ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

*SMH* wow. You would think she wouldve caught herslef when you said "What do you mean" ugh

 

[jen435]

GRR!! I just wrote a HUGE post and it didnt post!! and when I hit the back button the message area was empty!!! Frustrating!!

Natasha what angel said is correct! Horseypants and I temped. I dip followed by three days of high temps (steady or increase) confirms ovulation. Fxd for you!! Glad your relaxed and enjoying your house! We miss you!

Angel grr to DH a text isnt personable! I hope you get something special from him! And agree a kick in the butt when he gets home! Did AF actually come for you??? Or are you possibly still in?? Im kinda confused with that.

Amy laura and amy are correct! You ovulate later in a 30 dc... most ppl start to O at cd 14. Your not even there yet! You have a 20 day pack so youll get your +. Try to have fun BD with DH and act like its your anniversary for the rest of the month

Laura enjoy your comedy movie! Try not to worry about your LO. Your babys growing and its heart is beating strong. I will hear it on tuesday and then that should bring you much comfort. I cant wait to see your scan picture!

 

[jen435]

Natasha so sorry for her comment. Please dont listen to her! Its hard to loss when your stressed. I lost my belly but nothing on my butt/thighs... and i just got my pregnant body back and im not even as far as i was last time. Your going to fall pregnant and as long as your healthy and your DH compliments you dont you worry about others sweety! Your beautiful inside and out!

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Jen. I hope thats the case! I just dont get my body as I did before

Im really scared that my post op cm is not the same too so thinking about getting preseed tonight. Did you need to use any?

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thanks Jen thats really lovely xxxx

 

[jen435]

Preseed is a great product! Love it! If you get it use it tonight and every day you bd til 2 days after + opk. If you decide to use it dont try to go off your cm as it can get very confusing. It helps the swimmers live longer in a more nuetral environment. As for me yes it took me 4 cycles to become pregnant after d&c my doctor didnt want to see me for ttc either i would call and bother the nurse with questions often. My cm was an abundance throughout my entire cycle and it wasnt like that the entire 14 monthes it took me to concieve Liam. So I blamed it on the d&c. It wasnt just the fertile kind but creamy/dry too... So I do understand your frustration with that and the only thing I can think is its normal but you can fall pregnant as my 4th cycle this time was crazy cm also but I was using digital opks and preseed for two cycles this time before i got bfp if you recall. Af's where either shorter or longer (last one was longest) and unusually more painful then before d&c. I really think it depends on your lining and catching that egg on time. I know its not what you want to hear. I wish I could give everyone their bfp. I really want us all to be bump buddies NOW. But Its your second cycle ttc so have faith that it can happen and let your body be a baby friendly environment and let us think of the other stuff for you! Your LO is coming and you are okay im sure!

keep using those OPK's!

 

[mommylov]

Yes, thats EXACTLY how mine is too!! No EWCM like I had when I conceived before... it must have something to do with the d&c. Ok, im going to get the preseed tonight. Anyone in particular I should get? Particular store I should get it from? I have a Walgreens, Walmart, King Sooper (I think that is CO only though but not sure), Target, CVS... I think thats it lol

 

[mommylov]

I agree with Jen, Natasha.. I really want to go up to this person and shake them and be like "Really??!!? What is wrong with you!" doll!!!!

 

[jen435]

Its called Preseed any store is fine! I know its pricey (22.99 here) but a little bit goes a long way. But since your nearing ovulation use about 1/2 recommended amount and insert right before BD. As long as your laying down it wont get messy and keep your bum up after bd for 30 minutes if you can so the preseed and swimmers go where they need to go. At least thats what I did this round. Plus I used the soft cups. Loved those things. Fxd that is this your month! We are here for you!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

natasha welcome back hon. .
god that woman is cruising for a bruising, what an awfull thing to say to someone xxx
she is obvs an ass and ur right to forget her xxxxxx

jen when that happens me (post dissappears) hit back and then go into reply area and hit control and z.
works sometimes, very frustrating when that happens, x

aw angel thats cool. ,maybe no butt kicking just yet so xx

 

[Storked]

Jen, HI! How are you and bebe today?
And you must have a unique accent hehe! I'd cook for you if I was there.

