is a no and they are too pansy to admit it

naw, no one is chicken over the phone xxx
face to face maybe but....
u will hear abck tomro that u got it, thats my prediction, lets all believe it and make it happen ha ha

make up porn sounds good, i normally love my make up but i have gotten so lazy now im not in work
i am clean though , i had my shower ha ha, just no grooming

Hopefully we get it!

Aw don't feel bad about not wearing makeup every day! We all have lazy days yup! And yay for shower!