ttc after a d&c

So now its my turn to have all sorts of random thoughts :wacko:... this whole not conceiving on the first shot post d&c is really messing with me :cry:. My CM is different, periods seem to be a bit more painful and when I call thr dr.. they tell me that this is all normal and wont even let me come in to see them :nope:. Sigh, what if something is really wrong and they wont find out for months :shrug:! :sadangel:
 
amy, i hate to agree with the docs cos they can be dumbasses but.....
i had all the above too honey and i did get my bfp, xxxxx
and we all worry that we r messed up a bit after d and e and so far no one is, thank god, it is very rare to have problems after and usually its from multiple d and e's xxx
u will get bfp too, very soon xxxx
first time i tried , it took 3 months, this time stragiht away :) so obvs it varies no matter how fertile u r. u also took ur fertility test and it came back great so dont fret.
i know easier said than done
u said urself u reckon u Ov late and stopped too soon, if u know the problem , if this is why then it is easy fix (and i do agree with u i think this may be why, r could just not be lined up right to happen this month) , lots more BD is what i prescribe ha ha xxxxxxxxxxx big hugs xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
aw angel hope ur friend will be alright xx i meant to say before i like ur pic but forgot xxxxxx
give ur man a kick in the butt when he comes home,xx he is prob grumpy cos he doesnt wanna go away soon. xx when is he off again? xxxxxxx
my oH always uses me to find things and worst thing is 9 times outta 10 i do know where they r, he must not be very observant :)
 
Thanks Angel & Laura! You girls always know the right things to say :hugs:

Angel, so sorry about your friend but so glad that she will be out for the walk :hugs:! There are a few ladies here in the office that are survivors and I am humbled everytime I hear thier stories :awww:. Great plug and love the pic :flower:! Sorry DH was being a little poop :pop:. Mine gets the same way when he travels.. so frantic and all over the place :help:. I remember once he was asking the same questions "Wheres______" and was looking for things and I was trying to lighten the mood and while I was helping him, I said "You know it will be the last place we look" and he responded with "Thanks cpt obvious"..... *insert scratching record sound and then radio silence* :finger: He immedialty realized that was the wrong time to be using any kind of sarcasm and was so wrong and was like "Sorry sorry sorry, I didnt mean it like that" and I got flowers and choc dipped strawberries at work the next day... men... sheesh! I hope he does the right thing :trouble: lol

BTW, you seriously are so good at recapping and catching up! :thumbup:
 
I hope that it all works out the way you want and that he is back by the time you O. [-o<:hug:

Have a great lunch! :munch::friends:
 
So now its my turn to have all sorts of random thoughts :wacko:... this whole not conceiving on the first shot post d&c is really messing with me :cry:. My CM is different, periods seem to be a bit more painful and when I call thr dr.. they tell me that this is all normal and wont even let me come in to see them :nope:. Sigh, what if something is really wrong and they wont find out for months :shrug:! :sadangel:

:hugs: I too get those feelings and I am seeing a specialist. We'll get there doll...you may be closer to it than you think! Fx

Im with you... if you are seeing a speialist and they are not worried about the lp and Jen :baby: then Ill try to keep that all in mind and not worry. :flower:
 
im gonna go watch a film, gonna try and find a comedy and keep myself lightening up :) chat soon xxxxxxx
 
Hey girlies!!!

Wow firstly do apologise for not stopping by this week!
Ive been so busy with moving in and getting sofas and beds and cleaning and putting flooring down throughout the house!!

How are we all?!?! Jen Laura how are bumps? Any BFPs that i have missed?

Well! I am currently CD11, i think , not done any opks etc, all ive done is temp charting, had a big dip today so im hoping thats not signalling another visit from AF! Hopefully its just a fluke. I heard that a dip signals AF so FX it isnt this early!!!

Having alot more relaxed approach to TTC this month, moving in and work and college restarting all in the past two weeks have helped, i mean we are still bding, but its not because we know we are going to ovulate or need to, im quite glad i feel more relaxed now :)

How are u allllllllllllllll?!?!?!!? xxxxxxxxx
 
Hi Natasha!!!!! Hows the house coming along? You sound like you have been one busy girl! No more :bfp: yet but they are coming! Im close to your cycle, CD13 for me today but I did use an OPK this time but havent gotten my + yet. It is nice to be able to enjoy bd without worrying about catching the little eggy! How are you doing otherwise?
 
In the non TTC world im doing okay!! Had a few bitchy comments at work about the fact ive still not lost my baby weight :/ but i just smiled and walked away!!

Moving in is going brilliantly i really feel like we have become so much closer if possible than we were before! We sit and chill on the sofa and actually spend time together now! And are laughing more than we have in a while!

Hmm a drop followed by a rise means ovulation? See ive not been OPKing this month at all, havent had time! Done a few half hearted ones but just keep forgetting lol!!

Any women know of any temping tips ? xxxx
 
In the non TTC world im doing okay!! Had a few bitchy comments at work about the fact ive still not lost my baby weight :/ but i just smiled and walked away!!

Moving in is going brilliantly i really feel like we have become so much closer if possible than we were before! We sit and chill on the sofa and actually spend time together now! And are laughing more than we have in a while!

Hmm a drop followed by a rise means ovulation? See ive not been OPKing this month at all, havent had time! Done a few half hearted ones but just keep forgetting lol!!

Any women know of any temping tips ? xxxx

WHAT :saywhat: Some nerve! Who would even make a comment like that?!?! :grr:
 
I know :/ She just said * Youve not slimmed back down yet have you?* And i said what do u mean? She said *WEll its been a while since u lost your baby and you still look like youre carrying * i kind of looked at her with this WTF look on my face, then smiled and walked away :( Didnt bother me an AWFUL lot but still, people round here are ignorant as poo xxxx
 

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