Laura, glad you had a great time with your friend! That movie did look pretty good. How are you and bebe doing?
Hehe thanks for liking my picture on Facebook. Bill Maher was too funny about the debate. DH got mad at me and wouldn't speak to me last night afterwards. BUAHAHAHAHA!

Wannabewillow, I do adore Liam Neeson
So sorry you are having to go through this. When it sinks in that you are starting over it hurts so much

Amy, you could be ovulating later. I know some people on this site take Vitex for short luteal phases but you really never know how that could affect your cycle :-/
Know exactly how you feel about having to try more stuff post op. I got pregnant immediately- I can't help but wider why it is taking so long now. GRRR. We will be rewarded though. We will!

Angel, how dare the witch taunt you and take her time? I'll tell her to hurry up damnit!
And you make your hubby grovel
HURRAY FOR MACBOOK!
Are you running tomorrow? Yay! I promise I check my breasts- that cancer runs in my family. My grandma had to have her left breast removed. Was sad but she made it into a huge joke: it became family tradition to hug her and squeeze her fake titty (her word!)

Lamb, I prefer him in Dear Frankie

Natasha, YAY HI! How are you liking the temping? I kind of did it one cycle but missed a lot of days
Omg I cannot believe your coworkers would be such douches to comment on your weight. They are asshats.

Horsey, HI!

AFM: WE GOT THE APARTMENT! Now I have to call the other people and bitch at them for running our application after we said no and tell them we have a better place
Sorry was gone- kitty got the ball chop today and have just been running amok. I am going to miss some of the supermarkets here. Went shopping with my sister and got a haircut. Good day!
European ladies...how can so many of you fake our accent so well? I couldn't sound like any of you unless I lived with y'all lol!

 

[lilesMom]

bethany hurray for apartment , i predicted it ha ha
now predict bfps and sticky beans for all , lets all believe it and make it happen xx
thats fab , our girlie will be safe.
poor kitty, meow got that too when he was just 6 months but its for their own good , if they dont have it they roam and get lost.
poor DH, they r fun to tease sometimes though arent they ha ha.
how much of a haircut? trim or drastic
when people try and do the irish accent it just sounds awfull, i donno why, it must be hard to do, ive plenty practise, ha ha xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Kudos on new apartment Bethany!

 

[lilesMom]

sleepy lols, im off to bed, chat sooon xxx

 

[Storked]

Thanks Angel!

 

[Storked]

bethany hurray for apartment , i predicted it ha ha
now predict bfps and sticky beans for all , lets all believe it and make it happen xx
thats fab , our girlie will be safe.
poor kitty, meow got that too when he was just 6 months but its for their own good , if they dont have it they roam and get lost.
poor DH, they r fun to tease sometimes though arent they ha ha.
how much of a haircut? trim or drastic
when people try and do the irish accent it just sounds awfull, i donno why, it must be hard to do, ive plenty practise, ha ha xxx

I believe it. I do! Rainbows are coming!
It was just a trim. I am pretty predictable in the hair hehe.
Yeah you guys have some tough accents. I think anybody can talk like, say, a Texan. And there are so many European actors who sound American and so many American actors who sound like...an American trying to talk with a European accent and failing horribly. Keanu Reeves in Dracula comes to mind
Night night Laura!

 

[jen435]

Angel YAY for your awesome Birthday gift early!!! Doesnt make his behavior appropriate but at least he knows how to get an awesome gift!! Enjoy!! Bethany YAY for your new apartment!!! Poor kitty but he has great parents! So glad you had a nice day! Your just like me with a haircut! I am predictable no one ever even realizes I cut my hair! I soo happy for you girls!! Yes Yes PMA for those !!! These rainbow must be on their way for all!!!

fertilize those eggs!!! In the mean time dream and try to make fun!!

So DH and I went for a car ride today and he told me that he had a dream that we are having I told him wouldnt that be awesome but I know its one! He said the dream was so real and that he couldnt tell the gender He said he freaked out thinking two would be too much at one time! I secretly wouldnt mind

 

[Storked]

Jen! Maybe it was prophetic? Maybe you will go on to have another child after this one? Two siblings for Liam

 

[Storked]

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HI EVERYONE!